Pulling out my gf

[TheDubliner1]

I don't know if anyone else had to go through with this, but :

a while back, I told my girl friend that I had a thing for tickling and she thought it was really cute and made fun of me (in a playful way). This was 2 months ago and I was so red and had such a hard time breathing when I told her but today, she came out and told me that she always had a fantasy to be tickled and she always thought it was so cute. she is atually turned on by it... man, i didn't even know this before!

so yeah... ummm... any advice? she JUST came out of her tickle closet and i don't want to scare her off...

 

[tk22]

wheh u tickle her, obviously don't make it too itense. And while ur doing it, it doesn't hurt to ask her if she has any preferences...ya know? Good luck dude

 

[laughingboy2000]

Next time your with her, go lay on the couch, gently hold her back and lightly tickle her upper body. Just go lightly for a while, and then start suggesting more intense things, like maybe bondage.

 

[medikation65]

where is she ticklish?

 

[TheDubliner1]

laughingboy - she is not into the whole bondage thing, i asked. she just likes the cute tickle fights and just kinda likes being tickled because she likes the feeling of being tickled. She's really into the whole light touches and feathers.

medikation65 - she is ticklish EVERYWHERE, like seriously everywhere, haha!

 

[jj82277]

if she is a lee, she likes for you to take charge. the main reason that she didn;t initially initiate contact was because as part of her fantasy, you just take her and tickle her. she instead teased you with a smart ass comment that makes the average tickle enthusiast, well, tickle torture his partner for making.

You are home free, enjoy her begging and screaming.

best tip, when she says stop, don;t they hate it when you do that and it makes you seem weak to them. don't believee me ask any of the female lees

 

[TheDubliner1]

actually i am going to have to disagree with you there. she gets tickled a lot in school and she finds it annoying, because she likes being tickled by certain people. she doesn't like the hard or rough tickling, she's really into the playful tickling or the gentle tickling. but yes, she does make smart ass comments, makes them all the time, hehe.

 

[laughingboy2000]

I would suggest getting some feathers, making her lay down on the couch, sit on her arms, and then gently stroke a feather over her upper body. With time, that will probably really open her up to the tickle world.

 

[TheDubliner1]

hehe yeah, she's into the whole feathers and paintbrush bit already. she just doesn't like the idea of being restrained or tickled mercilessly and quite honestly, i am fine with that because she's plenty ticklish as is. you know asian girls are, haha!

 

[sepa]

Dude!

First off, that is some seriously good news. Most of us will never hear that from any girlfriend, so count yourself lucky.
Ok, you need to tickle her! What you wanna do, is initiate a little tickle game with her. Next time you are in bed with her, or the couch: Grab her, and lift her so she's lying on top of you (with her face up). She'll be like "what are you doing?" but just laugh and brush it off - say "playing with you" or something. When she's lying on top of you, start to really gently tickle her, and tell her she has to stay on top of you, the bed is hot lava. You'll be able to feel her laughing and squirming and you will love it. I dunno, just do something like that and make sure she's in the mood at the time.

Just do it. To echo what jj said: Most girls fantasies are usually about a man taking charge of them in some way or thrilling them. If she's told you she likes to be tickled, and she knows your secret, she's gonna think you're pretty lame if you're still not taking the plunge. Most guys tickle their gf alot anyway, even though they dont have any kind of fetish for it. Next time you want to tickle her, do it!

ed- Also: You said it annoys her when some people tickle her - this is probably just because of what it means to her - I know I dont like being tickled by other men etc. because to me, tickling is quite a sexual thing.

 

[TheDubliner1]

hehe wow, thanks for all your responses guys. Sunday, for her it's not sexual and the same goes for me but yes, i will plunge in and tickle her for minutes, hehe we have agreed on that. Just as long as I respect her wishes of me stopping when she wants to (she's not the type to say stop unless she means it).

thanks guys!

 

[tigress1]

Don't really have advice, more just glaring at yer lucky face.
Enjoy your gift there, and ofcourse if any good tickle stories come out of it, let us know.

 

[FIXLUNGS1]

Tickle the shit out of her and then punch her in the jaw.......just kidding. have fun with it.

 

[gilmourwaters]

i say next time you guys are on the couch watching tv or something put her feet in your lap,slowly remove her shoes/sox and start to lightly and slowly tickle her feet.When she starts to giggle keep going but when she starts to really laugh then stop.Let her catch her breath.This will show her your watching out for her and she can trust you not to go to far to fast.Keep up the the process start slowly working your way up her body finding all her spots but keeping up the start/stop method. by the time you her to her armpits you both should be so turned on you both can't see straight..and at the same time she'll know she can trust you doing this to her

 

[GuldenVleugel]

As your community buddies adviced, start tickling her slowly one day, and know when to stop to give her breaks. I'm sure that if she enjoys it and you know each other for years the tickling can slowly evolve to an intenser level. It's like sex: you can somehow find the limits of a person if you're always careful enough.

 

[TheDubliner1]

FIXLUNGS - that was mean, dude... she's like so playful and youthful, even as a joke that was mean...


everyone else - well the thing is i don't plan to start off slow unless we're doing the whole feathers bit (she has always wanted to try feathers) because otherwise, she's just goign to say do something or say something really cute and i am going to just have to jump in there, sit on her and tickle her for like 2 - 5 minutes, haha. it's not that she minds being tickled like that, it's just that she's not into restraints and when she says stop, she will mean it because she loves to laugh so being tickled is not something she will say "stop!" to unless she means it.

here's an interesting story, she was at her friend's house one day 2 years ago and she was laying on the bed watching a movie with them. someone thought it would be really fun to just poke her (back then everyone knew how ticklish she was and poked her all the time, now she doesn't like to be poked or tickled by anyone but me) so he did. she jumped and squealed and everyone thought it was so cute that 5 other people came and kinda jumped on top of her to sort of hold her down and they all just poked and tickled her for like 1 or 2 minutes. she managed to squirm out of there, but that story has always been a favortie of mine whenever she brings that up.

that was annoying to her because people held her amrs and legs down and stuff, she's the type of girl that loves to giggle and roll around because for us, tickling always leads into kissing and cuddling, so yeah. i am going to be sleeping over at her place in a few weeks so i am sure at least 2 - 3 real tickles are bound to come up so i will just post them.

thanks guys