The Benefits Of Blindfolds

[ShadowTklr]

I know I'm not the only one who finds blindfolds to be a benefit when using bondage and tickling, but I have not seen any threads that have dealt with the specific benefits in-depth.

I wanted to offer some insight into what I consider to be an almost indispensable and simple tool of the tickle session that can enhance mood, sensitivity, awareness and interaction between the Lee and Ler. Your thoughts are greatly appreciated. I’m interested to see how many of you have experienced similar situations, or perhaps others that I have not outlined in this post.

Creates Introspection: The ability to look within oneself for a sense of reality and understanding is what introspection is all about. During an intimate tickle session, I verbally taunt, tease and spin colorful narratives. The blindfold allows the lee to “see” with the eyes of her imagination while simultaneously experiencing the physical touch. I have been told many times that my narratives help to create an inescapable image that thrusts the lee into the situation with both body and mind. It has resulted in some mind-blowing sessions. I can speak volumes on this point alone, from experience.

Visually Appealing: There are few things more visually erotic than watching my lee struggle to hear where I am as I silently maneuver from one tickle spot to the other. The expressions on her face as she lies in a limbo between wanting to jump at any moment, and forcing herself to be still and quiet so as to get a better fix on my location, are priceless. By tickling her with varied pressures and durations, I can keep her in a constant state of excited anticipation.

Decreases Inhibition: Psychologically, the blindfold acts as a “Double-Blind” that reduces tension and anxiety in both shy Lees and Lers. It is like a mental privacy curtain. The Lee's inability to see translates to a sense of not being seen. For the Ler, the sense of not being seen by the Lee can relax his anxiety and allow him to play with a sense of anonymity. It’s very subtle, but the longer she wears it; the greater both of their inhibitions are diminished. It makes for great interaction, and allows for a heightened state for the lee.

Creative Atmosphere / Role Play: They say that when one sense is lost, the other senses take over to compensate. Olfactory senses are direct conduits to sexual arousal, fear, memory, and identification. I use sound and smell to help create a desired atmosphere for my lee. Together with creative role-play, the lee is absorbed by her surroundings, limited only to what she hears, smells, and feels. The effect can be strong enough to engage her in her role without the distractions of everyday common objects constantly grounding her sense of awareness.

Anyway, that’s my Thesis on the benefits of blindfolds. I'd be very interested to read additional interpretations on benefits that I may have missed. 🙂

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

True...blindfolds have been used and known to heighten the other senses. Especially for a lee because their eyes aren't concentrating on the surroundings but will be forced to concentrate on her sense of touch (or in this case, ticklishness.) It does take a degree of trust though, as does bondage or stocks. I myself have used blindfolds but that was with people that trusted me.

 

[kurchatovium]

Well as ticklerguy said it requires more trust. I think one should not start right in with bondage and blindfolds unless you are really comfartable with one another. I think trust is very important in all aspects of BDSM and needs to be build up over time. Just my humble opinion though. 😀

 

[ShadowTklr]

Trust Is a Must

Come on guys. Don't make me spell out everything now. It takes the thread in an entirely different direction. Then, the next ten people will be saying "yeah. I agree that trust is important." And the whole idea of my thread will go to shit. LOL

Trust is an assumption in this thread, so is respect, by not attempting to abuse trust by coercing someone into doing something they are clearly not comfortable doing.

So, the observatons I have made are in defense of using blindfolds during a tickling session, wherein trust is a given factor. My question is really in search of any of you who might be able to add any other observations you have made during the use of blindfolds, and to see if you have had any similar, or different experiences you would like to share.

 

[daddy]

Come on guys. Don't make me spell out everything now. It takes the thread in an entirely different direction. Then, the next ten people will be saying "yeah. I agree that trust is important." And the whole idea of my thread will go to shit. LOL

Whew...glad you set that straight. I saw it coming...lol

I love the blindfold. It helps intensify the fun and I love the look on a lees face while wearing one. It's a cross between small smiles and fear when they are intancipation.

peace out,
daddy

 

[mart]

I'm sure you are right, and in a real situation I would feel fine about it.

But what I hate is when I seea video with blindfolds used, and you never get to see the modle's face at all. The least they could do is to remove the blindfold at some point.

 

[luvn2laf]

Well, I guess it depends on the ler to an extent. I am a lee and if I'm being intensely tickled, it doesn't matter if I have a mask on or not, my eyes are closed and my head is usually thrust up as far as it can go as I laugh as hard as I can. However, when the touch is more intermittent, the blindfold definitely adds to the sense of mystique which intensifies the "threat" that causes the ticklish sensations to begin with. Words alone can set me laughing when wearing a blindfold during those times.

 

[ShadowTklr]

I'm sure you are right, and in a real situation I would feel fine about it.

But what I hate is when I seea video with blindfolds used, and you never get to see the modle's face at all. The least they could do is to remove the blindfold at some point.

Holy crap. Its so funny you should say that. As I think about it, you're right. Not only does the blindfold get in the way, but I find I damn near HATE when the lee is wearing a blindfold in a video. I want to see her face. However, when I'm doing the tickling, there are situations in which the blindfold really adds that extra something. Thanks mart.

 

[ShadowTklr]

Well, I guess it depends on the ler to an extent. I am a lee and if I'm being intensely tickled, it doesn't matter if I have a mask on or not, my eyes are closed and my head is usually thrust up as far as it can go as I laugh as hard as I can. However, when the touch is more intermittent, the blindfold definitely adds to the sense of mystique which intensifies the "threat" that causes the ticklish sensations to begin with. Words alone can set me laughing when wearing a blindfold during those times.

I have also found that to be very true about the way that just the threat can often catapult you into giggles even before the touch happens. I like to tickle intensely as well, and even though I don't need to use blindfolds in every circumstance, I agree that they work best when I'm tease-tickling, and giving bursts of surprise attack intense tickles. 🙂

 

[steph]

cool thread Shadow...

Dunno if this is considered "different" but I really enjoy being blindfolded for private play. I'd never do it in a group...Why? Yanno how some people are REALLY talented and others, "well, not so much" as Danimal would say...If I'm blinded I can't see whose touch is paradise and who I want to "wish into the cornfield." That doesn't happen too often, thank goodness, but I still like to be able to make mental notes for potentially future play.
XOXO

So, the observatons I have made are in defense of using blindfolds during a tickling session, wherein trust is a given factor. My question is really in search of any of you who might be able to add any other observations you have made during the use of blindfolds, and to see if you have had any similar, or different experiences you would like to share.

 

[Deleted member 15977]

Blindsided Tickle!

Shadow,


Your thesis about the blindfold is perfect. Like anticipation, the blindfold is a tool that can be used to enhance the experience to incredible levels. I believe that it can actually increase sensativity levels in the lee due to the fact that she is total unaware of what delicious target area your planning on next. I also feel that a gag of some sort can enhance ticklish situations. Unable to beg foolishly for mercy is a way to increase the lee's feeling of being helpless. The more options you remove, the better. Not a lot of you will agree with me on this, but sometimes, the anticipation of the tortures to cum ( the sound of feet approaching you, or the tapping of fingernails close by, etc. ) is sometimes more intense then the tickling itself...

 

[ShadowTklr]

Thanks for the feedback so far gang. This is some good stuff.

Dunno if this is considered "different" but I really enjoy being blindfolded for private play. I'd never do it in a group...Why? Yanno how some people are REALLY talented and others, "well, not so much" as Danimal would say...If I'm blinded I can't see whose touch is paradise and who I want to "wish into the cornfield." That doesn't happen too often, thank goodness, but I still like to be able to make mental notes for potentially future play.
XOXO

I would certainly understand why someone would not want to be blindfolded in a group. I would perceive sight to be a matter of psychological control balancing in that situation as well. It woud also be nice to know who just put a finger there. (gasp)


Perhaps I'll have the opportunity one day to shed a little paradise your way, Steph, so you'll know it was me, er, for potential future play purposes only, of course.

Your thesis about the blindfold is perfect. Like anticipation, the blindfold is a tool that can be used to enhance the experience to incredible levels. I believe that it can actually increase sensativity levels in the lee due to the fact that she is total unaware of what delicious target area your planning on next. I also feel that a gag of some sort can enhance ticklish situations. Unable to beg foolishly for mercy is a way to increase the lee's feeling of being helpless. The more options you remove, the better. Not a lot of you will agree with me on this, but sometimes, the anticipation of the tortures to cum ( the sound of feet approaching you, or the tapping of fingernails close by, etc. ) is sometimes more intense then the tickling itself...

Well Said, Invisible. I feel the same way about heightening the anticipation. Particularly during intimate/private sessions. You can move with a greater degree of stealth and the concentration is all on what you will do next.

As far as gags are concerned, I have and do use them from time to time, but so much more care needs to be taken during the use of gags, that I find I do not use them nearly as often. Besides, I find that continually denying mnercy to my lee by acknowledging her pleas thoughtfully, and then letting her know that I'm going to tickle her anyway, also increases her feeling of vulnerability and frantic escape attempts. Plus, I get to hear the wonderful sound of her escalating attempts to reach my compassion.

 

[luvn2laf]

A gag is one of the few things I will not allow. It feels too demeaning to me. I need to be comfortable and able to use a safe word at the very least. A gag is a no-go no matter who is doing the tickling.

However, my bf will sometimes cover my mouth while he's holding me down tickling me, but if I move his hand, he doesn't resist. So I still feel in control of the situation if I needed to say something.

 

[toneus79]

I don't really go much on blindfolds even though I have tried this (with myself as the Lee I should point out) in several sessions. Three reasons:
1) I have yet to experience total loss of vision, as one can usually still see out of the edge, especially if lying down.
2) The verbal expressions combined with the taunting expression of the Lers face is far more likely to enhance ones ticklishness.
3) Seeing a lers hot bod, also serves to mentally tickle me. Thus in one session about a year back, my Ler had the hottest of bodies, combined with point two. Yet she insisted on me being blindfolded throughout, which prevented the session from being as brilliant as it could have been (still good though).

 

[steph]

I'll look forward to it...😉
XOXO

Thanks for the feedback so far gang. This is some good stuff.
Perhaps I'll have the opportunity one day to shed a little paradise your way, Steph, so you'll know it was me, er, for potential future play purposes only, of course.

 

[mytoesrticklish]

Blindfolded or not

My experience has been that a blindfold makes the tickling VERY intense, especially if you are being tickled by multiple ticklers.