I have always wondered if occasionally a clip producer has a girl show up for a shoot and her boyfriend tags along. I'm sure that this has happened, and i wanted to hear if there has ever been a problem that has occurred because of it. I can imagine that some boyfriends may show up not quite understanding fully what their gf is doing and get quite aggravated when they see the male producer touching parts of her body (inner thighs and ass area) that he may prefer weren't touched by another man. If any producers have some good stories I'm sure others as well as myself would love to hear them. Being a guy it would be hard for me to watch my gf being handled by another man, but I would likely know better than to go with her to the shoot. Some guys are "macho" assholes and I'm sure they get a bit agitated and try and escalate something out of it.
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Producers having problems with angry boyfriends?
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interesting, ive been thinking about the same myself. Honestly if I was dating a tickle model or any other model in the so called adult entertainment industry, I would honestly stick my head in the sand. I know myself I'm a jealous guy with quite the temper (blame the latin blood) if I get angry. But I guess a tickle model gfi s not as bad a porn star gf. I do know of some tickle videos where the producers have had the boyfriend come in and do the more erotic/adult tickle parts of the film, like that one from Magic Touch Pro. But yeah personally I would be uncomfortable about other guys touching my girl's more intimate regions. That's just my two cents.
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Hey all! Just thought I'd add some thoughts...
This is a scenario that is far too common it seems. Jealous boyfriends/fiances/husbands...etc. being uncomfortable with their significant others line of work. The bottom line is that if you are in a relationship with a fetish model or adult star you have to accept their line of work or else they probably aren't the right person for you. I do know, however, that most people don't think too far ahead of physical attraction these days (I've been guilty of this myself! lol). So, be that as it may, I can completely understand someone's jealousy growing as the relationship becomes more serious.
I don't know exactly what I'd do if I was dating a model, really, even being a producer myself. I find myself staying single intentionally so as not to get involved with this type of drama. Hypocrite, maybe? LOL! 😉
This is a scenario that is far too common it seems. Jealous boyfriends/fiances/husbands...etc. being uncomfortable with their significant others line of work. The bottom line is that if you are in a relationship with a fetish model or adult star you have to accept their line of work or else they probably aren't the right person for you. I do know, however, that most people don't think too far ahead of physical attraction these days (I've been guilty of this myself! lol). So, be that as it may, I can completely understand someone's jealousy growing as the relationship becomes more serious.
I don't know exactly what I'd do if I was dating a model, really, even being a producer myself. I find myself staying single intentionally so as not to get involved with this type of drama. Hypocrite, maybe? LOL! 😉
In my time, I have had several models bring along their boyfriends or even husbands to shoots. Whenever a model brings their SO as an escort, I make is very, very clear to them that the escort is welcome to keep an eye on things, but they need to be quiet and stay off-set. I also make it very clear to them that this is an adult situation and that their wife or girlfriend may be partially or fully nude, and that as a part of the 'job,' I may be touching them in intimate places.
I'm very no-nonsense about the whole b/f and husband thing - I am not working with them, I am working with the model I hired. Therefore, I don't tolerate any drama or bullshit from the SO - if they aren't comfortable with the way I am handling their wife or girlfriend, the model should find someone else to escort them, like another friend or something.
So far, all the boyfriends and husbands who have come along with the model have been very cool about the whole thing - in fact, most of them really enjoy watching from the wings!
I'm very no-nonsense about the whole b/f and husband thing - I am not working with them, I am working with the model I hired. Therefore, I don't tolerate any drama or bullshit from the SO - if they aren't comfortable with the way I am handling their wife or girlfriend, the model should find someone else to escort them, like another friend or something.
So far, all the boyfriends and husbands who have come along with the model have been very cool about the whole thing - in fact, most of them really enjoy watching from the wings!
I can relate, I avoid serious relationships with most girls I'm with just because I hate drama, and like mentioned, people tend to get more jealous the longer a relationship goes on for.
The photographers I work with will never accept a boyfriend or husband as an escort, and this is just taking photos, no clips, no touching involved. I actually believed the models you are working with are professional enough NOT to bring their SO to a shoot, that really puzzles me!!
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the only reason i'd go with my GF to a tickle shoot is if i was there doing the tickling, i could see that bothering me a little i'f he got kinda "personal" with her
I had one boyfriend contact me a bit after a shoot (he did not attend) stating that if I dared to published the content he would do bad things of all sorts to my person.
She showed up days later in tears offering to give her pay back.
She contacted me about a month or so later wanting to work with me again.
I have not had any problems with someone who was present as a spectator.
She showed up days later in tears offering to give her pay back.
She contacted me about a month or so later wanting to work with me again.
I have not had any problems with someone who was present as a spectator.
OMG that is horrible. Man I hate macho adrenaline junky assholes like that guy. Can't tell you how many times dickheads like that have cockblocked me at bars and just having conversations with women in general. They all get their's though becaues they are so egotistical that they can't hold a solid relationship and end up divorced 5 times by the time they're 45.
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What is 'cockblocked'?
LOL, it means that I was trying to hook up with a girl and another guy stepped in the way and screwed things up for me.
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Well, as a model, I have a work-around for this...
Quite a lot of "producers" out there decide to become producers so they can play with the models.
The way I determine if they are this type is as follows:
If interaction/intimacy on camera with a guy is required, I say that I'm not comfortable having anyone but my other half do it.
90% of the time the producer isn't interested in shooting unless he gets to play.
So I get less work than I could if I was less discriminating- but at least the work I do get, I know i'm getting it because the photographer/producer genuinely wants me in the film/photos, and values the creation of good work over getting his kicks out of a shoot.
Bit off topic, but my other half has been present at plenty of my foot fetish/art modeling shoots, and he's VERY easygoing about things. One guy I model for, who has a "No Significant Other Chaperones" policy, due to bad past experiences, lets hubby come to my shoots!
Quite a lot of "producers" out there decide to become producers so they can play with the models.
The way I determine if they are this type is as follows:
If interaction/intimacy on camera with a guy is required, I say that I'm not comfortable having anyone but my other half do it.
90% of the time the producer isn't interested in shooting unless he gets to play.
So I get less work than I could if I was less discriminating- but at least the work I do get, I know i'm getting it because the photographer/producer genuinely wants me in the film/photos, and values the creation of good work over getting his kicks out of a shoot.
Bit off topic, but my other half has been present at plenty of my foot fetish/art modeling shoots, and he's VERY easygoing about things. One guy I model for, who has a "No Significant Other Chaperones" policy, due to bad past experiences, lets hubby come to my shoots!
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OMG on one shoot I was doing (with hubby, for a website) the producer had to take a break mid-shoot to go to the bathroom and wank. SO gross- he could at least have waited till he got home!
His term for the activity was a "decompression session"...
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Yeah, that is IMHO incredibly inappropriate. It's the type of thing that gives the professional (dare I say "non-creepy") producers a bad name. Guilty by association be that as it may.
Could have been worse I guess. At least he had the decency of going into the bathroom. LOL! 😉
It has never been a problem for me. I encourage models to bring escorts, especially when working with me for the first time. Before the shoot I go over the model release and discuss limits with the model, making sure that both the model and her escort hear what's being discussed.
Maybe she didn't tell him what she was going to do. In that case the reaction doesn't surprise me all that much! Did you work with her again?
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that's... just uncalled for. a little self control is needed there lol
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If the bf has issues it should be with the gf who allowed it and not the producer who is paying the said gf for the shoot.
I think that's awesome. The reason why I would think that a model would be bringing an escort is for her safety, especially if it's the first time she's worked with someone. What if things did get out of hand? What if the producer started doing something that the model wasn't comfortable with and she was unable to state that? I'm sure as much as there are good producers out there, there are folks out there that are just looking to get their rocks off as well. I would hope that there would be some sort of agreement beforehand so all involved would know what to expect though because if a 'lee goes to a shoot expecting to only be tickled in the "normal places" and all of a sudden finds she's topless or being tickled in her naughty bits, that's not a good thing if that wasn't talked about before. In those situations I could understand why a significant other/escort might not be happy with that. Afterall, would they want some random dude that they probably have never met before grabbing their girl's vagina at a bar? Probably not, unless that's their thing, which hey, I've seen it happen. To each their own.
I guess because tickling is mostly sexual for me, it's hard to imagine being tickled in my private areas by anyone who I wasn't involved with. Granted, things might get crazy and fun and hell, if everyone is all for it, go for it. If bringing someone makes the 'lee feel more comfy, wouldn't it just make for a better shoot? If a producer had a "no escort comes with the 'lee" policy, I don't think if I was a model I'd feel very comfy with him/her. Oh well, going back to the OP, I think that if a boyfriend or hubby does come along, hopefully he has done his homework and looked at the producer's work so he'd know what was going to happen. That way there are no surprises.
I see what you're saying but there's a difference in having somebody work your body over in a sexual manner (as most of us believe ticking IS sexual) and just having your picture taken.
This.
This is precisely what I do with first time models. From then on, I do the discussing with the model over email or phone, then it's just a matter of the model signing the paperwork.
That's really cool! I know if I were doing vids and all, I'd feel better about that too. Anyone can do a vid with and get their rocks off but a good producer knows what his/her audience would want to see because hey, he/she's part of our fetish world too. Very good points! 🙂
