Tickling a woman at work

[tickle1]

I want to ask this woman at work out. I am not sure how to do it. My question is this. She is Phillipino and she is 5 years older than me i think. Should I tickle her on the first "date" or should I wait. Let me know at [email protected] thanks. She is very pretty and she has a excellent looking body.

Thanks,
John Meeters

 

[kis123]

My question is, what are you asking her out for? Is it just for tickleplay or are you looking for a relationship? Second is, why on earth would you want to date a coworker? It can end up career suicide-are you serious about her, or is she just someone you are curious about? If you don't plan on a serious relationship, do yourself a favor and leave her alone.

 

[ChosenofMystra]

Silly Advice - *points to his employee dating sig*

Practical Advice - I agree with kis. Relationships with co-workers can end with disasterous ramifications. If you are truely serious about her than I say it wouldn't hurt to ask her on a few dates first before attempting any tickling. Get a little acquainted with her first ya know? If she's just a "one night stander" for lack of a better phrase, than I would strongly advise letting it go for now. You wouldn't want any awkwardness at work would you?

Hope everything goes well for you whatever you decide to do 🙂

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I used to work with a Philipino girl at the hotel her name was Lynn and what a knock out she was and she was extremely ticklish on her sides 😛oke3: transfered out west to California 3 years ago and we lost touch a few months ago.

Hope it works for you but maybe its best you dont pounce on her right away and tickle her that might freak her out and make her uncomfortable not to mention the bad reaction you may get from other co-workers

 

[DannyMc]

I've gone out with women at work and also people at work have had non marriage relationships . It can work or it can not work . Don't go overboard at first with anything , give it time to find out what she is like and for her to get to know you as well . When time is taken there is less chance of someone getting offended or mad . I dont advise tickling right off , thats unless she was to bring it out herself first and show a more than just curious intrest . As was mentioned , where are you going with this get together , relationship or just play ? Remember , sometimes what one person is looking for doesn't always mean that's what the other is looking for .

 

[Deadsea7777]

I want to ask this woman at work out. I am not sure how to do it. My question is this. She is Phillipino and she is 5 years older than me i think. Should I tickle her on the first "date" or should I wait. Let me know at [email protected] thanks. She is very pretty and she has a excellent looking body.

Thanks,
John Meeters

Dating a coworker? and introduce her to your fetish?, bad medicine, if it goes wrong you are in deep shit!. If it goes well you are in the mouth of everyone.
Unless she is the woman you would expend the rest of your life no matter what and nothing in the planet matters but her; just let it go, take a very cold shower. Think with your brain not with your dick.

 

[Coffee]

Dont date people you work with. Listen to Kis. Even if it ends nicely there will always be that uncomfortable feeling that lingers. Its just not worth it.

 

[kis123]

Dating a coworker? and introduce her to your fetish?, bad medicine, if it goes wrong you are in deep shit!. If it goes well you are in the mouth of everyone.
Unless she is the woman you would expend the rest of your life no matter what and nothing in the planet matters but her; just let it go, take a very cold shower. Think with your brain not with your dick.

I probably would've said it differently, but this is the point in a nutshell. I know some folks will eventually come and say it's okay to date a coworker and that's fine with me. I as a rule of thumb do not date anyone I work with because it's a disaster waiting to happen. You're already considering sex in a dating relationship; now you want to add a fetish aspect? Are you kidding??

I'm sorry, you should just walk away; there are plenty of filipino women out there that you can date and don't have to work with. That's my opinion, you're grown and can do what you want-I just hope this doesn't come back to bite you in the rear end later on down the line.

 

[cerebraltickles]

I agree with the others, it's just too risky and not worth it. Find someone outside the workplace and then just take it slow. I know for me if someone tried to tickle me on the first date I'd freak out, even though I really like ticking. Any person that makes any type of an advance so soon, well, especially for a woman it can make her feel uncomfortable. Most women do not like to feel pressured so soon on a date.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Dating a coworker? and introduce her to your fetish?, bad medicine, if it goes wrong you are in deep shit!. If it goes well you are in the mouth of everyone.
Unless she is the woman you would expend the rest of your life no matter what and nothing in the planet matters but her; just let it go, take a very cold shower. Think with your brain not with your dick.

Right. That's ALL you need.

You could walk in the room, and everyone's gonna look at you with more intensity than you could possibly imagine. The girls would turn to each other, whisper things, and giggle uncontrollably. That Filipino girl didn't come in today...gee, I wonder why. Oh, look out...the people in HR wanna have a word with you.

Food for thought.

As long as you're on the way into that very cold shower, here's a bar of Lifebuoy. They don't think enough of anyone around here to leave soap for them... 😀

 

[tickle1]

Thanks for the answers

I wanted to let everyone that replied that i will not be asking her out. I just found out today that she does have a person she is seeing so i will not ask her out. Thanks for all the replies and the help from everyone. I appreciate it alot.


Thanks,
John Meeters

 

[Dancer]

I wanted to let everyone that replied that i will not be asking her out. I just found out today that she does have a person she is seeing so i will not ask her out. Thanks for all the replies and the help from everyone. I appreciate it alot.


Thanks,
John Meeters

Here's more "food for thought" on the subject of tickling a co-worker. I worked for my boss for 6 months before I found out he wanted to tickle me and I also really enjoyed being tickled, but was afraid to let him know. One night, we had to work overtime and all the other employees had left. It was just him and I in the conference room and I had to reach up high to grab a file. My blouse was too short to begin with, so it rode way up high, exposing much of my belly. He was sitting close by and slowly reach over and drew some circles with his finger over my stomach. That light touch sent chills up and down my spine. One thing led to another and he ended up "french tickling" my stomach until I went nuts!!! So - ya see! Sometimes co-workers can have tickle relationships without ruining their careers!

 

[maggie772]

Ask her out anyway - lots of guys in Joliet Cell Block C are ticklish...

 

[shadow365]

Date whoever you want as long as it won't get you fired. But it isn't fair to lead someone to believe they are safe to get emotionally invested in something if all you want is tickling. That's horse-poop!

If you are legitimately interested go ahead and ask her out. But if you just want a tickle partner, stay away from people you could possibly hurt.