So I'm out to dinner last night with my family and one of the waitstaff is the younger sister of one of my best friends. She stops by to chat for awhile and everything is fine.
As we leave the dining area my son (3 years old) starts lagging behind the group. As I'm waiting for him I see that Chris is now standing by the bar. Actually she has her legs spread apart on the bar-foot rail (stradling the area where the bar lifts up to go in and out) and she's supporting herslef with her hands spread out the same way on top of the bar. Basically in a "X" position...with her back to me!
She was talking to one male and one female bartender and as I walked up on her the female made eye contact with me and had no idea what I was doing. I only had one hand free so I used my left hand to reach around and tickle her left side/ribs. Nothing. No startled jump...no laugh...not so much as a "HEY".
sigh...she just turned around and smiled and said goodbye and stayed in the same position.
Perhaps if I had more time...if I had both hand free...who knows?
Oh well, at least I had the oppertunity!
~ toyou
As we leave the dining area my son (3 years old) starts lagging behind the group. As I'm waiting for him I see that Chris is now standing by the bar. Actually she has her legs spread apart on the bar-foot rail (stradling the area where the bar lifts up to go in and out) and she's supporting herslef with her hands spread out the same way on top of the bar. Basically in a "X" position...with her back to me!

She was talking to one male and one female bartender and as I walked up on her the female made eye contact with me and had no idea what I was doing. I only had one hand free so I used my left hand to reach around and tickle her left side/ribs. Nothing. No startled jump...no laugh...not so much as a "HEY".

sigh...she just turned around and smiled and said goodbye and stayed in the same position.
Perhaps if I had more time...if I had both hand free...who knows?
Oh well, at least I had the oppertunity!
~ toyou