Tickle Fantasy with GF

[mmafankennylee]

Hi all,

About a week ago, I asked the forum about advice about telling my GF about my tickle fetish, and I got a lot of awesome replies. So, I ended up telling her what my fantasy was (tie her up and tickle her) and she is REALLY ticklish, so I told her about safe word. Also, I asked if she could wear a costume as well, and she was TOTALLY okay with it. She was like "thats weird" but said if I REALLY wanted to do it, its okay. I just made sure to stay away from the word "Fetish" and I for sure didn't tell her about this forum. Also, she thought it was kind of cute, and thought my "fantasy" would be much wierder.

So the hard part is over, she agreed to it!

Now, should I hogtie her, or what? The two points of interest to me (because she is most ticklish there) is her feet and armpits.

Thanks again so much for your awesome advice!!!

 

[rhiannon]

Don't hogtie her. You have to have a little experience with bondage to get that into a functional position without hurting her. Tie her spread eagled to a bed, all spots are accessible and it is comfortable for her.

 

[mtt146]

If you tie her spread eagle you can make it a bit more enjoyable for her if you know what I'm saying...

 

[Mike3355]

Hogties are fun but can stretch limbs to far spread eagle or face down I'd recommend

 

[marcusb]

I would strongly suggest you take it easy on her this first time. If you go to hard on her instead of keeping it playful she may not be willing to do it again in the future.

 

[mr white]

I think you should go easy, at least the first time. Try some soft bondage, spread eagle something not too restraining.

 

[Master feathers]

I agree with eveyone else's advice ....tie her comfortably ,spread eagled is a good start for you both ....and although you two might progress to it in the future ....dont tickle her so much that she wont try again ...make her first time somewhat enjoyable ...mix light teasing tickles with the more agressive stuff ....and for her sake STOP ,when or if she says the prearranged safe word ......have fun !!!

 

[Marquis De Sade]

Hi all,

About a week ago, I asked the forum about advice about telling my GF about my tickle fetish, and I got a lot of awesome replies. So, I ended up telling her what my fantasy was (tie her up and tickle her) and she is REALLY ticklish, so I told her about safe word. Also, I asked if she could wear a costume as well, and she was TOTALLY okay with it. She was like "thats weird" but said if I REALLY wanted to do it, its okay. I just made sure to stay away from the word "Fetish" and I for sure didn't tell her about this forum. Also, she thought it was kind of cute, and thought my "fantasy" would be much wierder.

So the hard part is over, she agreed to it!

Now, should I hogtie her, or what? The two points of interest to me (because she is most ticklish there) is her feet and armpits.

Thanks again so much for your awesome advice!!!

Same as everyone else's advice: Go easy on her the first time or there won't be a second.

Most importantly: Do something for her in return. I can't stress how important this is so I'll say it again: DO SOMETHING FOR HER IN RETURN. I'll even bold it for affect: DO SOMETHING FOR HER IN RETURN. 😀

And I don't mean make her a salad. I mean, in bed. Ask her what her fantasy is. Be as open to it as she was to yours and if she doesn't have one or she's not comfortable sharing just yet, still make sure she feels good.

If you know what I mean. 😉

 

[LD_Tickler]

Most importantly: Do something for her in return. I can't stress how important this is so I'll say it again: DO SOMETHING FOR HER IN RETURN. I'll even bold it for affect: DO SOMETHING FOR HER IN RETURN. 😀

And I don't mean make her a salad. I mean, in bed. Ask her what her fantasy is. Be as open to it as she was to yours and if she doesn't have one or she's not comfortable sharing just yet, still make sure she feels good.

Or make her a really great salad.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

Or make her a really great salad.

With olives.

 

[Deadsea7777]

Same advice as the others. Do not hogtie her if you have not experience, if you injure her, not only she will be injured but if you have any real feelings for her you will feel like a piece of shit. Just go for the bedspread and extracare.
Think about yourself as a virtuoso playing with her body as if it she were a unique fine guitar to be approached with care like the love of Jimmy Hendrix for her guitar, not heavy metal concert in which at the end you smash the guitar.....not at least if you want to play again.
Do not let her to think about you and touching her body as an orangutan trying to play a violin.
As a lesbian friend of mine used to advice me: Gentle, Gentle and then even more Gentle. That how we diamonds cut other diamonds.

And if she dares, let her do to you whatever she wants.

Have fun!.

 

[mmafankennylee]

Awesome advice! Thanks everyone!

FOR SURE, the advice about being gentle really opened my eyes because I was going to go all out. I asked what she wanted in return (fantasy) and she doesnt have any.. yet.

Awesome guys, Ill tell you EXACTLY what happened in detail!

Thx!!