Maneo
TMF Poster
- Joined
- Jan 8, 2024
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The world of tickling, IMHO, is wider than the widest ocean and twice as deep. There is no 'best' related to tickling. There are those who hate the idea of tickling and sex. Then there are those who get turned on just hearing the word. Nothing wrong with either position or the almost infinite positions along the spectrum of tickling between those two positions. If you are of the 'tickling but never sex' party, probably best to skip this entry.
When I was young, tickling was just fun and a way to pester girls. I'm a hetero male, so excuse the biased orientation. I assume that the tickling spectrum applies to whatever one's orientation is.
As I matured into adulthood, I found that tickling fit nicely into my sexual activity. It became a good icebreaker to get to the more intimate (and vanilla stuff). Over many years, I've been fortunate to share intimacy with a healthy number of women. All have been ticklish, and tickling was integral to our intimacy. Some, naturally, more than others. Tickling was either foreplay, afterplay, or sometimes part of the main play. Tickling for me never replaced the main event, but greatly intensified it.
I hasten to add that many women, perhaps a majority, don't share the view that sex and tickling are companions in bed. Here, some discretion is advised, and reading the room, so to speak, I've found a necessary component to a successful life of tickling, whether sex is involved or not. My motto is, relationship first, then comes all the other stuff. If all you are looking for is tickling, relationship be damned, there are places to pay for that or taking the path of ships that pass in the night. Good luck and be careful.
To those among the tickling community who find the very idea of tickling and sex even remotely connected, I cheer you on. Tickling on its own can be pretty rewarding. For those whose bodies respond erotically at the mere mention of tickling, it is one of the best rides on the roller coaster of sex I've ever experienced.
I should mention that plain old missionary style slam, bam, thank you ma'am, no tickling involved, has always been part of my sexual repertoire. Those for whom there is no satisfaction without tickling are in a whole other realm. That considerably narrows the field of prospective partners. Good luck to you, and have patience.
I've never met anyone through TMF for any relationship. Some of my intimate partners I did meet on the internet, but my most satisfying tickle and sex partners have been so-called vanillas I met through entirely dull, normal stuff. People I worked with, people I went to school with, etc.
The one generality I would hazard to offer is that my experience has been that ticklish people, especially really ticklish souls, are also just very sensitive to touch of any form. And if sex enters the picture, it is wonderful to hit the hay with someone who is extra sensitive to touch. For me, a lot of sexual touching and ticklish touching share much in common. When you are on your way to a satisfying climax, you love the feeling but also want to do anything you can to bring it to a conclusion. And there are those who enjoy being on that edge of near climax, but feeling out-of-this-world intense arousal. For me, tickling fills that space like nothing else. Tickling can be a way to prolong the time on that knife edge of almost there but not quite. For some, tickling can bring you back from going over the edge into an orgasm before building things up again until the climax is earth-shattering. Or at least a memorable one.
I've also found that my really ticklish partners reach a point where their ticklishness migrates to deeply satisfying sexual feelings. On more than one occasion, I've had partners who go berserk with regular tickling, ask me to tickle them when they pass that tickle/sex threshold. A delightful moment. I always make their wish my command.
Post orgasm tickling is a whole other world entirely. One best left for another post, another time.
When I was young, tickling was just fun and a way to pester girls. I'm a hetero male, so excuse the biased orientation. I assume that the tickling spectrum applies to whatever one's orientation is.
As I matured into adulthood, I found that tickling fit nicely into my sexual activity. It became a good icebreaker to get to the more intimate (and vanilla stuff). Over many years, I've been fortunate to share intimacy with a healthy number of women. All have been ticklish, and tickling was integral to our intimacy. Some, naturally, more than others. Tickling was either foreplay, afterplay, or sometimes part of the main play. Tickling for me never replaced the main event, but greatly intensified it.
I hasten to add that many women, perhaps a majority, don't share the view that sex and tickling are companions in bed. Here, some discretion is advised, and reading the room, so to speak, I've found a necessary component to a successful life of tickling, whether sex is involved or not. My motto is, relationship first, then comes all the other stuff. If all you are looking for is tickling, relationship be damned, there are places to pay for that or taking the path of ships that pass in the night. Good luck and be careful.
To those among the tickling community who find the very idea of tickling and sex even remotely connected, I cheer you on. Tickling on its own can be pretty rewarding. For those whose bodies respond erotically at the mere mention of tickling, it is one of the best rides on the roller coaster of sex I've ever experienced.
I should mention that plain old missionary style slam, bam, thank you ma'am, no tickling involved, has always been part of my sexual repertoire. Those for whom there is no satisfaction without tickling are in a whole other realm. That considerably narrows the field of prospective partners. Good luck to you, and have patience.
I've never met anyone through TMF for any relationship. Some of my intimate partners I did meet on the internet, but my most satisfying tickle and sex partners have been so-called vanillas I met through entirely dull, normal stuff. People I worked with, people I went to school with, etc.
The one generality I would hazard to offer is that my experience has been that ticklish people, especially really ticklish souls, are also just very sensitive to touch of any form. And if sex enters the picture, it is wonderful to hit the hay with someone who is extra sensitive to touch. For me, a lot of sexual touching and ticklish touching share much in common. When you are on your way to a satisfying climax, you love the feeling but also want to do anything you can to bring it to a conclusion. And there are those who enjoy being on that edge of near climax, but feeling out-of-this-world intense arousal. For me, tickling fills that space like nothing else. Tickling can be a way to prolong the time on that knife edge of almost there but not quite. For some, tickling can bring you back from going over the edge into an orgasm before building things up again until the climax is earth-shattering. Or at least a memorable one.
I've also found that my really ticklish partners reach a point where their ticklishness migrates to deeply satisfying sexual feelings. On more than one occasion, I've had partners who go berserk with regular tickling, ask me to tickle them when they pass that tickle/sex threshold. A delightful moment. I always make their wish my command.
Post orgasm tickling is a whole other world entirely. One best left for another post, another time.
