Sexuality and sex

[Cif]

There has been a lot of talk recently about dungeons, escorts and meets. I was lying in bed this morning listening to the radio and thinking about sexuality, and where tickling/foot fetish came into mine. I'm not an overtly sexual person, certainly not promiscuous. I love sex within the boundaries of a strong relationship and I like my fetish to make up a small segment of a much larger picture. I've had two sexual partners and I'm now 20 years old, which may be low I am not sure.

On that note, I can go for a long time without feeling the "need" to have sex or tickle somebody, and whether this makes me asexual or not, I am not sure.

How do people feel about their desires to tickle/fornicate and how do people control them? On top of this, what lengths would you go to to satisfy your desires?

 

[Deleted member 66627]

How do people feel about their desires to tickle/fornicate and how do people control them? On top of this, what lengths would you go to to satisfy your desires?

For some reason the word "fornicate" makes me both lul and go ARG! 😛

To the OP: Mine ebb and flow. It all depends on my mood and what is happening at the time in my life. Lately I seem to be approaching an upswing, so I'll think about it more, or check out certain content that I have that hits me the right way.

If it's strong enough, I'll just wank it. 😀

 

[rhiannon]

For some reason the word "fornicate" makes me both lul and go ARG! 😛

To the OP: Mine ebb and flow. It all depends on my mood and what is happening at the time in my life. Lately I seem to be approaching an upswing, so I'll think about it more, or check out certain content that I have that hits me the right way.

If it's strong enough, I'll just wank it. 😀

Dito 🙂

 

[Cif]

Hahahahaha... fornicate. What a doofus I am. I was lost for words.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Hahahahaha... fornicate. What a doofus I am. I was lost for words.

Naw. It's fine. I would've personally used a much less eloquent word. 😛

 

[C.K. Storyteller]

I'll agree that its definitely a dynamic need; there are times where it takes up a large portion of my mind, and other times where I can go quite a while without even thinking about anything sexual.

In terms of the lengths to which I'd go, I would turn my computer on and come here. So, about 15-75 feet, depending on what room I'm in.

 

[Cif]

I wanted my nonsensical ramblings to have credibility. I didn't use a thesaurus 😉

 

[Mephistopheles]

Depends on whether I have the time to think about it. If I do, I seduce my woman and have sex with her.

 

[naughtylucy]

Hahahahaha... fornicate. What a doofus I am. I was lost for words.

This is a wee bit off topic, but I LOVE the word 'fornicate'. Always fun to subvert the religious bullshit.

Em, difficult to say what's a lot of fornication and what's not a lot. I suppose I come once or twice a day on average, but that varies. Sometimes, more, sometimes less. Great when there's another person around, otherwise I'm a DIY enthusiast. I don't really control my sexuality...I mean, I've never let the urge to fuck overtake me in the booze aisle of Sainsburys, I conform to most social norms in that respect. But I do like subverting those norms in a sneaky way. I always, for example, have a stealth wank under my pashmina on long train journeys. Glasgow-London is ideal, thanks to that long stretch of blandscape through the Midlands.

I wouldn't be too concerned about frequency. We're all different.