Telling your significant other...success stories

[justatickler]

I'll be the first to admit that this forum has no shortage of, "How do I tell my girlfriend?" threads. They come in all shapes and sizes. But in this particular case I'm not all that interested in how to get it done. Frankly, deep down, I believe we all know how to do it. Most of us are just weary, for obvious reasons, and are probably more interested in hearing how it went.

I've been with somebody for a few months and haven't told her yet, but we've arrived at the point where we're beginning to explore and get curious in our 'deeper' sexual interests. I didn't run pouting to the corner or anything, but I simply said that I wasn't ready to tell her a few things (such as this) and she completely understood. But I will tell her, and she'll only be the second person I've been with that will know. I have nearly no doubt whatsoever that she'll be completely accepting and open to it, but as I get closer to that point I'm interested in hearing positive stories. I know there are negative ones and situations that didn't turn out well, but I'll be totally honest...I only want the good stuff. 🙂

So I'm interested in you guys and girls that told your significant other who, as far as you knew, had no interest in tickling whatsoever. Maybe they even hated being tickled, but you reached a maturity in your relationship where you told them and they were very accepting, possibly even accommodating. How did they react at first? Was it what you expected? Were they curious? Did it take them time? Did they hate it (or still do) and still let you indulge? Good stuff like that (and only the success stories, if you don't mind). 🙂

 

[mysticsvn]

All of my girlfriends have been open to being tickled and tickling me. Even friends have let me tie and tickle them 🙂

 

[Canadian_Eh]

When I first told my fiance' (Yeah, I hid it for a long while) I was scared out of mind. I think that may have been why it took me so long. Eventhough I knew he loved me and accepted me in so many other ways, I feared this was the one way he wouldn't. For SO long I wanted to tell him, it was hard feeling like you were leading a double life, and to want so badly to tell the one person that matters most to you, but can't... It was killing me... Finally, one night I just decided I would do it.

So in my usual tactful way, I told him I had something to tell him. I was so nervous I couldn't even look at him, lucky for me it was the middle of the night and couldn't see him anyway. I spilled my entire guts out as my head was buried into my pillow (Classy I know, but i'm really really shy about all of this). He actually laughed about it and said he thought it was cute, and that he had suspected as much anyway. (Apparently stuff like this can be hard to hide no matter how hard you try). Anyway, it all turned out for the best, cause not only does he now know about everything (I even took him through the TMF), but I also no longer feel like i'm living a double life anymore.

As hard of a thing as it can be telling the one you love all about this, I reccommed to everyone that they should. My experience happened to be a good one, but if yours doesn't then, I guess you have to ask yourself, "If this person can't accept me for who I am, are they really the right person". I wish the two of you the best of luck!

 

[waitin2btkled]

All of my girlfriends have been open to being tickled and tickling me. Even friends have let me tie and tickle them 🙂

I need new friends....lol

 

[mysticsvn]

I need new friends....lol

I'm not sure how I've lucked out over the years. I guess I know a lot of perverts.

 

[CuteJill143]

Wow the relationship in my life right now has been one HUGE success story. ITs like I am dreaming it half the time. I feel like a lucky girl. Also being on this foru, has been successful for me as well with helping me "come out" and telling a significant other what I want. You have all taught me not to settle for less than someone who makes my dreams come true. If it feels right to tell someone it just does end of story. IT doesn't phase me anymore

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

When I told my ex fiance, he basically breathed a huge sigh of relief and said, "That's it?" I had built it up so much to be this big thing that I made him nervous. Afterwards, he just expressed that he thought it was cute, and he actually joined the forum and dragged me to my 1st (and 2nd...and 3rd 😛) gatherings.

 

[sophiamarie]

I myself do not recall this, but my boyfriend insists that one of the first things i told him was that my cleavage was ticklish. (It's probably true, but I deny it every time he brings it up). Literally one of the first. Like, on our first date.

One of the first times he came over to my house I "test-tickled" him, poking him in the side basically to gauge his reaction (which was phenomenal). I remember my eyes growing wide and my mouth smiling evily.

A couple weeks later (I think) I started talking to him about his ticklishness...was he tickled as a child, had he ever been tied up and tickled (no...not yet 🙂 ) It was online though that I told him about my "thing" as I call it, as I hate the word "fetish". He has the chatlog, if anyone really wants to read it. I was so scared to tell him, but he had sort of figured it out already because of all the questioning.

There is a happy ending along with a sad ending to this story. The sad ending (as you may know if you read the cautionary tale of miss sophia marie thread) is that he is no longer ticklish for the most part, unless he is tied down so he can't move at all. We're working on getting that "fixed" though we really don't know how

The happy ending is that though only with me, he now has a tickling "thing" too, as well as a small foot "thing" (but again, only with me). He has thanked me more than once for introducing him to this world and enjoys tying me up and tickling me. He also tickles me constantly, and by constantly I mean constantly. But of course that's okay with me.

 

[PQfingers]

I'm really nervous, but I'm seriously considering telling my GF about this site. I think she might be the one. I want to be open with her. Over the last few years I've giving her some sexy and short tickles now and again. And I think she enjoy more then a few of them.