Sex Vs. Tickle Torture

[Edge]

Good morning, on this Monday, the 20th of June. Here is the poll for this week. The last 2 have been great! This one is an arguement I've seen b4. Let's say you are given a choice by your fav celebirty/person you dream of tickling. You can either have "sex" with that person all night long (no bondage, no tickling, no feet). Just have sex with her OR you can choose to tie her up and tickle torture her all night. So its sex vs. tickle torture. You can only pick one for ONE night only. So which do you choose?

For me it's tickle torture because I find that hotter overall more than sex. Sex is hot but tickle torture is more fun with "anyone" where sex can have more meaning when your in love. So it's tickle torture for me...how about for you?

 

[Soda Bobinski]

Nice topic.

Well , EVERYONE likes sex .... I mean , who doesn't? We here at the TMF are a minority : people who get turned on by tickling ( for the most part ). So I'm thinking that your fave celebrity/person would remember a night of tickle-torture MORE than just a night of sex. THAT would stand out more to them in the long run. So , I guess I'm picking tickle-torture over sex ( JEEZ! ... what am I saying?! ) because of the lasting impression it would make on the celebrity/person.

Another reason I'm picking a night of tickle-torture (as a LER) rather than a night of sex is ......um ....... because ...... ah ......... well .......... um ......... with the tickle-torture , it'll last longer.

 

[milagros317]

I voted for tickle torture, but I want it to be mutual, taking turns.😀

 

[TickledToDeath]

Tickle Torture.

 

[tower98]

all out tickle torture for me. Of course I would also like my turn

 

[Mitchell]

I'd have to say tickle torture, Edge, but especially for this reason. In your choices, you listed, "no feet" as one of your choices, and that to me, no matter how gorgeous the person was, just couldnt fly. Feet turn me on in such a way sexually, that I could not visualize even having wild sex all night with whatever girl celeb it would be, without doing things to her feet. So, in my case, I would pick tickle torture, that would hopefully include foot worship, as well as, of course, foot tickling.

Mitch

 

[foosboy]

Ummm BOTH!!! Hehe and very possibly at the same time. Sorry it seems I can't choose.

 

[ticklkitten]

I'd choose both in a heartbeat. But I think I'm in the minority here who would choose sex if I had to pick. Of course if tickle torture ended in orgasm... that might change my mind.

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

The poll is closed and I cannot vote, but

DEFINITELY SEX!

Tickling comes in a close second for me.

But lying in a man's arms, hearing his heartbeat, chewing on his nipples, knowing I can kiss him whenever I want... I was born for that!

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

I mentioned this survey to a friend of mine; he's the one who does not share my tickle interest but has known about it for years--and even looked at this board with amused curiosity when I showed it to him a week ago. Not for him, but he has no problem with its being very, very good for me.

He could not understand the question in this survey, however; to him, sex is, well, SEX!!!!!

I, on the other hand, think the question makes perfect sense, but, as much as I love tickling with everything in me, I could never choose it over sex. (Mind you, I would NEVER want to give up tickling.)

I am really curious to know why those who chose tickling over sex did. I am scratching my head on that one. Please understand that I am not being intolerant or judging; I just don't undertstand.

 

[milagros317]

In the world at large, sex is relatively easy to find, while an experienced tickler or willing ticklee is harder to find.

 

[MrPartickler]

Interesting question

At first I thought this was a no-brainer: Tickling, of course. Right?

However, on second thought (what the hell, I'm bored... lol), I'd have to say sex. Think of it more as an investment. The celeb will probably not be "into" tickling, but if you're at least reasonably competent in the sack, they'll probably enjoy the sex. And sex is far more likely to grant you opportunities for future tickles than vice versa. Hell, if she *really* likes you after the sex, you'll probably get many, many tickling opportunities down the line. However, it's unlikely she'll be game for sex just because you got to tickle her, IMHO. (Hey, you're just gonna have to sharpen your game to close that deal. lol)

Now, if there's no possiblity of ever seeing the woman again, and I still had to choose, I'd still choose sex. Why? Bragging rights. Plain and simple. What else could a one-night stand with a celeb be good for? I'm not gonna run to my buds and tell them "I spent the night with so-and-so, but we didn't have sex, I just tickled her. Whew! That was fun." C'mon!

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

I am really enjoying this discussion!

Really good points, MrPartickler. Yes, good sex might get you future tickles, but good tickles are far less likely to get you future sex. Sweet!

In the world at large, sex is relatively easy to find, while an experienced tickler or willing ticklee is harder to find.

This is also a good point, milagros317--and it says an awful lot in just one sentence. May I respectfully disagree (but only on a personal level that I won't expect anyone else to agree with)?

Are you talking about casual sex/tickling or the kind that involves emotional commitment? I'm an average-looking guy, and, as you say, finding sex is easy. But I turn down most offers.

I, personally, cannot have casual sex (but I have no problem listening to and celebrating the joy of those who do). I am not saying that I have to be in a relationship, but I do have to know the guy well and have an emotional bond with him. For me, sexuality celebrates everything I am and everything the world at large has tried to take from me.

Every time I am held by a man--or every time I take him in my arms and let him know that he can pretend to be five years old, that he can temporarily forget all the cruelty out there, that he can let me protect him, that he as a man need not only be the protector but can also be protected--we celebrate who we both are.

Tickling is one of the greatest thrills I know, but, in my mind, it just can't compare to what I have described. Again, just my opinion. No offense meant to any tickle fans.

The trust aspect of tickling and how it builds self-esteem and a sexual bond would, I suppose, be a good counter argument to what I have just said.

 

[leeboy]

I'd take extream tickle torture any day !

 

[Tarzan]

Well, short of having to flip a coin (probably 2 out of 3), I'd probably have to give the nod to tickle torture. Decisions, decisions 😀

 

[witchtickler]

I love sex as much as the next person, but given the choice I'll pick tickle torture. It can last soooooooooooo sadistically longer 🙄

witchtickler

 

[Krokus]

The poll is closed and I cannot vote, but

DEFINITELY SEX!

Tickling comes in a close second for me.

But lying in a man's arms, hearing his heartbeat, chewing on his nipples, knowing I can kiss him whenever I want... I was born for that!

Ditto. I agree, Sex is definetly first. BUT, tickling is an AWESOME lead up to sex...and I find that after I climax, im like, 10 times more ticklish, so it's great afterwards also!

 

[Tess Harper]

Even if the poll was open, I couldn't vote. My choice isn't up there. Bound sex would have to be my favorite. I haven't experienced tickling enough to really enjoy it, I just know it IS a thing for me.

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

-----Tess Harper: I always admire people who pick a third option when they are given but two. 🙂

-----Krokus: I wonder if, because we had to fight for the right to be sexual people with a different orientation, sex will always be more important to us than tickling. I don't have an answer; it is just a thought.

 

[Krokus]

-----Krokus: I wonder if, because we had to fight for the right to be sexual people with a different orientation, sex will always be more important to us than tickling. I don't have an answer; it is just a thought.

interesting theory....It hasn't been easy for me, in terms of being "out" and such, but I know where your coming from. That may be it, but I just flat out enjoy sex more (not by too much though)