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Telling your friends about your fetish?
CheshireCatNY
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Damn ticklishgiggle...thats some chat session! Though I think its easier for a woman to tell a man than the other way around. I think it has to do with the double standard and how men are usually more willing to accomidate women and their passions.
Most of my friends know about my fetishes....I'm kind of a weird guy and most of them were just relieved it wasnt something more bizarre! LOL
Most of my friends know about my fetishes....I'm kind of a weird guy and most of them were just relieved it wasnt something more bizarre! LOL
I told my closest friends, and the girls, save one, thought it was actually kind of cute. The guys, like most, were just like...
"Well...it's not like it's something psycho like wanting to nail people to a fencepost. Now THAT'S a messed up fetish." And yes, that's an actual quote.
After that, I became generally open with my fetish, and I haven't gotten teased about it...yet. 🙂
"Well...it's not like it's something psycho like wanting to nail people to a fencepost. Now THAT'S a messed up fetish." And yes, that's an actual quote.
After that, I became generally open with my fetish, and I haven't gotten teased about it...yet. 🙂
flightless_me
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lmao!!!!! That's funny I laughed so hard after reading that quote that I cried!...wow kinda like my tickling sessions....😀-Kunoke- said:
crydun
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hmmmm, most of you who know me from the TMF or here know that I'm always posting about my friends bear and bunny. I wouldn't have them around today if I hadn't "opened up" about myself in the college lobby one day. From there, we progressed to three-way tickle fights and on a walk to the cafeteria, bear admitted to me that he too, liked tickling and being tickled. This of course, progressed to the long Wal-Mart sessions that Knox has heard.
The Bottom Line: Almost anyone who knows me (excluding my mother and her looney relatives) knows how I feel about tickling. I don't hide it. I don't advertise it. I just bring it up casually in conversation. It gets results.
The Bottom Line: Almost anyone who knows me (excluding my mother and her looney relatives) knows how I feel about tickling. I don't hide it. I don't advertise it. I just bring it up casually in conversation. It gets results.
asianfeetickler
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well, I just want to share that...I haven't tell most of my friends about my feitsh. I once told a girl I was trying to go out with. (I probably shouldn't have done that since she isn't goping out with me at that time, but I just want to tell someone and see her reaction. I was dumb enough to mentioned that it was a weird feitsh
"Mm, you are right. That's weird!" she said in ICQ
However, most of the time I can still tickle people without telling them my fetish. THere was a time when I was telling a girl how sad I am without a gf, so she asked me to play with her = tickle her. But she wasn't ticklish, and I wasn't an experience tickler, so she didn't even react.
Well, that's my story.
"Mm, you are right. That's weird!" she said in ICQ
However, most of the time I can still tickle people without telling them my fetish. THere was a time when I was telling a girl how sad I am without a gf, so she asked me to play with her = tickle her. But she wasn't ticklish, and I wasn't an experience tickler, so she didn't even react.
Well, that's my story.
jdtickler
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Umm u know for me is easier to tell girls about my tickling/foot fetish than my male friends, even tho, most of em know of it, i decided to be really open about my fetishes and it turned out to be great, nobody is like weirded out or something like that.
Im dating this new girl, shes great, hot, nice, smart, funny,last time we got out prolly like a week ago, she was wearing sandals, incredibly cute feet lemme tell ya, and i just told her "ohh sandals i luv sandals, cute feet btw" she just smiled and said "why thank u =)" after that i just replied "well i kinda have this thing for girls feet, u know like a fetish, specially tickling em" "really ?? hehe im really ticklish, u know my sister's bf is also a foot fetishist, what a coinsidence" she said, it went out great, she even thinks that my tickling fetish is cute hehe, and well most of my friends think is like a normal regular thing, cuz most of em have fetishes of their own so....
i thinnk the best way is to talk about it like a regular everyday subject, not like some kind of perverted sexual practice or something, if ur friends are open minded sure they'll understand it and take it like something normal and wont label u like a sick perverted monster hehe.
Im dating this new girl, shes great, hot, nice, smart, funny,last time we got out prolly like a week ago, she was wearing sandals, incredibly cute feet lemme tell ya, and i just told her "ohh sandals i luv sandals, cute feet btw" she just smiled and said "why thank u =)" after that i just replied "well i kinda have this thing for girls feet, u know like a fetish, specially tickling em" "really ?? hehe im really ticklish, u know my sister's bf is also a foot fetishist, what a coinsidence" she said, it went out great, she even thinks that my tickling fetish is cute hehe, and well most of my friends think is like a normal regular thing, cuz most of em have fetishes of their own so....
i thinnk the best way is to talk about it like a regular everyday subject, not like some kind of perverted sexual practice or something, if ur friends are open minded sure they'll understand it and take it like something normal and wont label u like a sick perverted monster hehe.
Camel26
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I have only told a few of my friends, as it's still a very personal subject...and I'm kinda private about it...my philosophy is that if I'm not sleeping with you, you don't need to know...a few friends are still trying to get it out of me...but I'm afraid to tell them because they tickle me already...and I don't want them to think they are turning me on...only when my ler does it, or when someone I'm attracted to in general does it...
I dunno, maybe I'm a chicken...but I'm pleased with how the few people that know reacted...maybe someday I'll tell more people...
I also figure, my roomies have to know--whenever my ler and I go to our room for some alone time, my roomies HAVE to hear me laughing throughout the house...and begging for her to stop...so they kinda have to know what's going on...oh well!!!! 😛
I dunno, maybe I'm a chicken...but I'm pleased with how the few people that know reacted...maybe someday I'll tell more people...
I also figure, my roomies have to know--whenever my ler and I go to our room for some alone time, my roomies HAVE to hear me laughing throughout the house...and begging for her to stop...so they kinda have to know what's going on...oh well!!!! 😛
sole seeker1
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Personally, I don't tell my friends. I figure they don't tell me their bedroom secrets... why should I burden them with mine?
Of course, I'm pretty sure my ex-wife outed me to all of them anyway.
Of course, I'm pretty sure my ex-wife outed me to all of them anyway.
The_Laugher
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All of my firends and most all of my co-workers know about my love of tickling. I have always been open about it. I usually talk to them about the benifits of stress management using tickling and in many cases they are willing to try it. I have friends who may not think to much about it and do not participate in it but are open to talking to me about it if I have a particular story or experience to tell them about.
I also have talked to many strangers about it. I think in all of my life, I can count on one hand how many times someone called me a name like weirdo or pervert. And than was when I was in High School. everyone, has been open and understandign about it or at least willing to accept that it is something that is important to me.
I also have talked to many strangers about it. I think in all of my life, I can count on one hand how many times someone called me a name like weirdo or pervert. And than was when I was in High School. everyone, has been open and understandign about it or at least willing to accept that it is something that is important to me.
Mercury1
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I don't want ANYone knowing about this part of my life. Firstly, it's none of their business, secondly, if it's not hurting them, why should they care? and thirdly, they wouldn't understand and probably call me perverted.
Three people know about this. That's all. My brother found out because of a lack of technical coverup on my part. I went to use the washroom before clearing the computer of evidence of my "travels", for want of a better word, and he found out... He brought up the realtickling.com homepage and changed the page to something else, then when I came back upstairs he said to me, 'Press back on the browser', to get to the page. I, of course, closed the browser entirely and tried to deny everything... Luckily for me, my brother doesn't care what I do, so long as it isn't destructive, so a few minutes of teasing later, the subject dropped.
My sister found a story I wrote about tickling and teased me about it for a while. Again, like my brother, the subject dropped a little while later. My family rules because they don't care what I do in my private time, so long as it doesn't hurt them. (Of course, my dad doesn't know and if he found out, I dunno what'd happen :\).
And as for the third person, well, here's where I say cheers to great friends! I found a great joke in TT's joke thread, and sent it to her. She asked me where I got it, and I was, of course, apprehensive to tell her. All I said was that I got it off an adult website. She said that she and several people she knew between them have gone on more adult websites than can be calculated. She said she's seen so much, that whatever I show her wouldn't freak her out at all. She also said that if I didn't tell her, she'd pump the joke through Google and click on the adult website it was on, and she'd find it that way. So I sent her the TT link. All she said was, 'Cool' and never spoke of it again. I went to visit her recently and our friendship is still strong. 🙂
So yeah... Kind of longer than I thought it'd be... But I wouldn't tell anyone about it, unless I'm like under a bright light and my life depended on it... Which I hope won't happen. 🙂
Three people know about this. That's all. My brother found out because of a lack of technical coverup on my part. I went to use the washroom before clearing the computer of evidence of my "travels", for want of a better word, and he found out... He brought up the realtickling.com homepage and changed the page to something else, then when I came back upstairs he said to me, 'Press back on the browser', to get to the page. I, of course, closed the browser entirely and tried to deny everything... Luckily for me, my brother doesn't care what I do, so long as it isn't destructive, so a few minutes of teasing later, the subject dropped.
My sister found a story I wrote about tickling and teased me about it for a while. Again, like my brother, the subject dropped a little while later. My family rules because they don't care what I do in my private time, so long as it doesn't hurt them. (Of course, my dad doesn't know and if he found out, I dunno what'd happen :\).
And as for the third person, well, here's where I say cheers to great friends! I found a great joke in TT's joke thread, and sent it to her. She asked me where I got it, and I was, of course, apprehensive to tell her. All I said was that I got it off an adult website. She said that she and several people she knew between them have gone on more adult websites than can be calculated. She said she's seen so much, that whatever I show her wouldn't freak her out at all. She also said that if I didn't tell her, she'd pump the joke through Google and click on the adult website it was on, and she'd find it that way. So I sent her the TT link. All she said was, 'Cool' and never spoke of it again. I went to visit her recently and our friendship is still strong. 🙂
So yeah... Kind of longer than I thought it'd be... But I wouldn't tell anyone about it, unless I'm like under a bright light and my life depended on it... Which I hope won't happen. 🙂
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CellarDweller
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Well.......yes and no. lmao
I have a group of friends that I know for years. I see them on a weekly/daily basis. They do not know.
My "other" group of friends are people that I have come to know online, and meet at shows throught the Tri-state area. Our main communication is online, but we meet frequently. While I have never said outright "I have a tickle fetish", I have made comments like "If you continue to tease me, I'll have to break out the "evil tickle hands.", or in threads that talk about "turn ons" or stuff, I've said things like "I like giving body rubs. I like to feel the guy under my hands....and of course, I'll spend some time looking for ticklish spots."
So I'm sure they have a pretty good idea that tickling is a thing for me.
I have a group of friends that I know for years. I see them on a weekly/daily basis. They do not know.
My "other" group of friends are people that I have come to know online, and meet at shows throught the Tri-state area. Our main communication is online, but we meet frequently. While I have never said outright "I have a tickle fetish", I have made comments like "If you continue to tease me, I'll have to break out the "evil tickle hands.", or in threads that talk about "turn ons" or stuff, I've said things like "I like giving body rubs. I like to feel the guy under my hands....and of course, I'll spend some time looking for ticklish spots."
So I'm sure they have a pretty good idea that tickling is a thing for me.
I've told mostly my best friend and a couple of close friends
My best friend is very open and when I told him I was researching fetish web sites and I told him first about my foot fetish.
I told him that I found this really erotic way women use their feet to get men to orgasm. Then I described this sexy foot-job sequence that I saw and he was speechless and said "Wow that's hot"
I then started to tell him that "I am starting to notice girl's nicely pedicured feet with their high arches and what I can do with them and what they can do to me"
Now he admits he kinda likes feet and he saw a cute local news woman last week and "She was wearing these strappy open toed sandals and she had the sexiest tanned feet with perfect French pedicure"
I then knew I'd created a foot fetishist ...LOL
PS Now I've been telling him about this community and how "it's a Foot / Tickling community" I'm telling him how "some of these very hot women on the board LOVE to be tied up and tickled to death and how I'm starting to get into it"...LOL
One step at a time
My best friend is very open and when I told him I was researching fetish web sites and I told him first about my foot fetish.
I told him that I found this really erotic way women use their feet to get men to orgasm. Then I described this sexy foot-job sequence that I saw and he was speechless and said "Wow that's hot"
I then started to tell him that "I am starting to notice girl's nicely pedicured feet with their high arches and what I can do with them and what they can do to me"
Now he admits he kinda likes feet and he saw a cute local news woman last week and "She was wearing these strappy open toed sandals and she had the sexiest tanned feet with perfect French pedicure"
I then knew I'd created a foot fetishist ...LOL
PS Now I've been telling him about this community and how "it's a Foot / Tickling community" I'm telling him how "some of these very hot women on the board LOVE to be tied up and tickled to death and how I'm starting to get into it"...LOL
One step at a time
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themagicfingers1
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in my expeirience all the ladies i have told have actually liked me more for my fetish which seems to me to be normal beacause as one of my friends pointed out the sensation of tickling is quite similar to sex and it was understandable that i enjoyed this and some ladies were even jelous
sexygamedesigns1
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It must be good to get it out there to someone. I totally agree with Cheshire: "I think it has to do with the double standard and how men are usually more willing to accomidate women and their passions." Oh yeah.
best wishes
R
best wishes
R
Camel26
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Of my vanilla friends, only a handful know...and it was because they asked me outright. Otherwise, I don't tell people...my friends from the local BDSM scene/folks on Fetlife.com know, because it's on there for all to see. I am more comfortable telling vanilla folk that I enjoy being flogged than I am telling them about my love of tickling...dunno why...but it is what it is!
I don't think I've ever really told any of my friends about my fetish... and that's probably because I never realized that it was a fetish until recently...
Let me explain... throughout college and whatnot I LOVE LOVE LOVE poking guys, moreso when they are ticklish... I didn't think that it was a fetish I thought I was being playful... and others probably thought I was flirting (which I wasn't really). I love tickling my male cousins, and some of the little boys (and girls) that I used to babysit... thinking it's just fun and games and what not...
Well my current bf, has a tickling fetish of sorts... loves being tickled... though he won't admit it :cool I didn't think that I had a fetish until i started thinking about it... and then it hit me like a ton of bricks...
I did end up telling one friend... and he just started laughing b/c I guess he thought it was funny that I came to this realization, but at least I'm not wierd for it... am I? :stickout
Let me explain... throughout college and whatnot I LOVE LOVE LOVE poking guys, moreso when they are ticklish... I didn't think that it was a fetish I thought I was being playful... and others probably thought I was flirting (which I wasn't really). I love tickling my male cousins, and some of the little boys (and girls) that I used to babysit... thinking it's just fun and games and what not...
Well my current bf, has a tickling fetish of sorts... loves being tickled... though he won't admit it :cool I didn't think that I had a fetish until i started thinking about it... and then it hit me like a ton of bricks...
I did end up telling one friend... and he just started laughing b/c I guess he thought it was funny that I came to this realization, but at least I'm not wierd for it... am I? :stickout
Amanda Cortez
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I don't see any reason to tel my friends that I have a fetish. I think it's really private.
I would never tell any of my 'vanilla' friends outright. Proabably because I don't view them as part of my 'sexual' life and thus would find it very odd to reveal that side of me.
However, I don't doubt that some of my female friends have probably realised that I like to tickle (from personal experience :stickout ), and who knows... maybe one or two of them have put two and two together.
However, I don't doubt that some of my female friends have probably realised that I like to tickle (from personal experience :stickout ), and who knows... maybe one or two of them have put two and two together.
Jackrabbit
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I've told all my friends about my tickle fetish and all of them were accepting. A majority of them have even tied me up and tickled me upon my request (very few of them allowed me to get my revenge). I've been thinking about making my own string of tickling videos but none of the tickling friends of mine wants to be seen on video.
