"Super Shy Girl" enters

[Heather Feather]

I thought I'd make a post before I lost the nerve to do it. "Tickling" is something I was only recently, well, as in a couple years ago, turned on to. Much like the other most recent poster's story in this subforum for member profile things. I was oblivious to the idea of tickling as, well, a fetish until my boyfriend confessed his interest in it. And somehow, through all that touching and tingling, I found that it turned me on. A lot.

And stupidly, I'm afraid that even though I am addicted to the sensation and into it, I don't have that extreme of a reaction to it. I don't blast off in fits of laughter, I'm not sure I ever have. And usually I feel like my lack of ordinary feedback causes more of a problem than the fetish ever does.

I guess you could say, I'm sort of looking for a way to better understand something I'm only aware of through my boyfriend with an open mind. And perhaps figure out why I fail so hard at laughing when I'm tickled. From the few posts I have read it, and one very interesting admin's story (MTP Jeff, wow!) you all seem super friendly and full of information and knowledge about the world of tickling.

 

[Coda]

Welcome, Heather. There's nothing to be afraid of, and there are plenty of people on the Forum who are willing to listen and talk with you about everything, and encourage you on your bravery in saying hello.

 

[slacker2114]

Welcome to the fold, Heather. It's good to have you. Any questions you may have in regards to anything from tickling to politics, there's always someone around that can help.

I hope you find the answers you're looking for and enjoy your stay with us. Good luck to you.

 

[ikaiyoo]

Well welcome to the forum and thank you for sharing. I hope you find what you are looking for.

 

[MasterPaladin]

Heather I am not overly ticklish except for a few spots. With me is my girl uses her nails and lightly runs them on my arms legs or feet I get chicken skin and very aroused I don't go into a fit of laughter either unless you get me in my worst spot and that lmao will remain my secret because that spot is just torture. The fact that your bf is giving you all these new found feelings means he is doing his job so to say. Just relax and enjoy the play and get rid of the fear that your not responding well because you are.

 

[RegisteredUser]

I thought I'd make a post before I lost the nerve to do it. "Tickling" is something I was only recently, well, as in a couple years ago, turned on to. Much like the other most recent poster's story in this subforum for member profile things. I was oblivious to the idea of tickling as, well, a fetish until my boyfriend confessed his interest in it. And somehow, through all that touching and tingling, I found that it turned me on. A lot.

And stupidly, I'm afraid that even though I am addicted to the sensation and into it, I don't have that extreme of a reaction to it. I don't blast off in fits of laughter, I'm not sure I ever have. And usually I feel like my lack of ordinary feedback causes more of a problem than the fetish ever does.

I guess you could say, I'm sort of looking for a way to better understand something I'm only aware of through my boyfriend with an open mind. And perhaps figure out why I fail so hard at laughing when I'm tickled. From the few posts I have read it, and one very interesting admin's story (MTP Jeff, wow!) you all seem super friendly and full of information and knowledge about the world of tickling.

Well if the problem is that you want to blast off in fits of laughter, maybe your boyfriend hasn't found the right spot or technique yet, or maybe you have to be in a certain kind of mood when tickled. But if the problem is you think you're supposed to blast off in fits of laughter, there is no supposed to. If you enjoy it, that's the way you're supposed to react.

 

[Adam]

Welcome to the TMF, super shy girl Heather. 😉 Seriously, I'd just like to echo what others have said. You will always find people here willing to listen and help out someone that's new to all of this. And I happen to agree with what RegisteredUser said. If you enjoy the sensation of being tickled, there really is no "wrong way". But if you still believe something is amiss, you may well find the answers you seek by hanging out here for a bit. Whatever you do, have fun. You will always be welcome. 🙂

 

[ticklishscribe]

I big welcome from me and please feel free to contact me anytime. I hope you enjoy yourself here.​

I thought I'd make a post before I lost the nerve to do it. "Tickling" is something I was only recently, well, as in a couple years ago, turned on to. Much like the other most recent poster's story in this subforum for member profile things. I was oblivious to the idea of tickling as, well, a fetish until my boyfriend confessed his interest in it. And somehow, through all that touching and tingling, I found that it turned me on. A lot.

And stupidly, I'm afraid that even though I am addicted to the sensation and into it, I don't have that extreme of a reaction to it. I don't blast off in fits of laughter, I'm not sure I ever have. And usually I feel like my lack of ordinary feedback causes more of a problem than the fetish ever does.

I guess you could say, I'm sort of looking for a way to better understand something I'm only aware of through my boyfriend with an open mind. And perhaps figure out why I fail so hard at laughing when I'm tickled. From the few posts I have read it, and one very interesting admin's story (MTP Jeff, wow!) you all seem super friendly and full of information and knowledge about the world of tickling.

 

[Myriads]

Hello Heather,

Welcome to the forum. And it's always good to see someone make the leap into posting and chatting with us. I'm sure that you'll find many folks here who can share insight.

As to your statement, every person has a different reaction to being tickled. Some people scream and go nuts, others quietly laugh, some get weak and can't move at all, others become whirling dirvishes.

If your reaction is understated, then it may be simply how you react, and if your boyfriend is enjoying that, then all is good. Don't make the error of compairing yourself to other reactions you see in clips. That's the same as seeing a photo of some other woman with qualities different from your own and feeling inferior.

You have a unique response to tickling, and your boyfriend and I bet many others would enjoy it.

And perhaps there is more in thee, you just need the right Ler attention from your Boyfriend.

Myriads

 

[tommytikl]

Hi Heather, Welcome!

We were all newbies at some point or another and we can all learn from each other.

And like Myriads said, every one reacts to tickling differently, like everyone sneezes differently, or speaks differently. Its that difference, but common link to tickling that makes this place great.

Enjoy and happy exploring.

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, Heather Feather, and congratulations on making your first posts. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

 

[kered]

Hello Heather!

 

[Heather Feather]

Thanks everyone for your warm welcome! Thank you those specifically for addressing my tickled reaction issues, lol. I often feel like I have a problem, for being the type to sort of lockup and go very silent. I think it's always been my response, though these days I don't last very long if he keeps at one spot long enough. Especially my feet. There's that sort of breaking point where if I don't make some sort of giggle that tingling feeling is just overwhelming.

But thanks again! (geez I'm repeating myself like crazy)

 

[baldadonis]

Welcome Heather. Glad you have decided to join us. There's a wealth of knowledge from all the threads on this forum as well as just chatting with people. Whatever questions you have I'm sure can be answered.

My personal opinion, there's nothing wrong with loving the sensations even if your reactions aren't over the top. I've seen many lees like this. On some days this even describes me. Sometimes I'm off the wall ticklish and other times I'm surprised how much more mild the sensations are. It can be very situational depending on where I am, what's going on, who the ler is, etc... But I always enjoy the tickling.

Don't put pressure on yourself to be any specific type of lee. If you are having fun being tickled, and your bf enjoys tickling you, you have a pretty good thing already.

Hope you enjoy yourself here. Look forward to seeing you around.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Hi Heather!

We've already been somewhat acquainted in the knismo-whatever symbol thread - but I thought I'd stop by and comment on your profile 🙂

First and foremost, welcome!! The TMF is like a second home to many of us, and I think that it won't be long before you feel the same way 😛 I love how you jumped right in 🙂 Very awesome 😉

As far as being worried about your reactions, you say that it causes problems - does your bf say that he's not happy with your reactions? Or is it just your own insecurity that is causing you problems?

Either way, it's important for you to understand that all of us are different in how we react to tickling. Our laughter, movement and everything else is going to differ from person to person. I know how easy it is to see the lees in videos and be like, "Hmm - I'm not like that in this way or that way," and assume that it would make you undesirable, but in reality, that's just not the case. For every single aspect of you as a lee, there are lers out there who love it and lers out there who hate it. Some prefer screamers, some aren't satisfied until the lee goes into "silent laughter." Everyone's different in their preferences.

Your reactions, whatever they are, are just fine 🙂 Don't feel like you need to fit a mold 🙂

 

[Heather Feather]

Thanks Bald & Skip.

Skip: There have been times were my reaction frustrates him. He doesn't really admit how thoroughly it must annoy him...but I get the feeling that it does when he's egging me on verbally to laugh and I don't have it in me to do so. The only times I seem to really lose control over my own reactions are when we're sort of tickle-fighting against one another, but I'm not nearly as strong as he is and I often end up flinching and going into extreme quiet mode with stifled giggling once he's got me pinned. This is usually enough for him, but if it goes the other way around (with me letting him tickle me voluntarily) sometimes it's just not enough.

And, as much of a turn on it is for me, I don't need it as a sexual stimulus as much as he does, and I often progress quickly into, well, stages of wanting to have sex before he reaches the same level.

Wow this feels a little TMI, lol. I think that's the best I can explain it as...

 

[TicklishS126]

Hi and 😀