Tickling Advice/Relationship Advice

[kmc85]

Hi all,

I'm 26 and definitely have a tickle fetish (I scour YouTube frequently to find new videos).

I'm also a virgin, making me feel that much more hopeless that I'll ever find a girl to date and hopefully tickle. I have tickled and massaged a girl's feet before, but it was very limited and I broke up with the girl shortly after.

So I was hoping to ask for some advice as to how to approach women, ask them out, etc. If you don't want to go into a long explanation for this, one or two of the most key important things to remember will suffice. I'm sure the tickling will come later on at its own pace.

Sorry if this topic is over-posted, but I thought it'd be okay to ask this advice.

Two of my favorite sites are:

www.frenchyfootgirls.com and www.frenchtickling.com.
(I'm not French, but I like the girls and the quality).

Cheers!

 

[Borg Perfection]

You need to have confidence. Judging by your post (and I mean this in a nice way, not trying to offend you) you seem to doubt yourself. You don't seem to have much confidence and that's something you need to work on.

I was once in the same boat as you. I was a hopeless virgin, with these "strange" sexual preferences and attraction to feet and who wants that, right?

Many people.

I just found out the other day, that one of my best friends has a huge foot fetish. He reluctantly, after 8 months told his girlfriend that her feet, and tickling/playing with her feet was very sexual for him.

Her response?

She was over-joyed that her feet were that sexy and pleasing to her man. She felt good about herself, that in his eyes there was beauty in something otherwise thought to be "ugly."

Women (and men) have many different perspectives, and personalities. Will there be some women you approach, date, and reveal your sexuality to who will freak out and think you're weird and want nothing to do with you?

Yes, and that's why you've gotta get that head up and start becoming dominant rather than submissive to the stigmas other people try to place on you. You need to open your eyes and realize the truth: Any woman who would have a spaz attack, or think you're a "freak" because you like feet as opposed to breasts, or tickling as opposed to fondling, is a shallow sub-par loser despite the "elite" image she may project into your mind. You don't want to end up with an idiot like that, now do you?

The other half of that, which does TRULY IN FACT EXIST, is that like my friend's girlfriend, and my ex girlfriend, there are many women out there who even though they may not directly have a tickling/foot fetish themselves, will be more than happy when they find out alternate parts of their body excite you, and are willing to facilitate sexual activites for their man because they love you and want you to be happy (assuming it's not something that is harmful to them.)

Risk is the name of the game. Are you going to be embarassed (whether it's revealing your sexuality, or just approaching a woman in general) if they reject you, or brush you off? Oh yeah. It's gonna always feel a little uncomfortable, even hurt a little, but again, that's where the confidence comes in. You've gotta toughen up, and realize that you are a person of worth no matter how someone else's actions/glances/words make you feel, brush it off and go after the next one.

You need to be yourself at all times. No pretenses, no bs. Just authentic, genuine, real you. If you see them in a store and they're looking at something -- make a funny comment about it, or express your interest in (the book, cd, grapefruit) whatever it is, and see if a conversation develops from that. Extend a hand and introduce yourself. Say "excuse me, but your (boots, coat, hair, whatever) is really cool!" At this point, it's pretty obvious by their body language whether or not they're interested in conversation. If not? Don't sweat it, and don't begin to doubt yourself just because one person isn't interested. Some people like apples instead of oranges.

The best advice is "live with no regrets". Get over your shyness, your self doubt, and go after what you want. Fight for what you desire. Life is too short not to.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Be yourself. Love yourself.

 

[Leo tickles]

Promise a bunch of shit, do it all= feet, pussy, girl, whatever else it is you want from anybody.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

Hi all,

I'm 26 and definitely have a tickle fetish (I scour YouTube frequently to find new videos).

I'm also a virgin, making me feel that much more hopeless that I'll ever find a girl to date and hopefully tickle. I have tickled and massaged a girl's feet before, but it was very limited and I broke up with the girl shortly after.

So I was hoping to ask for some advice as to how to approach women, ask them out, etc. If you don't want to go into a long explanation for this, one or two of the most key important things to remember will suffice. I'm sure the tickling will come later on at its own pace.

Sorry if this topic is over-posted, but I thought it'd be okay to ask this advice.

Two of my favorite sites are:

www.frenchyfootgirls.com and www.frenchtickling.com.
(I'm not French, but I like the girls and the quality).

Cheers!

BOLD I: Doesn't matter if you're a virgin. That doesn't make you who you are. It's just an act you have yet to experience. Nothing wrong with that whatsoever. Don't let it get to you. Also keep in mind that those who talk about sex sex sex so damn frequently either are virgins themselves, don't get as much play as they say they do or are horrible in bed and know it. Don't let peer pressure or social pressure get to you.

BOLD II: Know who are and be confidently satisfied in who you are as much as possible. Know that everyone has insecurities including most of the women you'll be talking to, which makes you equals. Putting her on some sort of pedestal based on her looks or how she portrays herself will make her feel uncomfortable because of her own insecurities so just treat her as an equal and be genuine. She'll appreciate it. Figure out what you have to offer and offer it.

BOLD RED: That statement alone proves you're intelligent and have common sense. You'll be fine. Just relax.

 

[Em Es]

Women do the choosing

kmc85, I oversimplify but not much by saying women do the choosing. Judging from my experience and watching other guys, I can tell you men should stop trying so hard with the ladies, as when a girl likes you, she will let you know anyway. Were I young and single again, I would work on making myself more attractive to women instead of using too much time trying to meet the ones I find attractive.

Read. Exercise. Volunteer. Work harder at your job. The girls will notice a guy who's got something going on.

This is not to say women will necessarily ask you out, even though some might. But as most communication is nonverbal, they will let you know there's a good chance they'll say "Yes" when you ask for that phone number.

Last but not least, you are dead right when you say, "I'm sure the tickling will come later on at its own pace." When a woman wants to please a man, either his likes will become hers or she'll play along to keep him happy.

Please update us. Good luck!

 

[kmc85]

Hey all,

Good news. I found a girlfriend. She's very sweet and very ticklish too! All your advice seems to have worked. We have gotten very serious and she is very nice...
Okay, good luck to all you guys and thanks again.

kmc85

 

[tickmankyle1]

Be yourself. Love yourself.

i agree love your self and be your self.