Both are free...and nothing wrong with wanting a change of scenery..the TMF is more fast paced than here..and if you are looking for every day multi activity, the TMF is the place for you...i was a member there from 2005 til hmm a few years ago...thanks to the TMF i got to meet some fantastic people who helped me realize my tickle dreams..i don't have the time now to devote to a forum such as that one..here i post, leave..post, leave lol...there i was carrying on chats as if i were on the telephone and posting like mad..it was so nice to find a forum that had the same desires and fantasies i had had..so i got carried away and posted those first few years like my life depended on it lol..it was a blast..