Tickle Frustration

[bare feet]

Am I the only guy on this board who is frustrated by the lack of response we-and I, in particular-get from female ticklers and ticklees? I would like to meet and talk to females who have an interest in tickling. But I very rarely get responses. Not just from this board, but from every tickle board I've ever been on. I know a lot of you fellows have the same problem. Isn't it frustrating how when a guy makes a personal, practically no one responds, but when a woman posts, they receive like 100 messages. I have been lucky to have two tickle partners in my life, but one I lost touch with and the other lives three states away. How do you guys handle your frustration?

 

[LonelyKimiko]

I'm sorry PW 🙁 . To be fair There are a lot more of the guys than the gals i think, and I dont really look on the personals section. But I'll do my best from now on 😀 . Hope thats some consellation to you 🙂 . *hugs*

 

[Killerk]

I have to admit mate that it is difficult sometimes. It's true that male members outnumber the female members by a huge amount. Also, it can be very difficult to find a tickle partner who lives close by.

However, one thing that I'm sure many females are concerned with is safety. Most of the time, they're not likely to respond to a thread in the personals section because they have no idea as to who the guy writing it is! In tickle meets, safety should come first, and there has to be an element of trust between the two partners.

It's frustrating for most of us, I know. But all I can say is hang in there. Get to know a few people on the forum by posting...who knows, your luck might turn around and you might meet someone who's into tickling completly by accident!

 

[LonelyKimiko]

Very true, nicely said Killerk!

 

[Camel26]

I agree with Killer K--the first concern is safety. Women are taught by parents, media, the news...pick someplace, that meeting with random guys from the internet could get you in serious trouble...or worse, get you killed. So I guess we're all a bit wary of such things...despite how wonderful many of the men on this site are! Sorry guys...

Also, for me personally, on the few occasions I've responded to posts from guys looking to just talk about common interests, they've either wanted to talk about more explicit things, and got quite rude when I told them that wasn't up for discussion, or bombarded me with PMs or IMs...some have even flamed threads. So, I just stopped responding. But that's just my experience...

Ladies...anything to add?

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

Been There, Done That....................

"yeah, I'm Good People, My Parole Officer Is Good People, Most Of My Victims Were Good People......" Camel Got It Right. The Safety Issue Is Paramount And Universal.(hooray For Hollywood!) Meeting A Stranger, Even After Cyber Chatting Etc. Can Be Risky For Men Or Women. Geographical Barriers Also Come Into Play. It Is Frustrating But If It Is Meant To Be You'll Find Someone.

 

[sasuke1]

i got one response from a girl but its rare to find girls in the same area as u. or it could just be that they r into f/f tickling instead ug i tried so many times to post to talk to a girl who's into tickling as well and got none back only one on another tickling forum it ticks me off 🙁 grrr

 

[Venom3602]

Most girls I've seen that've started relationships on forums didn't meet their lover in a personals section. It was someone they met posting on the forum with them and had already gotten to know. If a girl was looking for a relationship would a one sentence post about a guys age and location be a lot to go on? It doesn't matter for girls to do this since guys outnumber girls here like 10 to 1.

 

[LonelyKimiko]

I think I'd be worried as I wouldnt want to do anything more than tickling with a person, and you need a lot of trust for that. You don't know what could happen when your all tied up at a guys mercy, so you need to really know them. And to know them that well you cant know them just through tickling or ickling related discussions. That's why I neve show any great interest in the personals section, its nothing personal to people who post there, I'd just be scared to go and do anything is all....

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

let the hollywood brother speak on this! You see the hollywood brother sees a few problems with my the guys here have no chance in hell with the great ladies on this forum. One is exactly what camel26 said. another is that we too late to win the hearts of the fair maidens and a third reason is that maybe it some type of destiny that not everyone will wind up being loved in there life. The hollywood brother knows this is sad but lets face it not all of us are great catches. why even the electrfiying and sexy hollywood brother has a little bit of flab and is a nice guy which are two turn offs for most women. The hollywood brother point here is that whatever the reason is, the male population of this forum will probably never get to meet any of the ladies here and it will forever be there loss and deep pregret as they get older

 

[indivision]

It kind of seems that a lot of females in the tickling community are into f/f. For some reason, m/f and f/m (especially) do not seem to be very popular. I have posted a few threads asking mainly just for someone to talk to about tickling and perhaps cyber tickle (I know some think that's lame, but oh well) and I have not recieved many responses. Oh well.

And really, if a person is wise, be that person male or female, he or she would be really cautious about meeting up with someone for a tied up and tickled session.

 

[LonelyKimiko]

On your first point, I like m/f and f/f. I like having the 'lee being female cause beinga 'lee myself thats there I would want to be. The tickler I'm not fussed about, cause well basically I'm Bi-sexual. But I get what you mean there.
Cyber tickling I kinda like, I really love reading the descriptions of how people tickle. I just get fed up after a while cause there are only so many new ways I can laugh or squirm in a post 🙁 .
And I totally agree with your last point, you have to be cautious about who you meet, cause for something so intimate and where you are so vulnerable you can't just do it with anyone, you never know what could happen O_O .

 

[Yet_One_More_Idiot]

I've thought once or twice about posting messages in the personals section, but the amount of threads there where a man posts and gets a lot of other men posting their sympathy at a lack of response from ladies rather kills the urge....

While I'm here though (😉 lol) I live in London, UK, and have never been tickled (only briefly, and only by family members).

 

[moxs602]

Well somewhat frustrated....

I have been fortunate enough that several women (with holding number at this point) have allowed me to tickle them over the years. LOL I started young, all were consentual. I guess the frustrating part (ongoing) was that most either "humoured me" or tolerated " "my kinkiness" suprisingly most seem to enjoy my "foot fetish" much more openly LOL - I do give great massages I guess. But only a very few have truly enjoyed the tickling, and that was aquired mostly - which is not a bad thing. I have done light bondage (scarves or ties on a bed) and ONLY with the request or strong mutual consent of the women. IE. the safey of the whole situation. I have never physically hurt or been cruel to a woman or been arrested. (I am NOT trying to say how great I am - everyone has a failed relationship or regrets). My point I have tried to be kind and conduct myself as a gentleman, (it really helps). There are gatherings (I am considering attending one). And there are women who would like to be tickled and tickle, but getting to know them takes time conversation and trust both ways, and FUN. And often travel. I made a decision to be honest with with myself that tickling is part of my life. So I might as well enjoy it. To that end a depite all the extra male cromazone that are afllicted with our condition and the Females who are feeling a bit overwelmed at times (understandedly, I will continue to look for women who enjoy it. It may not work, it may be just forum buddies, it may be cybertickling play, it may be actuall tickle play, or (sigh even more). All are worth it. Ok out of the pulpit.

 

[Control Freak1]

The hollywood brother knows this is sad but lets face it not all of us are great catches. why even the electrfiying and sexy hollywood brother has a little bit of flab and is a nice guy which are two turn offs for most women.

Good women are forgiving of that.

But no man will tolerate those in a woman. They all want girls who look like teenaged boys with long hair that treat them like shit.

I've met a couple of guys online who at least said were into tickling but as soon as we met they begged off...even when I've been brutally honest about what I look like. Don't know why specifically but I'm the only constant in the equasion so...

I'm less and less likely to think it's going to ever going happen no matter how interested the guy seems because I don't look like Jessica Simpson or whoever...

Or the guys say right up front that they're only interested in one off's. I don't expect every guy I meet to be a possible Mr. Right...but being told you'll never seen them again before you even meet face to face is a real turn off.

 

[ILove2Tickle1]

I know what you mean, a lot of women are concerned about safety, but I definately understand the frustration for guys in general here. I'm one who's honestly looking for a tickle partner and more if they are interested. But... I'm certainly batting a big fat 0% in that category. ;.;