Please, help me!

[The_New_One]

I have a problem: I was in a german chat and talked with a nice girl. I told her about my fetish, she told me when she has been tickled and how and so on. But then I learned that this girl is living in my house (in another flat of course, I am living in a multi-story building)! First I was surprised. I am talking with a good-looking girl about foot tickling and she enjoys it! But then I got frightened….this girl is always sniffing around. She has two “suspects”: a friend of mine and, unfortunately, me. Now here’s my problem: should I tell her about my little fetish or should I just be quiet? You have to know: She wouldn’t retell it, but I am, well, I am very shy *grin* and I couldn’t get into her sight anymore. And that’s pretty difficult since we’re living in the same house!

 

[chode]

GO FOR IT!

Listen buddy, you have the best situation there is. So YOU chated with her and she was cool with the idea? She lives right by you?!!! This is a blessing, you should tell her. I am a shy fella myself when it comes to my love for tickling, i say go for it. You only live once and you wouldnt want to regret not telling her!

 

[Dave2112]

Every "coming out" situation is different, but given what you've told us...

...I would say be honest with her.

Since you've already chatted about it, I don't see where she'd think anything bad of you. Sometimes you have to take the Path that leads into a little bit of darkness, rather than the one with the Burger King and Starbucks on the corner.😎

 

[Haltickling]

Now, what an unique opportunity! Hundreds of tickle-fans would love to be in your shoes!

I don't know this girl, but here's how I would do it: When you see her next time, greet her with her chatname 'accidently', instantly correcting yourself. It doesn't matter at all if you blush a little, on the contrary. Girls often like shy guys... 😉

Or you could mention your phone number/e-mail addy at the next chat with her. Maybe it's much easier to reveal yourself during the chat...

Anyway, the best of luck to you!!! 🙂

 

[apologetick]

Please, help me....

I do not mean to be skeptical but the chances of someone you are chatting with on the Internet in such a specific fetish topic residing in your building... an interesting fantasy but highly unlikely. If it is true however, considering your shyness and reticence, I would not disclose that you are the one. Now I am a woman, and fairly bold, but if this was my downstairs neighbor I am sure I would not say, "Come up and tickle me sometime." As a male you may feel differently. You could strike up a conversation with her, get to know her, her value system, can she be trusted, etc. and then decide
Good story. I wish you success..

 

[TickledToDeath]

Opportunity will only knock for so long before turning around and walking down the stairs leaving.

IF you chat on a semi regular basis and are comfortable with each other and you both KNOW that you live in the same building, well, I say answer the door.

IF YOU are the only one who knows that you live in the same building, well then the next time you chat with her, let HER know that and see what her reaction is thereby allowing HER to make the decision to meet up.

TTD

 

[Darkknight]

Wow.. what are the odds? Even finding a gal in the same city would make winning the lotto easy! I'd be careful friend and would take
apologetick's advice to mind.

The closest I get to your story was a gal that lived 20-25 minutes from me. And a dear friend (a ticklephile) introduced us via the internet. She was a ticklee and a tickler's dream. I didn't get to tickle her for near 2 years. Just for a couple minutes (long complicated story) but anyway, as much as she loved being tickled, she
didn't leap out at me. Just be careful and if she's for real, you are another lucky sob. 😉

DK

 

[UnclStevel]

go for it!

Go for it! I met a girl through the tmf who lives in my town (st. louis) and she gave me her number, but I lost it, and I've been kicking myself because I can't remember who she was.

It's so rare that you find someone who shares the same interest in tickling, I hope you can find the gonads to come out about it. It may be the best experience ever!

Good luck my friend!😀


Steve

 

[The_New_One]

Wow...!

I want to thank you alot for all these great replies. Well, the story IS true indeed, but I think I told something wrong: She talked with me about tickling and that it is funny sometimes and she isnt disgust (is that right?) all the time, but she never said that she LIKE being tickled or tickle by herself. But anyway, thanks for you replies!