Seeking Advice for My Great Escape

[tickleeforgals]

Alright, alright --I love my hometown. It's tight-nit, relatively safe, home to my entire extended family and the majority of my childhood friends.

It is also completely nonconductive to my fetish, and it's wearing on me.

I've tried to make due with the cards I've been dealt and live a pleasant life here, but it is increasingly becoming difficult to do so since I can't relate to (let alone have a relationship) with anyone in this rather conservative community. Dating has almost been ruled out as an option due to my submissive nature and I find traditional 'love-making' uncomfortable. What I need is someone who shares my passion. If I ever want to settle down in life, my future rests not in this town.

I want to move to a city where I am more likely to find a community that I feel comfortable in, and I ask for wisdom from you guys as to where my best bet would probably be. If anyone knows of a city where there is at least a presence of a tickling community, it would be greatly appreciated from this tired, sexually-frustrated ticklefellow.

Thanks for your input! -tfg

side thought: if no one city has a distinguished tickle-scene, then perhaps we should establish one...?

 

[duck171]

I find traditional 'love-making' uncomfortable

Why is that? Just curious.

As for your question. I dont know what to tell you. I found my gf in a very tiny community and she is totally into my fetish and anything else to spice things up. She got bored of the conservative small town life and was down for whatever. It sounds like you might just need to get out there and see what happens. If you are too shy to date then I dont see how moving will help anything. My thoughts.

 

[Dannigrl]

What style and level of tickling are you speaking of?

 

[FeatherFeet]

why does everyone who has this fetish (or any fetish for this matter) go on this mindset that the only way they can ever be happy in life with anyone is if they find someone who shares that fetish?

for god's sake, sexual relations arent everything, and if you go looking for someone who shares your fetish you're going to find just that, someone who shared your fetish and was just looking for someone else who did too. relationships seldom to never last when they are founded on a sex thing of any kind. and the worst part is, people try to make everything else seem ok just because of that sex part.

you have family where yo u live? and you're willing to let them eat your dust because of a fetish?

i think that alone says that you're probably going to be lonley.

my advice? get over it. because thre is no geographical solution to an internal problem of sexual relations.

 

[Meka1]

Alright, alright --I love my hometown. It's tight-nit, relatively safe, home to my entire extended family and the majority of my childhood friends.

It is also completely nonconductive to my fetish, and it's wearing on me.

I've tried to make due with the cards I've been dealt and live a pleasant life here, but it is increasingly becoming difficult to do so since I can't relate to (let alone have a relationship) with anyone in this rather conservative community. Dating has almost been ruled out as an option due to my submissive nature and I find traditional 'love-making' uncomfortable. What I need is someone who shares my passion. If I ever want to settle down in life, my future rests not in this town.

I want to move to a city where I am more likely to find a community that I feel comfortable in, and I ask for wisdom from you guys as to where my best bet would probably be. If anyone knows of a city where there is at least a presence of a tickling community, it would be greatly appreciated from this tired, sexually-frustrated ticklefellow.

Thanks for your input! -tfg

side thought: if no one city has a distinguished tickle-scene, then perhaps we should establish one...?

if you have no real reason to stay, then i would move. The world is a big place, explore it! I came from a small town in NJ and i moved away about two years ago to the big city of VA beach and i absolutly love it. I also was blessed because i met Papi here in VA beach. Life is to short for "what if's"