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safe words
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There are tons of literature over on BDSM websites and informational resources, books, experts, writers, safety advocates on the subject you just mentioned. And they describe various ways of dealing with the type of situation you describe.
It's a curious phenomenon that I've found over the last four years or so, that hardly any tickle folk ever go over to those sites to read and find out what it is that they want to know. Us crossover SM'rs have known this stuff for decades.
Spenser
It's a curious phenomenon that I've found over the last four years or so, that hardly any tickle folk ever go over to those sites to read and find out what it is that they want to know. Us crossover SM'rs have known this stuff for decades.
Spenser
marcusb said:
I'd be in real trouble! I can't snap my fingers for anything!
Coughing is my backup. Whether as a safeword, or a real cough, I'll stop at once! Most people can still cough while laughing.
Heh heh heh! I...um...usually never get to the coughing stage!
We have a backup system for a safeword that involves pinching out. He will always keep some part of his anatomy withing my reach, even when I'm bound. Two pinches means I have to stop but I can't get the words out. Just as a matter of safety, he ALWAYS stops for coughing, but that's only temporary until the coughing and breathing is under control.🙂
Also a cross over S&M'er one of my favorite things for this is the "drop" your given something to hold from a rubber band to a marble (marbles nice cause it makes noise) if you drop it, it counts the same as a safe word. Not to get into the whole safe word debate, but, a safe word is great, but it does nothing in the place of trust and an ever aware Dom, or in this case tickler. Someone under your power is your responsibility, take care of them safe word or no, Ive seen great Dom's who refuse to use a safeword and terrible Dom's who sware by them and visa versa. A safeword is a tool like any other and should not take the place of sound judgement.
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When I did karate, if anyone were to use a hold on you of some sort, there was always a safe word you could use (can't remember what it was) or other wise you'd just tap out. Which was basically tapping on the floor or on the person to say "Hey, thats enough thanks."
Obviously, in certain types of bondage this might need to be changed a little, but that wouldn't be too difficult... the clicking would be a good example.
Really, it would just be using common sense... just work out something that you can use to alert the other person that you've had enough regardless of the position you are in.
Obviously, in certain types of bondage this might need to be changed a little, but that wouldn't be too difficult... the clicking would be a good example.
Really, it would just be using common sense... just work out something that you can use to alert the other person that you've had enough regardless of the position you are in.
