Question for Both Male Lers and Females Lees

[TicklesFemales]

First, for the males. Question is would you allow another man to tickle your significant other wife or girlfriend if you were present to join in or watch?

Second, for the lady Lee's. Have you ever wanted to be tickled by someone other then your husband or boyfriend with him present of course to join in or just watch someone else tickle you?

I know this has been asked before but not in a long time and I know there are new members here since the last time this topic was brought up. Hope to get a lot of responses to these questions from both males and females.

TicklesFemales

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Drew & I play with others fairly regularly. Neither of us has a problem with others joining in the fun. We generally only play with those we know and trust anyway. So, even if the other weren't around, it would be cool.

Ann

 

[AffectionateDan]

A very good subject!

This is a source of concern for many of the couples in the community. Tracy and I play well with others, because we have excellent communication and trust between us. To safely remain true to who you are, in a group like ours where we're sharing something as intimate as touch, you need to honestly talk with your signifigant others. There are those for whom sharing this is no big deal, but on the opposite end of the spectrum, there are those for whom sharing this is incredibly difficult or impossible because of how much it means to them. Tickling can range from innocent horseplay to erotic foreplay, and everywhere in between. So naturally, this is one of those questions that there's no right or wrong answer to... it just depends on the individuals in question. As a male Ler, it speaks volumes about how much I trust someone when I share my lady Lee with them. Many of you hear me say the phrase, "It's all about the love." when we're at these events. It's true, and becomes more true with every passing year. You get to know people so well, it gets to be like family. There are people in this family that I'd die to protect. Hell, there are even some who I'd help MOVE. Seriously, though, it does take a huge leap of faith in your partner to be able to let someone else tickle them. I'm just glad that there are so many of us who are on the same page.

WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!

Life is good!

 

[TicklesFemales]

TKL-DUO Ann and Affectionate Dan

Thank you for your responses to my post. I look forward to hearing from other males and females on this subject too. I don't know why but I have always enjoyed tickling someone else's wife or girlfriend more then single ladies simply because I know the lady Lee must feel more comfortable and safer having their significant other with them to watch or join in when I tickle them. I purely enjoy tickling ticklish women and if it means having someone with them so that they feel safe then that is okay with me. Thanks again for your responses.

TicklesFemales

 

[randomguy85]

tough call

That is a tough call for me. Part of me wouldn't mind because the only people I'd let do it would be friends of both of us, and therefor would trust to not try and pull anything. But at the same time I would feel a sting of jealousy, even if there isn't anything to really be jealous about. I don't have a girlfriend (and obviously wife) at the moment, but speaking from past experience. And I feel it'd be even more of an issue with a wife or serious relationship as opposed to something that's maybe just a fling. But that's just me, I tend to be generous with my heart if I feel affectionate towards someone, and wouldn't want any pain to come to it.

-Side note, if it was a female tickling my girlfriend/wife, I'd be more lenient as there would be less of a threat, if you follow.

 

[Texas_Tickle]

At the first gathering Mike and I co-hosted, there was a gentlemen, and it was his idea to let us gang-tickle his GF, and she was cool with that.

When I had a gf, I was a bit protective... but hey, whatever floats your boat.

 

[Redmage]

First, for the males. Question is would you allow another man to tickle your significant other wife or girlfriend if you were present to join in or watch?

Yes. In fact I'd do it even if I wasn't there to watch, if she wanted it. I have done it.

 

[Ayla ny]

This is a source of concern for many of the couples in the community. Tracy and I play well with others, because we have excellent communication and trust between us. To safely remain true to who you are, in a group like ours where we're sharing something as intimate as touch, you need to honestly talk with your signifigant others. There are those for whom sharing this is no big deal, but on the opposite end of the spectrum, there are those for whom sharing this is incredibly difficult or impossible because of how much it means to them. Tickling can range from innocent horseplay to erotic foreplay, and everywhere in between. So naturally, this is one of those questions that there's no right or wrong answer to... it just depends on the individuals in question. As a male Ler, it speaks volumes about how much I trust someone when I share my lady Lee with them. Many of you hear me say the phrase, "It's all about the love." when we're at these events. It's true, and becomes more true with every passing year. You get to know people so well, it gets to be like family. There are people in this family that I'd die to protect. Hell, there are even some who I'd help MOVE. Seriously, though, it does take a huge leap of faith in your partner to be able to let someone else tickle them. I'm just glad that there are so many of us who are on the same page.

WHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!

Life is good!

Yup!

Oh, and I know of one member of this community who helped YOU move!

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Well I wouldn't mind another guy tickling my girlfriend as long as I know him or she knows him. Its her body after all. The reason why I would expect to know him is because I have to be sure that he is doing it for the right reason. FUN.

I don't want to have a guy tickling my g/f because he can't get one of his own and using her as a personal sexual tickling fantasy. That would be the first and last time he would put his hands on her again. 😡

Plus, If she is all for it. I would also expect equal opportunities. 😀

 

[TicklesFemales]

Thanks All

Getting great responses to these questions by both male and females. Keep them coming please.

TicklesFemales

 

[alchemy]

As long as I know the person or I'm not getting a weird vibe from them, I wouldn't mind. It's all about trust.