wishfoot88
4th Level Red Feather
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- Jun 12, 2008
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ive not had many good outings in my time to be honest.
the first time i told someone, they shouted it, literally.
the second time, it was a girl, and while she still maintains she is ok with it, there is a definite sense of awkwardness whenever i bring the subject up, and she just doesnt was to hurt my feelings...again.
but the other week, me and a new mate were out drinking, and we get into this conversation about his ex, who was pretty awkward at the best of times.
she once spread a rumor that i had a foot fetish, without even knowing she was correct.
so i recall this awkward situation to this guy, and then tell him she was right and he responds.
"cool"
cool
just a normal response
every other time ive told someone they never really accepted or understood it.
so i went into the particulars of it, and he knows quite a lot now, and he has always just instantly accepted it.
nothing seems awkward to him, or weird, and then i realised that it isnt.
i had had such awful reactions to my love of feet and tickling, that finding someone who was not bothered by it, someone who would even embrace it enough to try the ticklishness of my feet (which was not successful by the way, the coldness of my feet did not help this) was so strange to me.
it was one of the nicest things to happen to me, to have someone like this in my life, but i couldnt help feeling a bit taken aback.
he had helped me come to terms with alot of stuff, stuff that the previous girl never got close to, and i think that our friendship can only be helped by this, though it is cheifly his acceptance that has won it.
so thats it, my little story, im pretty sure it has happened to other people.
i just couldnt believe that i had let other people make me feel so odd about the whole thing. lucky i met the guy i guess.
cheers
the first time i told someone, they shouted it, literally.
the second time, it was a girl, and while she still maintains she is ok with it, there is a definite sense of awkwardness whenever i bring the subject up, and she just doesnt was to hurt my feelings...again.
but the other week, me and a new mate were out drinking, and we get into this conversation about his ex, who was pretty awkward at the best of times.
she once spread a rumor that i had a foot fetish, without even knowing she was correct.
so i recall this awkward situation to this guy, and then tell him she was right and he responds.
"cool"
cool
just a normal response
every other time ive told someone they never really accepted or understood it.
so i went into the particulars of it, and he knows quite a lot now, and he has always just instantly accepted it.
nothing seems awkward to him, or weird, and then i realised that it isnt.
i had had such awful reactions to my love of feet and tickling, that finding someone who was not bothered by it, someone who would even embrace it enough to try the ticklishness of my feet (which was not successful by the way, the coldness of my feet did not help this) was so strange to me.
it was one of the nicest things to happen to me, to have someone like this in my life, but i couldnt help feeling a bit taken aback.
he had helped me come to terms with alot of stuff, stuff that the previous girl never got close to, and i think that our friendship can only be helped by this, though it is cheifly his acceptance that has won it.
so thats it, my little story, im pretty sure it has happened to other people.
i just couldnt believe that i had let other people make me feel so odd about the whole thing. lucky i met the guy i guess.
cheers
