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[sfttklishpits]

About ranting on and on. I do that to sort things out in my head. Sometimes, it is a lot of confused bullshit. On the plus side, I did have the courage to talk to my significant other today and I did say what I was thinking. Maybe this can go from a form of punishment to something pleasurable and maybe I can stop denying it. You know, it has helped to be here. Hope you will let me stay.
Angie

 

[isabeau]

love of course you can stay silly...i wasn't questioning your motive, i was seriously trying to understand why you would be interested in tickling if you can't stand to be tickled..that's all i wanted to know, i was curious..hope i didn't offend you with my other post..

 

[kered]

If coming here helped you then it is a good thing. Stay and enjoy yourself and ask all the questions you want. I do.

 

[milagros317]

There is no need to be sorry. The TMF is a place to express your thoughts and feelings about tickling and being tickled. Go right ahead and keep doing that. 😀

 

[kilitiinko1]

Relax,take your time!

Speaking for myself,I think it is very normal to be nervous about giving up all control to someone for the first time.I know I certainly was nervous! But if you take the time to carefully explain what you are looking for from your `ler and let him/her know how you are likely to react and to be gentle with you your first few times,you may be surprised to discover how pleasurable it is to give up control.Of course,trust is the essential element in this equation.You must know and absolutely trust your `ler to stay within your limits.Then,as you become more comfortable in your role as `lee,you can start expanding these and seeing how far you want to go,be it gentle,playful tickling or all-out torture!I do think that you`ve taken the correct first step in talking with your significant other about your wants and desires.I hope that you can find what you are looking for.

I would also suggest that you and your significant other read Scared`s story,"Leah`s Limits". Good luck!

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

Hey Angie, don't apologise, there's really no need 🙂

Good to have you here, I've read your posts and I find nothing wrong in them and its good that being around 'here' has helped you in some way and good luck with your other half... perhaps you can report back how it goes?

Take care 😎

 

[LItickleree]

being here has really helped me. I never talked to anyone about my thing for tickling and after coming here i was able to share and express how i felt.

 

[sfttklishpits]

Thank you all.

I was trying to deal with wanting this all the time and why I wanted something that I was supposed to hate. Was I just plain sick? Was I a masochist who needed real help? How could I ever tell anyone. I tried to tell someone awhile back and lost that person for good. Now, I have told someone again and it may work out this time. Thank you all for listening and feel free to call me on my BS if you feel I need.
Angie