im new to the board and i wanted to ask a question b-4 i started to look around. My girlfriend is very ticklish...andshe has recently allowed me to tie her up and tickle her. well just trying her up to the bed and stuff isnt enough and me and her wanna try to experiement....so i was wondering....is there anywhere u can purchase stocks, restraints..anything that will increase the fun..like special lotion or tools?..if so let me know...if at all possible i will post pics of my gf's beautiful feet. but please help me out guys...and thanks.
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slap'n'ticklee
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Hmm well I need some decent 'cuffs as mine broke recently, so anyone that has any ideas, please spiel 
Thank you so much
Thank you so much
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Extreme Restraints?
I've never bought any of this, but I just googled "restraints" and got
http://www.extremerestraints.com/home.html
which is pretty mind-blowing in it's selection
-- I have no idea if their materials are good, reliable, etc., but that site seems to have (one heck of a variety...)
From there you can see what terminology is used
(such as "dungeon furniture," etc...) so you can do more general searches (www.Google.com , etc.) and compare merchandise from different sites ---
--- Or try Spenser's for fun toys in your local mall!!!
Haven't bought any of their stuff either, but they also have quite a selection of fascinatingly kinky material
I've never bought any of this, but I just googled "restraints" and got
http://www.extremerestraints.com/home.html
which is pretty mind-blowing in it's selection
-- I have no idea if their materials are good, reliable, etc., but that site seems to have (one heck of a variety...)From there you can see what terminology is used
(such as "dungeon furniture," etc...) so you can do more general searches (www.Google.com , etc.) and compare merchandise from different sites ---
--- Or try Spenser's for fun toys in your local mall!!!
Haven't bought any of their stuff either, but they also have quite a selection of fascinatingly kinky material
Extreme Restraints is excellent, though some of thier stuff will be a bit over the top for some here. Check out www.sub-shop.com for all manner of bondage stuff at very reasonable prices and also www.blowfish.com for a nice selection of restraints and a wide assortment of other sorts of toys.Ano-Nymous said:I've never bought any of this, but I just googled "restraints" and got
http://www.extremerestraints.com/home.html
which is pretty mind-blowing in it's selection
slap'n'ticklee said:Hmm well I need some decent 'cuffs as mine broke recently, so anyone that has any ideas, please spiel
Thank you so much
i heard about that love...a little english bird told me..oops a bird in england refers to a female sorry lol...
well anyway welcome to the forum..looks like lots of great suggestions for you..
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MnE0306 said:
Do the restraints you want to use have to be "official", i.e., purchased as ready-made? If not, perhaps I can give you a few pointers. (I tend to prefer the "innovative-inexpensive-but-highly-effective" sort. Maybe I'll change my name to Mistress MacGyver...LOL)
Exactly how immobile do the two of you wish her to be?
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Ohhh Mel lol, yeah indeed, I shall be looking at some of these sites for sure 
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😛oke3: isabeau said:
misstress aura...any pointer u can give would be appreciated...we usually just use anythign we can find like string or a belt or anything and it tends to levae marks/break/come loose or what have u...but anything u can help us with would be greatly appreciated...we want her to be as still as possible and to not be able to jerk away and such..thanks ahead of time
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MnE0306 said:
So sorry for the delay...this is the first chance I've had to sit down and address this for you with the attention you deserve. I know you only asked for pointers on what kind of restraints to use, but may I ask you to indulge me for a moment here? I always cringe a little when anyone seems like they're going to leap into a bondage experience without really researching what to do; a lot of potentially wonderful submissives have been scared away because of that, and I'm sure you want this to be as incredible an experience as possible for both of you.
When you are initially involving a partner in restraint, it has been my experience that moving a little more slowly at first will provide a much better foundation psychologically; remember, the seeds you plant those first few encounters contain the harvest of how your partner will feel in all her future encounters. If she's a "one-trial learner" and she becomes frightened or seriously uncomfortable, it challenges her security with you and you may never get her to willingly submit to restraint again. Let her choose her safeword and be sure she recognizes you will respond to it immediately. She's got to totally trust you--and you have to maintain an iron self-control in order for her to really let go for you.
The rule of thumb in regards to tie-offs is: the wider the area it covers, the less pinpointed the pressure on her skin will be. Also, the more difficult it is for escaping them, even if she's straining against them. I really don't think there's a need to spend a lot of money on bondage articles to begin with, unless you're looking for the effect of the appearance. Honestly, if you have a terrycloth bathrobe, the tie from that is absolutely perfect as a restraint for the wrists, if you bind them together (my preference). Wrists together with hands in prayer-position, wind it around at least 3 times, then (here's the secret) back through the wrists and between the hands. Tie it off with the other end and voila', you have nice, soft handcuffs that can be made much tighter comfortably than rope or even real cuffs. Extra rope or clothesline can then be tied around the "bundle" by passing it between the arms and wrists and then securing it to whatever you're using as your base.
No robe? Believe it or not, duct tape is also extremely effective...and cost-effective as well. The secret with this one is to place soft cloth between her skin and the adhesive, like an old t-shirt, dish towels, etc. Make sure the cloth extends out past the edges of the tape so the adhesive does not come in contact with skin at all, both to aid in painless removal at the end as well as to prevent the possibility of allergic reaction. Also, be certain that you have a pair of scissors close at hand for quick release, especially if you bind her hands together.
If you use the cloth-and-tape as a base cushioning individually on each wrist and ankle, you can then use regular rope, old neckties, belts or anything of that nature to secure her in a spread eagle position. (Although pantyhose is very strong and some tops swear by it, I don't really like using it; it usually stretches far too much to achieve real immobility, and I am personally insistent on as close to completely immobile as possible.)
There's also the option of plastic wrap. It's inexpensive enough to use an entire roll in a session if you want without costing more than a dollar or two. Just use a lot of it when binding hands or feet together. Go from just above the ankles to just past mid-calf, or from wrists as far up as is comfortable. But again, use it very liberally and remember to wind it tightly. Don't forget the scissors for afterwards!
I am going to assume you want her legs apart rather than together--I'm thinking you're after full-body tickling and will need access to her inner thighs and such. Obviously, the four corners of the bed are handy and traditional, but I am a big fan of using a spreader bar as well to make absolutely certain the legs remain apart and stationery, whether upright or prone--but that's something we can go into later. (If you decide you're interested in pursuing that type of information after you get your feet wet with this, let me know and I'll try to help further.)
I do recommend continuing to use the bed for the first few times; the more comfortable she is while bound, the more she'll be able to concentrate fully on the sensations you're producing. It can really detract from the pleasure if her shoulders are aching or her wrists are killing her from trying to bear her weight.
Also, just another little hint: keep a bottle of water or Gatorade nearby with a flexible straw for her. Not too much at a time if she's been frantic/frenzied, but a swallow or two every so often will be heavenly for her, and might help extend your playing a bit.
I think I covered all the bases...I hope you find some of this helpful. Please let us know how it goes!
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