saeria is gone

[Gothika]

saeria left for work this morning and her work called me and said she did not show up i made some calls and found out she left for texas this morning she did not say a word just left and i am so heartbroken right now and dont know what to do she was the love of my life the thing is she send her daugher to texas to visit family and her ex husband desided he was going to keep her and basicly said if she does not come back she will not see her daugher she has been so confused and scared and she does things out of fear and i beleve that is what she did i know she still loves me and all and i love her and will worry aobut her cuz her ex is an abuser and will hert her and control her i realy need some one right now i love u all

 

[slacker2114]

Ron, seriously, GO AFTER HER!! It may sound very cliche, but she needs you more than you can imagine. It's obvious from when I met you guys at NEST, as well as seeing you two interact on the forum, that you are totally nuts for each other and go great together. If her ex is anywhere near as abusive as she said he was, she needs you to help her and be there with her. It does sound like she ran out of fear, though more for her daughter than anything else.

You gotta go help her, man.

 

[love feet]

ok
what happened full story????.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Ron, seriously, GO AFTER HER!! It may sound very cliche, but she needs you more than you can imagine. It's obvious from when I met you guys at NEST, as well as seeing you two interact on the forum, that you are totally nuts for each other and go great together. If her ex is anywhere near as abusive as she said he was, she needs you to help her and be there with her. It does sound like she ran out of fear, though more for her daughter than anything else.

You gotta go help her, man.

Agreed.

 

[Gothika]

Ron, seriously, GO AFTER HER!! It may sound very cliche, but she needs you more than you can imagine. It's obvious from when I met you guys at NEST, as well as seeing you two interact on the forum, that you are totally nuts for each other and go great together. If her ex is anywhere near as abusive as she said he was, she needs you to help her and be there with her. It does sound like she ran out of fear, though more for her daughter than anything else.

You gotta go help her, man.

i realy want to go down there i may beable to get a place ticket but dont know when i have to wait till i get my check and i also dont have much cash and if i went i dont know where i would go i know whitch town she will be in cuz i know where her ex and daughter are i am just goona need some help here i realy want her back and will fight for her

 

[Excess]

Ok, so shit goes down, and your first instinct is to...tell people here? I mean, I dunno if there's anything anyone here can do. So not to be harsh...but why the hell aren't you out trying to do anything? Seriously, if you care about her that much then do something.

 

[love feet]

GET to texas NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Deleted member 66627]

i realy want to go down there i may beable to get a place ticket but dont know when i have to wait till i get my check and i also dont have much cash and if i went i dont know where i would go i know whitch town she will be in cuz i know where her ex and daughter are i am just goona need some help here i realy want her back and will fight for her

Is there anyone that you can call who'd know where she is? The grandparents or someone?

You could probably locate local authorities down there as well and let them know what's going on.

 

[goddess_nemesis]

Ron, seriously, GO AFTER HER!! It may sound very cliche, but she needs you more than you can imagine. It's obvious from when I met you guys at NEST, as well as seeing you two interact on the forum, that you are totally nuts for each other and go great together. If her ex is anywhere near as abusive as she said he was, she needs you to help her and be there with her. It does sound like she ran out of fear, though more for her daughter than anything else.

You gotta go help her, man.

I agree.

She's scared and not thinking straight. She needs you. And if there's any way you can, get the police involved, and maybe a lawyer.

 

[slacker2114]

Can you contact any of her family? I'm sure they'd be more than willing to help, if for no other reason than to help the kid. What about any friends she had in TX?

 

[love feet]

i am wondering if this is what the ex wonted playing on the fact she is a Mom
this is so not good!!

 

[Gothika]

Ok, so shit goes down, and your first instinct is to...tell people here? I mean, I dunno if there's anything anyone here can do. So not to be harsh...but why the hell aren't you out trying to do anything? Seriously, if you care about her that much then do something.

i basicly just need all the help and support from my friends i can get i have been trying to find out what is going on im working on it

Is there anyone that you can call who'd know where she is? The grandparents or someone?
i called her sister and talked to her she did not know anything but said if she sees her she will make her call me i also called a friend or ours down there and he said he over herd his wife talking to her this morning and she knows more aboutg it so he is going to have her me and let me know more

You could probably locate local authorities down there as well and let them know what's going on.

i realy dont think they would help tho

Can you contact any of her family? I'm sure they'd be more than willing to help, if for no other reason than to help the kid. What about any friends she had in TX?

i know her family i have her sisters mumber and verious friends numbers i am goona see what i can do i dont know its posible she will come back cuz she loves me but i dont know my father said to wait a couple days and when she gets down there see what is going on i realy dont want to wait she is putting her self in danger he justg got out of prison and is trying to make her belive he changed he has done it before but now he has her daughter hopfully she starts thinking straight and calls me or comes back

 

[Gothika]

i am wondering if this is what the ex wonted playing on the fact she is a Mom
this is so not good!!

he is a conartist and playes games and playes on peoples emotions and knows how to get her i am hoping that after being with me so long she will be strong this time and do the right thing

 

[Excess]

i basicly just need all the help and support from my friends i can get i have been trying to find out what is going on im working on it

Well I dunno if there's much anyone can do, again, but good. And you never know...you might could take him...

 

[slacker2114]

Thing is, does he legally have the right to hold her daughter like that? If not, he could be charged with kidnapping. I'd definitely put a call into the locals in Texas and see what they can do. Considering he's just been released from prison, he may be on parole and could easily be in violation.

So yeah, I'd say if you can't fly there right away, then call the cops down there and contact any helpful family members you can. Then get yourself there as quick as possible.

 

[Gothika]

Thing is, does he legally have the right to hold her daughter like that? If not, he could be charged with kidnapping. I'd definitely put a call into the locals in Texas and see what they can do. Considering he's just been released from prison, he may be on parole and could easily be in violation.

So yeah, I'd say if you can't fly there right away, then call the cops down there and contact any helpful family members you can. Then get yourself there as quick as possible.

basicly they both have leagle rights to her she was never able to fight it the way she wanted to she did not have the money but he does and he is fighting it he is on parole and i know for a fact that he already violated it but cannot proove it i got his numbber but i dont want to start and get arested or anything i just wish i had someone to come with me down there that knows texas and help me i dont know i want her and i know she wants me but she is acting on fear hopfully she comes to her sences

 

[Gothika]

at first when she sent her down he said she would be sent back after her visit then he started playing games and that is how he got her

 

[KrazieDog]

One step at a time. Call her sisters and find out what they know. Ask exactly what the custody rights are for both. If he doesn't have the rights to have her right now or is holding her against the custody rules, call the local authorities in that town, ask if there is a detective on duty, if not speak to the chief or anyone else there and notify them a parolee may by in violation of his parole and holding his child against the mothers will (and/or against the custody rulings if you find out more) as a bargaining chip. Let them know he is an abusive guy and the mother is in route from New York to retrieve the child and that you are sure what he is planning to do when she gets there. This could, depending on the circumstances, be kidnapping and/or child endangerment.

You can't make them act (my Dept would have followed up), but it won't hurt to have them have the knowledge before hand. Should anything happen big or small, there will be record of it. Until then, get in touch with her sisters and find out more as they will immediately be able to do more just because of their location, and have them keep you updated.

 

[love feet]

he is a conartist and playes games and playes on peoples emotions and knows how to get her i am hoping that after being with me so long she will be strong this time and do the right thing

Do you have any record of the conversation he had with her??
don't tell us what it is i am just asking if you have any correspondence between her and the EX???

 

[Bugman]

You know where to find me if i can do anything on this end bro.

 

[Gothika]

One step at a time. Call her sisters and find out what they know. Ask exactly what the custody rights are for both. If he doesn't have the rights to have her right now or is holding her against the custody rules, call the local authorities in that town, ask if their is a detective on duty, if not speak the chief or anyone else there and notify them a parolee may by in violation of his parole and holding his child against the mothers will (and/or against the custody rulings if you find out more) as a bargaining chip. Let them know he is an abusive guy and the mother is in route from New York to retrieve the child and that you are sure what he is planning to do when she gets there.

You can't make them act (my Dept would have followed up), but it won't hurt to have them have the knowledge before hand. Should anything happen big or small, there will be record of it. Until then, get in touch with her sisters and find out more as they will immediately be able to do more just because of their location, and have them keep you updated.

hi thanks for the support i need all i can get now i just had a chat with bugman and and few others as far as i know there is no leagle custady for eather and i dont know much or what his parole consist of and dont know if i can find out or how i am working on this and will let yall know what is going on i truly deep down in my hear belive she will come back to me but i also have douts i am just realy scared now but thank u

Do you have any record of the conversation he had with her??
don't tell us what it is i am just asking if you have any correspondence between her and the EX???

i have no records of the conversations i have herd parts of them and she had told me stuff i have a record of the times she has called that is about it

 

[Knox The Hatter]

You love her?

Fight!

 

[Gothika]

You love her?

Fight!

i am going to fight with all the power i have i have asked her sister and friends to tell her to call me when they see her i will do everything i can i will even go to where she is if i am able to i amd just waiting to heear from her from what i been told she is not the kind of person just to take off and not say good bye and all that so i am crossing my fingers and please everyone pray for all to go well;

 

[Sanhael]

You can try contacting your local authorities first; tell them the basics of the situation (i.e., she's run off without a word because her ex threatened her with never being able to see her children again; let them know what the custody arrangement is). If there's anything that can be done on either end, they will be able to let you know; if there isn't (and since she wasn't forced or threatened, and she doesn't have custody per say, there may not be) they can at least tell you that, so you're not wondering later.

If going to get her is an option, bring a friend or two. Just make absolutely certain that you don't start delivering threats, especially if this scumbag hasn't made any; that'll put the law on his side, which is somewhat worse of a situation than simply having the police remain uninvolved. Does Saeria's ex have legal custody, or did they simply never work out an arrangement at all (sorry if this has already been stated; I read up to this point, but I'm a little fuzzy right now, flu and all).

 

[Sammy Scales]

Damn Goth... I hate to hear about all that... sounds like a bad situation. I would do like Slacker and Krazie are suggesting and do your best to get down there, but take it one step at a time. Just be smart about it... Think it out. The last thing you need, especially with a mother and child involved, is an ex-con getting violent or abusive. After contacting any family/relatives, I'd consider talking to authorities.