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Tickler finding tickle spots or knowing beforehand?

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Avid lee here, and I’m just wondering if people have opinions on whether they like the ler to know their tickle spots before they are tickled, or for the ler to have to find them? I personally love and fantasize about my tickler having to find my spots and then once they find them, teasing me about how ticklish they are and all 🙂 I’m just wondering if anyone else shares in that too, or if it’s a general shared thing?
 
Since I tickle by both areas I like to tickle and reactions from the 'lee, I have no issues with not knowing where those places are. Pretty much everyone I've ever tickled in my life was someone who didn't know that they were going to be tickled before I tied them up, I didn't know if they were even ticklish, let alone where. Fortunately, most were and fun was had by all! (meaning at least me! 😛 )
 
I prefer the tickler to find my spots herself. Her delight upon finding a good spot is wonderful for us both. 😀
 
I find all the spots on the lee XD
 
As someone on the receiving end, both scenarios carry wicked psychological weight. Someone who doesn't already know my worst spots becomes so delighted upon discovering one of them -- usually she stops with a gleeful smile, maybe comments on the notable extremity of my weakness there, and then inevitably returns immediately to that spot much to my vocal dismay -- and all that business adds a giddy edge to the torment, along with the panicked regret of not having been able to hide my reactions to that spot from her and having brought the ensuing punishments upon myself.

Alternately, someone who's already aware of some or all of my weakest spots can use that knowledge against me -- maybe she's sending me into helpless hysterics by tickling me in a different spot, and then lets it be known that she's about to switch to an even more vulnerable spot, goosing the torture with a teasing dread. Or a tickler who notices that an especially susceptible spot is exposed -- or successfully endeavors to expose it -- lords her superior knowledge of the geography of my physical weaknesses over me, driving me into greater fits of squirmy helplessness by taunting me with her well-informed dominance.
 
Just would like to mention a kind of third scenario, which is that the ler does know about the spots, but acts aloof as though they’re discovering them for the first time. That’s lots of fun.
 
As a Lee I don’t mind letting lers knowing beforehand because I’m curious to know which spot they’d choose first 😆
 
As a switch, I have a preference for the Ler not knowing, whether I'm the Ler, or they are. The exploration, discovery, and surprise process is a lot of fun. I'm okay knowing a few spots if I'm the Ler, but I don't want a map–I'm the cartographer in this game! One thing I do like is for a first time lee to tell me their "worst spots," only to discover they have many they never considered before or would not have guessed. It's so much fun to see people surprised at their own body's reactions in the moment. When I'm the Lee, I love seeing that Ler's unique process for discovering where I'm ticklish, and how they exploit that. My ticklishness varies from day to day, so I often get surprised, too!
 
I am fine not knowing tickle spots of the lee. It's best to discover them myself! Also, what they say and what is reality could vary drastically so why trust them? although, I would say each session I have as a ler and as a lee there are the "standard spots" that will be tested. Namely armpits, sides/belly and feet. Those four spots are always ALWAYS included in each session.
 
Exactly! I've tickled many many gals in my life thus far, and I can tell you for certain that unless you actually have a tickle fetish, and have been tied down and gone over thoroughly by another with a tickler fetish, then you really have not much of a clue how ticklish you are, where? What techniques are great or bad? Or really any info much past the statistics of how it feels to get poked in the ribs or sides, a few times, or a couple flicks up n down their Lil footsies.
 
My partner and I have been together so long...yet we still occasionally find new spots
It doesn't help that I have really sensitive skin. Some places, like my wrists, are surprising. You never stop learning with a lover
 
I ask the lee to tell me her worst spot before we start. Invariably she declines. So then I tell her if I find it myself I’ll tickle it even more intensely.
 
I prefer to be like that Friends episode where Rachel and Monica are explaining the sexy spots, and one of the guys, Chandler maybe, is amazed to learn there are Seven!
 
I enjoy both. However, one of my all time favorite scenarios is when someone states they are not ticklish and the tickler ends up finding their tickle spots and proving them wrong. Bonus points if the lee actually believes what they are claiming and has never been tickled before until this moment. The ler is discovering the Lee's spots for both of them.
 
Jmp123 said:
Avid lee here, and I’m just wondering if people have opinions on whether they like the ler to know their tickle spots before they are tickled, or for the ler to have to find them? I personally love and fantasize about my tickler having to find my spots and then once they find them, teasing me about how ticklish they are and all 🙂 I’m just wondering if anyone else shares in that too, or if it’s a general shared thing?
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I like having then find/finding. I find it adds to the dynamic and makes me more creative in terms of teasing/tickle talk
 
imho most ppl dont even know or truly understand either a) their most ticklish spots b) or even the extent of how ticklish they actually are

with practice and concentration even the most deeply buried hyper ticklish hotspots can easily be found
 
whether the spots are known or yet to be discovered.....I enjoy both playing and having the 'innocent game' played on me....
like the tickler will be exploring, tickling...and when its obvious yu find a ticklish spot....and the squirming begins...yu might say "Oh whats the matter?"
and if the lee says 'it tickles'...OR they may tell you first....yu say 'oh really?' or 'it cant be...I'm barely touching you....'

The other side as in the Lee position is how mentally demolishing it is when your tickler plays that game! Like its OBVIOUSLY tickling, and you pretty much HAVE to say it...in case they dont know (?). and then the look of pretend disbelief that they are doing ANYTHING that would be causing those helpless reactions ! Oh MY!
 
Madame_T said:
I like having then find/finding. I find it adds to the dynamic and makes me more creative in terms of teasing/tickle talk
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yes the teasing talk is paramount for creating the most ticklishness in your Lee...
 
BlueLine7045 said:
I enjoy both. However, one of my all time favorite scenarios is when someone states they are not ticklish and the tickler ends up finding their tickle spots and proving them wrong. Bonus points if the lee actually believes what they are claiming and has never been tickled before until this moment. The ler is discovering the Lee's spots for both of them.
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Yes...and deniers of their ticklishness should get extra tickling / tickle torture for those sins...😈 ! Should be a law!
 
ticklishbod20 said:
I ask the lee to tell me her worst spot before we start. Invariably she declines. So then I tell her if I find it myself I’ll tickle it even more intensely.
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exactly...its a fun game to let them choose their fate....but in reality, they dont know the intensity level you might be planning..so they won't know either way...if they confess first,,,,yu can go at full throttle If you want....or find it yourself....and go full throttle If yu want ----A win win situation 😈
 
It depends on who I’m playing with. If the Ler wants to know, I will usually tell him, if I want to 🙂 it’s fun when they find them themselves. At the same time, as stated above, each Ler is different, so I prefer they explore with their own approaches. Exploration can be powerful
 
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