Tickling & Bondage - Doing it properly

[del]

Well, I attended my first gathering last night here in the UK organised by Mistress Diva hot from NYC 🙂
It was incredible
I'm sure you will get a detailed report and pictures shortly from the rest of the attendees 😀

I was very impressed by a guy there who is an expert on bondage , I had no idea how much of an art it is and how much it can increase the quality of the experience when done properly. After his demonstration I'm going to throw away my furry handcuffs and never buy another pair again . It's got to be soft leather from now on 😉.
A woman comfortable in bondage is a wonderful sight .

Anybody else understand what I'm talking about?

 

[chrisheaven]

glad you had a great time, del

 

[milagros317]

Yes, having been in both metal and leather restraints, it is easy to understand.

Restraints for tickling should be soft, so that pain does not distract from the tickling sensations.

Also, no restraints that cut off circulation should ever be used.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

WOW! I have so much to learn.

 

[ticklemad]

Glad you had a good time Del - I'd love to hear more re the bondage

 

[del]

Quality bondage for quality tickling

Glad you had a good time Del - I'd love to hear more re the bondage

Oouu! Just listen to you young lady. I see your appetite is getting wet .
Well, you are just going to have to wait .
Jonathan is the Sith Lord of bondage , I am the apprentice of bondage . My expertise is in other areas 😉
Jonathan is a man of few but always well chosen words. I think he would prefer you to experience the high quality bondage rather than talk about it too much 😀

He had this silk rope it was so smooth and soft. We could tie a woman up so well she could do nothing but enjoy helplessly the gentle tickle sensations flowing throughout her body while we have the pleasure of listening to her giggles, watching her wriggles and listening to her passionate breathing .
I tell you, I'm getting right into this bondage tickling, with the right stuff, it's the way forward.

Tickling with untidy bondage is just not acceptable anymore , the standards have been raised and there is no going back for me .
I should have been doing this years ago

We went out for a drink in a nice night club in the West End afterwards

 

[del]

The "Art" Tickle Bondage Demonstration

I was just thinking, if there are any women out there who want a more smooth, refined, delicious and intense tickling experience, with bondage, let me know and I'll ask Jonathan if he can spare the time 🙂
We are putting the "Art" into to tickling.
It's like the difference between cheap and fine wine.


Aspire 2005 I say.

 

[grippedchimp]

I think many of those who attend NEST will most definitely know who jonmath is. Apart from the priveliged few in who attended the UK Gathering on Saturday, who else has seen his "Porto-Perv"?

 

[ticklemad]

Well, you are just going to have to wait

Well they do say Good things come to those who wait so I think I can manage that one Del😉

 

[del]

breathless

Well they do say Good things come to those who wait so I think I can manage that one Del😉

I hope I'll be there to witness your breathlessness 🙂

 

[EvlJester]

Hey Del is there an way you can give me some tips on a couple starting out with the whole bondage thing ( Smurfy & myself ) we want to try it but we dont have the ideas to start, and i dont wanna use something that is going to hurt her. I want her to be extreamly comfy. I would really like some ideas since we aint got the soft cuffs or the soft leather yet, is there anything else we can use that wont hurt?

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

Try her old nylons or silk scarfs. Terrycloth like the strap from a robe. See if that work for her. Then Sinner have a blast. Any other ideas anyone. Jester get her good. love ya.

 

[del]

Your request has been heard

Hey Del is there an way you can give me some tips on a couple starting out with the whole bondage thing ( Smurfy & myself ) we want to try it but we dont have the ideas to start, and i dont wanna use something that is going to hurt her. I want her to be extreamly comfy. I would really like some ideas since we aint got the soft cuffs or the soft leather yet, is there anything else we can use that wont hurt?

Your request has been heard. I will consult the Master . If the Dark Lord answers I will report it to you without delay

There are aspects to the art that cannot to put into words. 50% of it is procedure, grace, style and timing . It is like a sacred ceremony. The atmosphere of respect is paramount. Think of the woman as a temple, a church or group of people about to recieve the spirit. Have you ever been to a live concert and felt the shiver go through your spine at any point?
So it is .

 

[grippedchimp]

EvlJester, get some cheap nylon rope if you want to use something simple. For extra comfort, make sure you have loads of it and wrap a good amount around the ankles and/or wrists, then inbetween them. It should be secure and doesn't cut off any blood supply. Restraints are good too, but apparently you can make them for cheap too.

I'll see if I can get a hold of jonmath for you. If there's something about bondage that he doesn't know about, then it's not worth knowing!

 

[del]

Very Ticklish Women

If the person you are tickling is not very ticklish then any cheap implements and tactics will do.

I love tickling very sensitive and hyper ticklish women. Therefore I have to pay close attention to the fine details. The women I like to tickle are always on the verge of saying; stop that's enough, I can't take anymore, I don't like it.
Usually they have a history of bad tickling experiences with people who are reckless with their sensitivity . Deep down they love the chaos, the loss of control and helplessness but don't want to be handled roughly.

My favourite phrases are:
"I can't believe I allowed you to do that"
"I never let anybody tickle me".

Some women are so ticklish you must not even use the word tickle . I love giving sensual massages with sprinkles of tickle for flavour. A woman will always ask for one of my massages but will never admit that it is the tickle ingredient that she loves 😉.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

I'll be waiting for that post and taking notes.

 

[del]

The Dark Lord has spoken

I shall with due diligence faithfully transcribe the words of the Dark Lord as I received them by the spirit this day.

1. You should not ever use tights or nylons to fasten anybody because these materials slip and tighten and are impossible to untie quickly in emergency. They also have the tendency to narrow and thereby cut off circulation.

2. You must have a pair of bandage scissors in your kit at all times to cut lose all bonds in case of emergency.

3. Never use ordinary twisted nylon rope, it is too harsh on the skin.

4. Use Yachting rope which has a braided cover and is sufficiently thick not to abraise the skin. It is available in many colours and the Lord recommends Black, White or Red depending on the colour of the complexion.

Thus saith the Lord.

If I get any further messages I will relay them.

 

[BigJim]

I think many of those who attend NEST will most definitely know who jonmath is. Apart from the priveliged few in who attended the UK Gathering on Saturday, who else has seen his "Porto-Perv"?

I've not seen his, but I've got one of my own. It's an adapted travel case. One member I met described it as "an evil Aladdin's cave for the pervy" or somesuch. I do have a couple of pairs of fluffy handcuffs as Del mentions, but I don't use them much these days. I prefer soft, strap restraints with velcro-fastening cuffs. I also use lengths of soft rope and have two sets of stocks, both of which are now padded to prevent chaffing.

Bondage is definately an art and keeping the bound one comfortable within it is a number one concern.

 

[del]

Safe Words

Now you might all think this is rediculous but the favourite safe words I like to hear are "that tickles" 🙄.

I give soothing sensual massages with tickle strokes sprinkled in for extra flavour 😛 . I gently increase the intensity of the tickling strokes until she is wriggling, giggling, writhing and is forced to blurt out "That tickles!" I then apologise profusely and tone it down to massage again and start the game all over again.

These are my favourite phrases:

"I can't believe I let you do that"
"I never let anybody tickle me"
"That't so weird, I'm usually very ticklish" 🙄

I love tickling very sensitive and hyper ticklish women . This means I have to be so careful and patient. The wait is always worth it . Sometimes she is so ticklish I dare not mention the word "tickle" or it will put her off . I find it so strange that some really ticklish women will not admit that they are enjoying the tickle sensations.

 

[EvlJester]

Smurfy is extreamly ticklish, and she moves around ALOT!!!!! I use all different types of tickling on her, but I think her favorite is when i do it nice and soft in a few certain areas ( that I am not going to mention ) I know that I would like to use some bondage on her but I am worried that I will do it wrong and it might hurt her, and I dont want that. If you can send me a private message and let me know how I can do it proporly, PLease.

 

[del]

Beginners Tickling & Bondage and Style Seminar

Smurfy is extreamly ticklish, and she moves around ALOT!!!!! I use all different types of tickling on her, but I think her favorite is when i do it nice and soft in a few certain areas ( that I am not going to mention ) I know that I would like to use some bondage on her but I am worried that I will do it wrong and it might hurt her, and I dont want that. If you can send me a private message and let me know how I can do it proporly, PLease.

I'm sure your request will be acknowledged by the Dark Lord. He may send you instructions directly. Be of good faith and tell 'Smurfy' she's going to be taken to the next level

I'm going to ask the Lord if he will put on a special beginners Tickling & Bondage and Style seminar/event here in London aimed at accomodating the most nervous, ticklish and sensitive women.

The title of the event might be something like;
NO THANK YOU, I'M TICKLISH 🙄

As a reward for being brave enough to attend, all (really) ticklish women who attend will be treated to a night out with music and cocktails after the seminar if they want to.

I feel so brave, all of a sudden, now that I've attended my first meet.

 

[del]

Magick Tickling & Bondage with Alchemy

I have had these furry handcuffs for ages but never used them. Now I will never use them after the bondage lessons from the Dark Lord. Hopefully I can persuade him to do the beginners Tickling & Bondage seminar 🙂

Meanwhile, I'll continue to practice my special art of tickling & bondage with Magick (Alchemy). There are no physical restraints, only the elements are used
One can apply the principles of Alchemy to create a wonderful tickle bondage experience.

1. Earth = Location of touch
2. Fire = Temperature of touch
3. Water = Pressure of touch
4. Wind = Velocity of touch
5. Ether = No touching just suggestion

Believe it or not the 5 element tickling is the best You just wave your hand or breathe over the area and watch her go crazy

 

[BigJim]

Del, you do realise it's illegal to smoke that stuff don't you?

 

[BOFH666]

Unless you brought enough for everyone of course.

 

[del]

natural highs

Del, you do realise it's illegal to smoke that stuff don't you?

HA HAA!

All natural highs Big Jim, all natural highs 🙂