Question about "partially" outing yourself here..

[J&B ATW]

I suspect there are folks here like B and myself who don't want to clearly "out" ourselves (like real names, phone numbers etc) but would do it slowly and carefully. This would save embarrassment if anyone we knew would trip onto what we are into via a google search and start putting 2 and 2 together.

The goal would be to meet folks in person, but slowly - like a mystery. For example, you'd divulge where you live, but also maybe restaurants or bars you frequent, the cars you drive, the gym you work out in...

Is this a stupid idea? Would it attract stalkers? What if you found out out that another tickle fan went to a bar that you like, and you saw the same model of car they drive in the parking lot of that bar?

Anyways, would like to hear your opinions.

 

[Wolf]

There are people here who've been outed to their friends and family, and they've dealt with it, but I think what you're proposing is still risky.
While the vast majority is completely harmless, there are some sickos creeps on this site, and knowing anything about someone's real life is like heroin to them.
Would you want creepshots of your wife to start showing up in the Images forum?

 

[LurkLurkLurk]

Better to maintain a thread/post of general location and let other locals reach out, so you can start developing a relationship / assess their character in PM or over voice chat.

Could also attend munches, but since tickling is pretty niche and most munches seem to be general BDSM/pain stuff, odds of finding a good local munch/scene seem pretty poor.