Tickle sessions that fail???

[belly tickler82]

Have any of you ever had a tickle session arranged that the ticklee or girl backed out and changed her mind...I don't want that to happen this weekend (see my post below on the threads...) Any advice on a better way to persuade a stranger or some cute girl to try and let you tickle her.....?

 

[TMF Jeff]

I think the best thing you can do is make it clear, and mean it, that this is about her, not about you. That her safety and her enjoying herself are the two most important things.

 

[luvn2laf]

I agree with Jeff. I have had 2 opportunities go wrong with the other person backing out last minute. One was the tickler and the other was both a 'lee and 'ler.

It happens. Not everyone is really into this, or they think it might be fun, then think better of it. It's not personal, but as Jeff says, it goes a long way if you stress her safety, enjoyment and control (safe word).

 

[tommytikl]

I have had this happen to me and I have had to cancel myself...I have usually had to cancel due to family emergencies...like unexpected death in family that sort of thing...not that I did't want to meet the tickler/lee!

I would say though that since it is this weekend you are likely to be ok, and like Jeff said...just enjoy yourself and make sure SHE enjoys yourself. Show her how much you love tickling and what it does to you and what it can do to her.

GO easy...I would suggest no rough stuff, probably not even bondage at first..just tickle wrestle and maybe arm holding.

Umm..one word of caution...make SURE you both set up a safe word...Yellow for slow down, red for STOP now..or SHE simply has to say her name and you STOP instantly!
This is just because you have never tickled her and she is a novice and you won't know her reactions...

Have fun and good luck..we expect a full report on Monday 😉 🙂

 

[chode]

Dude, its the first time you met her. You picked her up in a book store, and then expected her to just be like "ok stranger, tie me up and tickle me." I think just playfull tickling with out tying her up at first would go over well, its obvious she liked you, just ask her out, or to hang out, no tying up. Work up to it.

 

[featherfingers]

I agree with yjgfn. I already gave you a response in your other thread, but I'll say it again. Take time to know her and respect her as a whole human being, not just a set of tickle parts. The more that she's able to trust you, the more you'll be able to incorporate into your sessions.

 

[chrisheaven]

best of luck wiht all this--- I agree with what others here have said--- take it easy/slowly