the concentration of a 'ler - how hot is it?

[Miss Serendipity]

Dominate is a verb. Dominant is an adjective. Learn the difference!

^ Lawlerskates @ the above comment! 😀

As for OP: I am sort of at a cross road. I don't want the person to look like their doing a chore, Yet the intense concentration & having them totally into observing and responding to said reactions! that's just hawt to me.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Dominate is a verb. Dominant is an adjective. Learn the difference!

Hahahaha! Jeff got grammar-hammered!



I like the ler to be paying attention, don't get me wrong. But I like interaction and playfulness. Without it I get bored.

 

[Miss Serendipity]

I like the ler to be paying attention, don't get me wrong. But I like interaction and playfulness. Without it I get bored.

I think I know what you mean Lyz! you think its hot to have a ler focus on what makes you react yet you don't want them all gung ho about it! Am I right?

 

[50greg]

Anybody else fascinated by ticklers who focus to the millionth degree when tickling someone? Anything hotter than that?
I would ask for some pointers, but how else do you explain it?

ali32 concentrated like that with me. Looking into her face as she began tickling my feet was amazing.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Anybody else fascinated by ticklers who focus to the millionth degree when tickling someone? Anything hotter than that?
I would ask for some pointers, but how else do you explain it?

Seeing the look on the face of the tickler(s) is exactly why I do not like being blindfolded when I am tickled.
The expressions are part of the psychological aspect.

TTD

 

[Knot Amewzed]

Dominate is a verb. Dominant is an adjective. Learn the difference!

Take advantage of the rare grammatical error by yours truly. All I have to say is, proofread your posts going forward.

Hahahaha! Jeff got grammar-hammered!

I will run into your room and wake your snoring ass up with a pitcher of ice cubed water.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I will run into your room and wake your snoring ass up with a pitcher of ice cubed water.

You talk alot of shit. I take none of your threats seriously anymore.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Take advantage of the rare grammatical error by yours truly. All I have to say is, proofread your posts going forward.

I can't imagine not proofreading all of my posts!
You should consider doing the same...

 

[Knot Amewzed]

I can't imagine not proofreading all of my posts!
You should consider doing the same...

Consider my feelings officially hurt.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

I think that the playful intense concentration of a ler/switch can be very hot and very sexy-if done playfully and it seems like the ler/switch is really getting into tickling the lee or tickling me-that is super hot. Especially when it causes the ler/switch's eyes to light up and dance and there is warmth within the depths of their ornery gaze and it is sexy and awesome when it affects the ler/switch tickling the lee or tickling me-causes them to laugh or chuckle -almost as if the person doing the tickling his or her self is getting just as tickled if not more than the lee unexpectedly and spontaneously without plan-from getting joy from tickling the lee. That is really awesome and great when that happens.

It is hot long as the concentration is not so intense and focused that the ler/switch loses the ability to savor and really enjoy tickling the lee or tickling me and not hot and not sexy-not really fun or not really pleasurable-if the ler/switch is focuses on tickle techniques and tickle tactics-so focused on worrying on mechanics of tickling-not enjoying the journey-targeted focused on trying to have lee reach his or her tickle bliss destination. Does that make sense? You know what I mean.

Think it is similiar to those lovers that seem only fixed and focused primarily if his or partner reaches orgasm or multiple orgasms or big one or not-sadly so many that become lost in this trap-that if it is not possible that night or that time-or short time period-that he or she can not reach orgasm-the ler/switch or lover-gets tangled up in self doubt and negatively thinking he or she is not a great lover-since the other partner did not reach orgasm. Does that make sense? you know what I am saying.

So I think in either one of these cases whether it be a tickle session or tickle sex or just sex in general without tickling-or any pleasurable sex act-or pleasant fun activity-think too often one partner or both partners get tangled up in worrying about performance and delivery-can't really be in the moment and enjoy it-sadly end up during the encounter on dwelling on it, sadly at times forcing it to happen when clearly not going to happen at that time or that night-during that time period.

Not anyone's fault just not going to happen at that time. Sorry probably going on tangent but that is how I think of a ler/switch if concentration is too focused-too caught up on perfecting tickle tactics and techniques-makes it hard to enjoy the tickle journey-when the tickle bliss destination finally is reached-not as enjoyable since you can' t be and live in the moment. That are my thoughts on this topic.