success stories of reverse psychology

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

Ever use reverse psychology to get someone to be a ler/lee?
"You don't want to do it because you're afraid" / "No I'm not..."
"Because you know you'll never make me say the safeword" / Oh yeah we'll see..."

 

[rhiannon]

Are there actually people dumb enough to fall for that? 🙂 I mean, people who are older than 11? 🙂

 

[Deadsea7777]

Ever use reverse psychology to get someone to be a ler/lee?
"You don't want to do it because you're afraid" / "No I'm not..."
"Because you know you'll never make me say the safeword" / Oh yeah we'll see..."

If you talking about teasing, then yes. Usually I try to seduce the partner into it. Playing mind games is not my cup of tea. I prefer the lee to really want to get into it, i.e., to take responsibility for her part in the whole business, for my peace of mind.

 

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

If you talking about teasing, then yes. Usually I try to seduce the partner into it. Playing mind games is not my cup of tea. I prefer the lee to really want to get into it, i.e., to take responsibility for her part in the whole business, for my peace of mind.

I didn't mean it in the sense of tricking them into something, but more like a ice-breaker. Not the easiest thing to talk about for some of us...

 

[Deadsea7777]

I didn't mean it in the sense of tricking them into something, but more like a ice-breaker. Not the easiest thing to talk about for some of us...

Sorry, my mistake.
Yes is not easier at all, in fact is one of the most difficult things I tried to do in life for fear of being label "weirdo".
What I did to brake the ice, is having a copy of the book "The joy of Sex", by Alex Confort, and read it together to comment about it. Start asking her what she thinks about the practices of the book. Which ones she accept or may like etc, and then ask about the tickling. And have patience, patience and then more patience with her, after women are like old diesel engines they do take time to warm up.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

I'm not into mind games or pressuring. It's only fun if it's a mutual pleasure.

 

[Gadilici]

It's not stupidity, Rhiannon. The human subconscious doesn't register negatives. Like the statement "I don't do that" , the subconscious hears "I do that". Not that that necessarily has any impact, but properly set up, reverse psychology can work very well.

Even on cynics and skeptics. 😀

Christopher