Shy about My fetish.

[Eztickle]

I'm seaking advice about my fetish. I'm asking mostly guys about this but girls can answer too. I have an F/m fetish I like attractive women with short fingernails and large hands. I just like to feel there smooth fingertips for some reason. I like to be tickled directly on my barefeet by women, and other places. Is there other guy's with this fetish? And does anyone have trouble telling there girlfriend about there fetish? cause I do i'm shy about it? I 've heard people say that women don't mind. But I don't know? If anyone could give advice thanks.

Ez....

 

[TickledToDeath]

Try letting actions speak for you at first. Instigate a tickle fight with her by grabbing her feet and tickling her first. She will most likely try and get you back, don't fight her off. Let her see what it does for / to you.

TTD

 

[chode]

Well here is my two cents. I have been more open lately with dates about my tickling fetish. We get into some conversations and start to talk about all kinds of things. Asking each other questions and such, and i pop in the question "so is their anything wierd or odd i dont know about you?" and they tell me something, so then they ask it right back and i just tell them i am one of those odd guys that likes tickling, and to be more direct i like to be tickled. And then tell them why. "Its because its fun, feels good but i cant sit still for it, and i just plain like it." Not one girl who i have told this to has thought i was weird or was turned off by it. They all actually got frisky and started to tickle me. Dumb luck on my part? Maybe, but i also think that me being honest and explaining it I have found that women do not think its wierd, or freaky, or odd at all, most think its cute! I live in ohio to man, If you need a big bro to ask for advice then its cool. Just check out my profile to see how to get a hold of me. Ohio does have tickle girls, You just have to open your mouth is all!
YJGFN

 

[kurchatovium]

As I have stated in a previous thread Lorilei (aka Kristine Imboch) would agree with yjgfn that mentioning your fetish at the beginning of a relationship or at the point where your girlfriend is openning up to you is better than waiting and waiting. The ideal being that she feels you care enough about her to be completely open and free. I have not tried this method, of course, since I am still single and without a girlfriend I suppose the waiting and waiting method is not working out to good.

You can find Lorilei's advice at her website www.bedroombondage.com in the library section.

 

[strtbottomjim]

I can't see being shy about this with my next lady friend early in the relationship...especially as a ticklee myself, it's non-threatening and playful and there's lots of girls who are intrigued by the idea of dominating a guy in a "friendly fashion" versus the "leather whipqueen" domination more common in BDSM.

 

[mysterytic]

Slow progression at first

First establish a relationship with a g/f that you like. When oportunity strikes ask her for a foot massage. State to her that it tickles a lot, but it is very enjoyable. Re-inforce the fact that you like it. Eventually you can recommend something like "You know, I like it so much, but hate to keep pulling away. Let's tie my feet to the ----", well you know what achoring point is availble where you are. Try it, it may work.

 

[MadKalnod]

Subtrefuge is never a good idea. If you treat it as something to hide, she's going to react as if it's something that deserves to be hidden. Be open and honest and up front about it. (Note, also, that there's a big difference between "Open and up front" and "In her face with it."

On my second date with the first woman I truly loved, she grazed my ribs with her fingertips while putting her arms aroundme for a hug. I yelped, and she asked if she had hurt me. I said "No, it just tickled." She apologised and I told her "Actually, I rather liked it." She grinned and continued in earnest. After that, she got the biggest blast out of pinning me down and tickling me. It's all in how you present it.