I am not going to fill my response with senseless cliches.
I will however lay some cold hard fact and sound advise upon you my friend.
My heart was broken so many times in my 41 plus years of existance that scars have scars and my heart was placed on ice sooooo often and for sooooooooo long that an iceberg that sunk the Titanic would be envious of, surrounded my heart and encased it for well over a decade!
Until recently, it stayed that way.
Time....pain and patience and dealing with it believing that what has happened has done so for a reason.
IF someone breaks your heart, than that person was NOT meant to BE WITH you and visa versa.
While some people may or may not believe that there is truly ONE PERFECT person out there for each and every one of us, I have found and have always believed that the aforementioned is quite true.
There is indeed, ONE absolutely PERFECT mate for all of us.
Some settle for what ever reasons or reason from the fear of living a life of lonliness to just being in love with the IDEA of being in a relationship or marriage.......to surrendering to what they seem to belive is the "best that they can do" and so on and so on.
You have to use each experience, whether it be good and or bad and use it to pave the road that will lead you to YOUR destiny and the person you SHOULD be with and with YOU.
Trust me on this one my friend.
I waited a lifetime and endured more pain and torment of the heart and soul as well as the mind that would have driven most into insanity or worse, yet I prevailed though determination, patience and persistance.
Be YOU! Be Honest to yourself and to others.
It will all work out.
Definatly not overnight but then again, after the time passes and you do finally meet that special someone whom you will spend the rest of your life with happily, it will indeed seem as if it all fell into place overnight.
Life is not THAT short.
TTD