Sharing tickles in a relationship

[feedursole]

Do you guys keep tickling exclusive to your relationship or do you have a more open approach to things surrounding the topic?

Some of the most fun tickling I've had was holding my wife's feet still at the ankle so that her friend (or friends) could have unrestricted access to tickle her. Impromptu/organic tickles always seem like the most fun to me.

What're your thoughts/experiences?

 

[WickedTouch]

We’re a little more flexible with it, but with boundaries. We meet with others to engage in bondage and/or tickling play, but never separately. We also don’t share this side of ourselves with our family or more mainstream friends. When we do share it with others, we mostly think of it as a bonding experience that we use to see other sides of each other and to enhance our relationship. We also use it as a way to connect with and learn about other people. We’re not especially social in our day-to-day, so it makes for an interesting way to facilitate social connections.

 

[Ghostwriter727]

Its pretty exclusive for us as wife isn't as tickle happy as I am. I keep the tickling, and fetish talk between us bc I don't want for her to feel uncomfortable trying to appeal to others who are adventurous for tickling, feet, bondage, and many other things that she gets but isn't as enamored by.

Maybe in time that will change, but we keep it simple for now. We are both also pretty introverted so getting out, and being social is very different for each of us.

 

[Maneo]

When I was single and had gfs, tickling among friends was an occasional event, either assisting in the tickling or directing the tickling friends to my gf's most vulnerable spots. Not much, but enough to make those moments memorable.

Now, many years married, our tickling is more intimate, so not so much shared with others. There are the quick tickles my wife might get from others since she is very sensitive to the slightest touch. Often, these are unintentional. When that happens, who am I to complain?

 

[TicklingTips]

My wife and I are very, very open with tickling in our relationship. We play with others, both separately and together, whenever we can, and we actively plan and seek sessions. It works for us because we met through tickling, and we agreed very early on in our relationship that we wanted to continue playing with others. It was barely a discussion for us, we both knew what we wanted.

That has worked well for years. We do have some boundaries around other sexual forms of play but they have more nuance. Tickling is basically fair game any time an opportunity arises.

 

[redheadlady]

We keep tickling within our relationship these days

 

[ashbabe410]

Definitely we keep it between us. We are both very jealous so playing with others would cause problems. I actually don't even like for his friends to tickle him, lol. I won't say anything but I won't sit and watch it either.

 

[2Ticklish!]

Do you guys keep tickling exclusive to your relationship or do you have a more open approach to things surrounding the topic?

Some of the most fun tickling I've had was holding my wife's feet still at the ankle so that her friend (or friends) could have unrestricted access to tickle her. Impromptu/organic tickles always seem like the most fun to me.

What're your thoughts/experiences?

My wife and I keep it between us but have a very healthy play life with each other. She has hinted at bringing another girl into our intimate life but I’m unsure if it’s a trap and am apprehensive to have that discussion. lol

 

[ashbabe410]

My wife and I keep it between us but have a very healthy play life with each other. She has hinted at bringing another girl into our intimate life but I’m unsure if it’s a trap and am apprehensive to have that discussion. lol

As a female, I'm telling you be very careful lol. Some women offer this just to make our man happy, but we really want our man to say no and that we are enough for him. Not saying your wife is like that but it's possible. Even if she's serious, she might get jealous once you do it and then that mental picture of you with another women might haunt her later. Definitely don't put yourself into a vulnerable position with another woman if she does bring one in.

 

[2Ticklish!]

As a female, I'm telling you be very careful lol. Some women offer this just to make our man happy, but we really want our man to say no and that we are enough for him. Not saying your wife is like that but it's possible. Even if she's serious, she might get jealous once you do it and then that mental picture of you with another women might haunt her later. Definitely don't put yourself into a vulnerable position with another woman if she does bring one in.

That what my thoughts were exactly! I told her I didn’t think it was a good idea. Thank you for that feedback!

 

[JohnTK]

With my wife, we have an agreement to do occasional (generally on a once per month basis) tickling bdsm sessions with an escort girl and her boundaries are that there will be no sex between me and her - which I am absolutely fine with. We will usually all take our turn to be spreadeagle tied on the bed and tickled by the other 2, which is great and then the girl will get paid and leave and we will have sex as usual. It works fine until now and keeps me happy in terms of tickling variety..!!

 

[happyhonk]

I tickled my sister in law on her feet while she was buried in sand on a vacation trip and my wife got ultra mad after she heard about it. i am "allowed" to watch tickling videos online - but since my wifes knows about my fetish, i am only tickling her feet irl =)
haven*t seen anyone else tickle her, except me, too!