Random issues the concept of "gatherings"

[Italian Tickler]

I read about a lot of these, post stories, pics, friends made, etc.

I would like to know from the guys POV if anyone else feels like me about going to one, or am I just a homophobic. To me tickle play is sexual, it's the only context in which I've done it, or had it done to me as I've said in other posts. That said, even when I was a lead singer 'rocker' having wild times I never "double teamed" a girl with another guy. I've been double and triple teamed by girls, but no guy was there. It came up, the option was there right in front of me a few times, but there was a guy there, so I declined and split.

Never mind the thought of another guy wanting to tickle me, (that's an instant mood destroyer that won't happen) but just one even in the same room watching...or in the same house...or within ear shod... I find completely unappealing. Any sexual play, to me, is private, even if no one climaxes.

Has any other guys here felt like this, or any "gathered" guys ever felt this way once they went to one?

disclaimer: I mean no offense to the bi/gay community, to each is own.

 

[Artoo]

I certainly felt a little apprehensive going to my first (and only, so far) gathering, where there were 3 other guys in the same room. But when I was there, it really wasn't a problem at all. This may be to do with me having met all of the guys before, and getting on with them rather well.

I certainly found the gathering to be more informative and, above all, fun rather than sexual. I'm not sure, but I think I would have found it a lot more sexual if it had been just me and the 3 girls who were there, but I had a good time regardless, and have no regrets.

 

[Sandrock74]

I'm not gay (or bi) but I didn't feel that way. Since there was nothing sexual going on, I didn't "equate" it with sex while I was at the gathering. Any tickling I saw going on was all of the M/F or F/M variety anyway, no same gender tickling (it could have happened and I just didn't see it, I dunno).

I'm not one for group sex anyway, I prefer to be one on one...I guess thats just me. Your not comfortable with a gathering...I guess thats just you.

 

[Italian Tickler]

I'm not one for group sex anyway, I prefer to be one on one...I guess thats just me. Your not comfortable with a gathering...I guess thats just you.

Both are just me, agree on both points.

I'm not 20 anymore, so what I say about the past is not me 20 years later. .