Rash decisions,and mending fences

[Bugman]

I have of late taken some decisions which i now very much regret.We all do it now and then i suppose but i seem to have a propensity for doing things like that.Many of you will understand what i mean without the need for further clarification.All i can say is thank you for understanding,and for putting up with me.That is not an easy thing to do.

I do love you all in my own weird way.Let me make it clear i am not looking for a pat on the back or a bunch or replies telling me what a great guy i am.Please don't do that.I just need to apologise to a bunch of people here.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I don't know about your specific situation, but I'm outrageously impulsive, and am definitely no stranger to "shit I shouldn't have done/said that."

It happens to everyone. No worries

 

[venray]

Friends understand things Bro......

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

No worries .. you're loved! <3

 

[ElFewja]

My personal policy is no regrets and don't look back.

Shit happens, but mourning it is worse; it won't fix anything.

Etc

 

[kered]

It's your path, bro. I just walk it with you occasionally so I'm good with whatever you decide. Friends do that, you know.

 

[SamuelKhan]

Talk about having regrets...I name 10 off the top of my head...

 

[ParanoidChant]

As a man of a hundred regrets myself, take it from me: Every second spent worrying about the past is a second wasted not readying for the future. I don't know your specific situation, but contrary to what you urged, you get props in my book for simply admitting any stumbles you may've made. None of use are perfect, I guess.

 

[Saeria]

The more time you spend looking back, less attention you're paying to the road ahead. Do you know how many proverbial mailboxes I've hit because of this? I really can't say i know what you're apologizing for, nor do i feel like it's any of my business to know but i do know you well enough to know it couldn't be that bad. You're one of our best friends and perhaps one of the few sweet decent men left walking this earth. So there.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

'Tis part of life, my friend. None of us is perfect. How boring would that be?! It's one of the reasons we need one another. We mess up at times. We apologize and try to learn what we can from it. Then, we move on. Those around us simply help us along that path. Just don't forget that you're loved.

 

[WorkInProgress]

Speaking as one with whom you haven't had any tensions, I hope you're successful at restoring good harmony to whatever relationships have hit bumps of late.

 

[Adam]

Brad, you already know that there are no hard feelings from me. Christ, if I could only tell you the number of impulsive things I've done in my life. That counts here on the forum as well. I'm sure other members could tell you stories of disagreements/issues and the like that they've had with me. Bottom line is that we're all human and not a single one of us is infallible. It's always going to be that way. Best thing we can do is try to show each other a little understanding every now and then. Hope to share that beer with you (and possibly Oscar the Grouch since he's in my siggy now) next NEST, bro. 🙂

 

[Helena]

Bugaboo,
The many friends you have here all care about you and wuv you.
I care about you very much, and I'm certain whatever the problem is, it's not as bad as you think.

 

[unclebill]

Send me money, and you can say whatever you want.

 

[Excess]

I've no idea what you're talking about, but eh, holding grudges is for children. Although...I doubt all of my fences have been mended either, and granted I'm not the most lovable person, so maybe I should just not say anything about this particular topic. <_<