shes ticklish but it makes her mad

[maniactickler]

Not a problem.

Maniac, if you choose the the fetish over relationship, and Im not trying to be mean here, you might find you'll never have a permament someone in your life. I dont mean to judge, but Im a fetishist, just wont let it be my king or queen.

Well it certainly narrows your field for finding a relationship. no doubt there. and tickling is more than my king or queen.....its my god!

 

[totally_evil]

A true tickle fetishist will let tickling control his life. not much else is as important. besides eating and drinking of course. 😱

The point I was trying to make is that if your partner is ok with you tickling him/her or tickling someone else to fulfill your fetish, why shouldn't you have a partner you love, who isn't into tickling like we are?

 

[Tickler Bart]

If she gets ANGRY whenever anyone touches her feet, then she has some issues she needs to deal with.
What will happen if you decide to marry this girl or have a long term relationship?
You will, eventually, have the 'itch' to tickle in a bad way.
If you go out & tickle someone else to satisfy that 'itch', will you tell her?
If you don't & she finds out, would she consider that cheating?
If you tell her about it, will she get jealous?
Any relationship where only one has a 'special' interest will eventually end badly.
The fetish doesn't 'rule' your life. . . . it IS your life. It's part of your internal make-up. At least it is for me.
It's just the way it is.
I cannot fathom being with someone that HATES to be tickled or having her feet touched.
If I find out that she HATES what I LOVE, then I would end the relationship before it even starts.
That's just me.

 

[Stugots]

No pain, no gain. Keep tickling her, dude. She can't be mad forever. Sooner or later she'll have to smile. Then tell her how retarded she is getting mad at you for wanting to make her smile.

 

[maniactickler]

The point I was trying to make is that if your partner is ok with you tickling him/her or tickling someone else to fulfill your fetish, why shouldn't you have a partner you love, who isn't into tickling like we are?

Its not easy finding a woman who will let you go and tickle someone else though. but that would be a dream scenario!

 

[totally_evil]

Its not easy finding a woman who will let you go and tickle someone else though. but that would be a dream scenario!

I'm obviously amazing then, 😛

 

[wendynpeter]

Tickling isnt all that imortant.

To you, maybe. But to true fetishists (people who cannot perform to their sexual potential without tickling), having a partner who is not a full participant just cannot cut it in the long run. Something will always be missing, and that can lead to cheating.

I've had one LTR with a woman who had such control issues that she could not play with me. It did not work out in the end; it was heartbreaking for everyone involved; I vowed I'd never, ever do that again; and I didn't.

 

[NavelTickler75]

To you, maybe. But to true fetishists (people who cannot perform to their sexual potential without tickling), having a partner who is not a full participant just cannot cut it in the long run. Something will always be missing, and that can lead to cheating.

I've had one LTR with a woman who had such control issues that she could not play with me. It did not work out in the end; it was heartbreaking for everyone involved; I vowed I'd never, ever do that again; and I didn't.

Sorry but to me, that's not a fetishist. That's someone whose become so addictied to the fetish, that they can't think straight. I am a true fetishist, although I know of self control, not letting lust (not that anyone is using lust) and desire overwhelm me.

I used to have a hard time getting an erection unless I looked, watched, or thought of tickling. I've pushed the fetish into the back burner, because it was not healthy, and I was miserable. I knew HAD I found a woman to date and she was not ticklish or hated it, my relationships would end, and I knew that would be heart breaking. So I had to decide, my desire? or humanity? And I tossed my desire on the backburner. Didn't get rid of it, but now even if I find a girl whose not ticklish (once the one and only plus for a relationship for me, that she had to be that is), I'd be happy.

Please not, I am not trying to put anyone down here, but I just do not think this attitude is healthy in the long run. Therapy, medication, this might help. And no Im not calling anyone evil or nuts, but I'd never want to be an extreme fetishist, as what I think this is. It has to be a very lonely life.

 

[wendynpeter]

Sorry but to me, that's not a fetishist. That's someone whose become so addictied to the fetish, that they can't think straight...

Well, it's OK with me if that's your definition, but the DSM IV disagrees with you.

 

[ViperGTS]

*clears throat*

According to DSM IV:
Fetishism: Typically, the individual requires this non-living object or action to become sexually aroused and is therefore unable to be aroused without it.

THAT is a fetish.

Some people are not as sexually charged as others. Navel, for instance, has his sexual drive 'under control.' I, on the other hand, find much enjoyment and recreation from sexual activity. For people like me, who choose to use sexual activity as a primary source of stress relief and recreation, tickling is vital. Therefore, in any relationship I have been in and will be in henceforth, she MUST be ticklish and MUST allow me to tickle her. These terms are NON NEGOTIABLE. She could be the sweetest person in the world, but there are a few pre-requisites involved.

As for the original poster: Chloroform and duct tape.

Perhaps not so dire, but something like that might actually help.

From a sadistic and cruel perspective, it might work. If she's tied down (how you get her there is up to you) and unable to fight it, and you combine cruelly torturous tickling with intense sexual pleasure, she might come around.

It's worked for me. 😉

 

[wendynpeter]

*clears throat*

According to DSM IV:
Fetishism: Typically, the individual requires this non-living object or action to become sexually aroused and is therefore unable to be aroused without it.

THAT is a fetish.

Doesn't have to be a non-living object. Can be a body part as well.

 

[ViperGTS]

Duly noted. 🙂

 

[NavelTickler75]

*clears throat*

According to DSM IV:
Fetishism: Typically, the individual requires this non-living object or action to become sexually aroused and is therefore unable to be aroused without it.

THAT is a fetish.

Some people are not as sexually charged as others. Navel, for instance, has his sexual drive 'under control.' I, on the other hand, find much enjoyment and recreation from sexual activity. For people like me, who choose to use sexual activity as a primary source of stress relief and recreation, tickling is vital. Therefore, in any relationship I have been in and will be in henceforth, she MUST be ticklish and MUST allow me to tickle her. These terms are NON NEGOTIABLE. She could be the sweetest person in the world, but there are a few pre-requisites involved.

As for the original poster: Chloroform and duct tape.

Perhaps not so dire, but something like that might actually help.

From a sadistic and cruel perspective, it might work. If she's tied down (how you get her there is up to you) and unable to fight it, and you combine cruelly torturous tickling with intense sexual pleasure, she might come around.

It's worked for me. 😉

Thank you for the definition, but I fear she might also get so pissed off she'll call the police if he does that to her. We want them to have fun, not land him in jail.

 

[ViperGTS]

Oh don't be a prude.

They're going out. That means they're having a relationship. he ties her up, with her thinking it'll be fun and games, and instead he tickle tortures her and gives her a couple orgasms.

She'll either be exhausted and VERY happy, or she'll be pissed and hit him a couple times when he lets her up. She isn't going to call the police.

"Officer, take him to jail! he tied me up, tickled me silly, and made me cum again and again and again!! I FEEL SO VIOLATED! ...what? No, he didn't penetrate me, but what does that matter? What?! What do you mean it's not worth...why the hell are you laughing?!? GET BACK HERE! HE NEEDS TO GET LOCKED UP!"



Come on, bro.

Besides, we know he isn't going to listen to me. Only fools and idiots listen to me.

 

[NavelTickler75]

If he ties her up for fun, with her knowing it, there's a difference. But using chloriform, and then tie her up, and tickle her, that might be different if she does not expect it.

And nowadays, who the hell knows what a person can do with the law. Any good and corrupt lawyer and a busy judge, and a group of jurors would be happy to call that a crime. Get the right police officer there, and bam dude in jail.

 

[Iggy pop]

Oh don't be a prude.

They're going out. That means they're having a relationship. he ties her up, with her thinking it'll be fun and games, and instead he tickle tortures her and gives her a couple orgasms.

She'll either be exhausted and VERY happy, or she'll be pissed and hit him a couple times when he lets her up. She isn't going to call the police.

"Officer, take him to jail! he tied me up, tickled me silly, and made me cum again and again and again!! I FEEL SO VIOLATED! ...what? No, he didn't penetrate me, but what does that matter? What?! What do you mean it's not worth...why the hell are you laughing?!? GET BACK HERE! HE NEEDS TO GET LOCKED UP!"



Come on, bro.

Besides, we know he isn't going to listen to me. Only fools and idiots listen to me.

Actually in most states this constitutes kidnapping and is a very serious felony.

 

[Iggy pop]

Isabeau is right, you are warped dude. I mean, I'd never let the fetish overtake me. I'd rather let the human factor rule. Note I'm not being rude here, its how I feel. Let the fetish control you and you're less than human. You're just instinct. I'd never want to live that way.

Look I think that tickling is hard wired into our sexuality for many of us. Personally, I enjoy other things perverted things(let's just say I love whip cream)but tickling is large part of my sexuality. If someone was in a relationship with a girl, but he told me he was gay, I wouldn't tell him to stay in it.

 

[LoveSoles81]

Its tough man, my girlfriend hates it. It got to a point where she didn' want me to do it. Long story short she lets me do it, and were still together

 

[NavelTickler75]

Look I think that tickling is hard wired into our sexuality for many of us. Personally, I enjoy other things perverted things(let's just say I love whip cream)but tickling is large part of my sexuality. If someone was in a relationship with a girl, but he told me he was gay, I wouldn't tell him to stay in it.

Of course not, being gay is part of the human factor. Of course had he married, he could get annollument or divorce based on mislead facts, but he also made a commitment.

Tickling is hard wired into my sexuality for me too, I just do not let it overtake me.

And good grief who says prude anymore, Viper what are you sixty? LOL

 

[Em Es]

Try the "punishment" game

A girl I dated in 1987, Allison, was the most ticklish person I've known. Certainly no one I've met was more ticklish than her.

Being a tickler, that could have meant a lot of fun for me. But Allison lacked the other key ingredient - subsmissiveness - to be a tickler's delight. She hated being tickled. In the seven months we dated, I only got to intentionally tickle Allison a few times without her getting mad. Allison just wasn't the type to grin and bear it, much less see the fun in tickling.

Man, Allison was so ticklish! Feet, legs, back, rear end, ribs, stomach, breasts, underarms - you name it. And she was cute! Allison had a slender build and short straight blonde hair with fair skin. She was about 5'4," with breasts so small she did not need a bra - but a tight rear end and a slim waist, two features of greater appeal to me than any set of bosoms ever was.

Looking back, I always had to work to please Allison. While Allison had the charm that could make me feel ten feet tall, she had an immature side that often threw water on our good time. In some circles of men, Allison was what you call "bad news" - someone you really want who is no good for you. And since she was super ticklish but would not submit to me, that was bad!

That's my story. Years after it was too late, I came across this possible solution right here on the TMF. A contributer by the handle dstrbd wrote:

"I tickle [my girlfriend who hates being tickled] often, and let her know that is the punishment when she hits me, or hurts me in some way. Yesterday at dinner she was kicking me under the table. I just let her go, saying '"'ll get you back.' She just kinda ignored me and kept kicking. When we got back into the car, she looked at me (I was staring with an evil grin at the time... ) and asked what i was doing.... at that point I dug in. I musta tickled her for at least 20 minutes... and she seemed to be enjoying herself (not that she had a choice). So there is at least some solution to the problem. Tell them that is their punishment for wrongdoing... and tickle them often."

How I wish I read that advice when Allison was my girl. Try it and let us know if it works!

 

[baby]

Tell them that is their punishment for wrongdoing... and tickle them often.

LOL, I'd love that - I'd pretend to hate being tickled and then wouldn't even try to be a good girl anymore 😀

 

[NavelTickler75]

A girl I dated in 1987, Allison, was the most ticklish person I've known. Certainly no one I've met was more ticklish than her.

Being a tickler, that could have meant a lot of fun for me. But Allison lacked the other key ingredient - subsmissiveness - to be a tickler's delight. She hated being tickled. In the seven months we dated, I only got to intentionally tickle Allison a few times without her getting mad. Allison just wasn't the type to grin and bear it, much less see the fun in tickling.

Man, Allison was so ticklish! Feet, legs, back, rear end, ribs, stomach, breasts, underarms - you name it. And she was cute! Allison had a slender build and short straight blonde hair with fair skin. She was about 5'4," with breasts so small she did not need a bra - but a tight rear end and a slim waist, two features of greater appeal to me than any set of bosoms ever was.

Looking back, I always had to work to please Allison. While Allison had the charm that could make me feel ten feet tall, she had an immature side that often threw water on our good time. In some circles of men, Allison was what you call "bad news" - someone you really want who is no good for you. And since she was super ticklish but would not submit to me, that was bad!

That's my story. Years after it was too late, I came across this possible solution right here on the TMF. A contributer by the handle dstrbd wrote:

"I tickle [my girlfriend who hates being tickled] often, and let her know that is the punishment when she hits me, or hurts me in some way. Yesterday at dinner she was kicking me under the table. I just let her go, saying '"'ll get you back.' She just kinda ignored me and kept kicking. When we got back into the car, she looked at me (I was staring with an evil grin at the time... ) and asked what i was doing.... at that point I dug in. I musta tickled her for at least 20 minutes... and she seemed to be enjoying herself (not that she had a choice). So there is at least some solution to the problem. Tell them that is their punishment for wrongdoing... and tickle them often."

How I wish I read that advice when Allison was my girl. Try it and let us know if it works!

Now there you go, that might actually work. LOL I kinda wish I had a bad girl I could try that on.

 

[Merciless1]

What exactly was or is her reaction if and or when you tickled her feet?

Perhaps a different method should be considered.

If it were me and the roles were reversed......well you all may not want to hear it.

M1

 

[Ace Riley]

duct tape and chloroform

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lol