Question for 'lers & input fom 'lees

[feather my feet]

*DISCLAIMER* My question is not meant 2 offend any1! I really need 2 know & is my reasoning 4 asking...I'm new & don't want 2 tick any1 off.

Here goes. I am just figuring out & learning about my tickle likes. I totally LOVE having my feet played with & lightly tickled. I have other BIG TIME tickle spots - which can b arousing. My armpits - r off limits. They r way 2 sensative & ticklish 2 allow any1 close 2 them. An ex tried once. I screamed & dove away. He thought I had a fit. But I was scared if he really tickled me I'd pee my pants. embarassing!

My question is this: 4 the 'lers - when tickling some1 - is it the squirming, thrashing, laughing, touching some1, screams that u enjoy? I mean - at what point does it become a sexual thing? Or does sex have nothing 2 do with it & y?

I ask because 4 me, tickling in a sensual/erotic way (like with feathers) is a form of 4play. Quick, little tickles r just always fun!

ps/ Secret time...I've never been body tickled!

Thanks 2 whoever answers!

 

[Soda Bobinski]

My question is this: 4 the 'lers - when tickling some1 - is it the squirming, thrashing, laughing, touching some1, screams that u enjoy?

Um , yes ... to all of that.

I mean - at what point does it become a sexual thing? Or does sex have nothing 2 do with it & y?

Depends on who it is I'm tickling ... but if it's a full-on tickle-session & I'm on top of my LEE & making her body squirm & gyrate or whatever underneath me ... then , yeah , that can be a pretty big turn-on ... which may lead to sex , but it doesn't necessarily have to.

Add her feet to the mix , & that can definitely make it more sexual for me ... being that I'm naturally attracted to pretty feet anyway.

Bondage is another ingredient that can take regular , playful tickling to that next level. 😀

I ask because 4 me, tickling in a sensual/erotic way (like with feathers) is a form of 4play. Quick, little tickles r just always fun!

I agree. A poke here & a poke there may be enough to get the heart pumping a little faster , i.e. fun ... but the more prolonged the tickling is , the more erotic the situation likely becomes & gets something else 'pumping a little faster' , i.e. a sexual thing.

ps/ Secret time...I've never been body tickled!

This needs to be rectified , lady!

 

[cloudgazer2k]

when it comes down to it, just having the 'lee bound in front of me is enough. tickling CAN BE playful, regardless of what the naysayers believe. but, for me, when bondage is included, it becomes a totally different animal.

i'm big on physical contact, which means i use more of my fingers to do the tickling rather than some cold, lifeless instrument. the feel of skin on skin, the winkles of the soles under my fingertips, the heat of her stomach against my palm as my fingers tickle her ribs...it's all abut that sense of touch to me.

of course, seeing the thrashing, and hearing the laughing and begging, all work for me as well.

 

[BorisandNatasha]

All forms and levels of tickling is great!
Sex is not mandatory and does not always come into play but certainly can be with the right person.
As for those pits of yours....you should experiment further in that and perhaps allow light tickles done there especially if they are as ticklish as you claim.
So what if you have an "accident"! All part of the trial and error and experimentation of it all!


Boris

 

[BorisandNatasha]

Oh and to respond further, hard laughter, screaming laughter and giggles, they all have their place are equally appealing!


Boris

 

[the wiz]

Yes Please!!!!! to all if it

depending on the woman, with my wife it's arousing to listen to her laugh, and tickle her feet. for others again it depends; however, i manage to keep it strictly business.

If you don’t believe that lie, I will tell you another one,

*DISCLAIMER* My question is not meant 2 offend any1! I really need 2 know & is my reasoning 4 asking...I'm new & don't want 2 tick any1 off.

Here goes. I am just figuring out & learning about my tickle likes. I totally LOVE having my feet played with & lightly tickled. I have other BIG TIME tickle spots - which can b arousing. My armpits - r off limits. They r way 2 sensative & ticklish 2 allow any1 close 2 them. An ex tried once. I screamed & dove away. He thought I had a fit. But I was scared if he really tickled me I'd pee my pants. embarassing!

My question is this: 4 the 'lers - when tickling some1 - is it the squirming, thrashing, laughing, touching some1, screams that u enjoy? I mean - at what point does it become a sexual thing? Or does sex have nothing 2 do with it & y?

I ask because 4 me, tickling in a sensual/erotic way (like with feathers) is a form of 4play. Quick, little tickles r just always fun!

ps/ Secret time...I've never been body tickled!

Thanks 2 whoever answers!

 

[cueball961]

cueball961

As a devoted tickler, for me it's all about power. Having a woman bound and helpless is sexual in itself. She is completly in my power, and that is very exciting. That being said, there is a fine line between tickling and torture. A good tickler has to know when to let off. Your armpits for instance. I would tickle them, but very gently. Not enough to cause you major discomfort. After all, we are both there to have a good time...........

 

[SPORTSGUY19127]

Tickling---custom tailored to a woman's desired pleasure

I love tickling a woman who enjoys it. I especially love to experiment to find ways to tickle her in ways she finds it most pleasurable. Tickling, massaging and playing with a woman's sensitive feet is fun, but mostly fun is finding a way to do it that maximizes her pleasure. If she likes to thrash around, then I'll tickle her feet and other places that makes her thrash around. If she prefers the sensual (and possibly even erotic) pleasure of softer, lighter tickles because she loves the sensation of the foreplay type, or can even cum from tickling, then THAT's the kind of tickling I like to experiment to discover. I just love giving a woman pleasure, through tickling and massage. Whatever she likes, I like even more.
I travel to Orange County, CA for business often. If there are any women there who would like to get together for a drink and possibly a massage/tickling session, please let me know.
Thanks,
Phil

 

[JBgood]

For me as a -ler it depends on what the -lee enjoys as much as on the reactions. There are fun tickle sessions and ones that are more erotic, depending on what the mood is and who I am tickling. If a -lee gets aroused from what I'm doing, then it becomes incredibley arousing for me, much more so than all the laughter and screaming in the world from one who does not find it exciting.

JB

 

[huskys]

I think you will find, as with a lot of other things, people vary greatly with what their thoughts are on tickling.
Some like the sensual touch, while others like it a bit more hard core.
I personally like both, depending on my(and the lee's) mood at the time.
The good thing about the TMF is that you will get a huge variety of opinions, so good luck, and WELCOME!!! by the way!!!

 

[FatJay]

Power to the people

I'm all about the power (or the loss of it if I'm being a lee). I've always enjoyed foreplay far more than sex so it's slowly almost replaced sex over the years - almost. I enjoy having the power to make me lee giggle, twist, turn and - um - you know - stuff 😀.

In my personal experience there has always been a sexual side to it - but I do understand that for others it's just fun. The erotic side though is really about the power play rather than the specific reaction. However, I do have a big foot fetish so a lot of my tickling is motivated by that. I guess if I didn't have a fetish I may feel differently about tickling. I certainly don't get aroused by tickling of armpits, bellybutton etc. and even stockinged feet leave me a little cold unless removal is on the cards - then it's just hot, hot , hot.

As a lee I love being at the mercy of a beautiful and merciless woman

Enjoy your exploration😉