Perhaps you're scared of the intimacy tickling would bring about. I just don't see you as a dominant woman, fightinggirl666. Then again, women aren't genetically built to be dominant because it's unhealthy and unattractive.
All I see are the chinks in your armor, with your provocations using a persona of not being ticklish as a way to gain attention, but not go all the way with it. If there was ever a female poster child for the cliche of somebody building walls not to prevent somebody from gaining entry, but for seeing who's got what it takes to get past those walls... it's you!!
The walls you set up are of strong concrete, but a weak base for which the concrete was laid upon to dry. There's water dripping out the entry points that didn't dry correctly, and once that wall comes apart water will flow out so intense that hopefully the guy can swim or is wearing floaties and doesn't drown🙂 Maybe he ought to use more protection... like a baseball bat or stun gun or have pepper spray nearby when your mood swings.