Tickling dommes in dungeons

[xitsthelawx]

Has anyone ever paid to tickle/be tickled by a domme? If so, what's the usual rate for this, and what's an appropriate amount for a tip? Also, do most dungeons have an age requirement, like 18 or 21?

 

[tkl-pen]

The dungeon that I have been to has doms, switches and subs - the rate is around $200 per hour - I actually had a dream last night about one of the doms there with whom I had a little banter - in it, they locked her and me in one of the dungeon rooms and it remained to be seen who ended up on the tickling table - she was a magnificent looking lady about six feet tall and it would be one hell of a contest - I woke up, though, and never found it what happened - the doms, in fact, will tickle you, as well as spank you, flog you, and what not - I don't know if one would ever allow you (or me) to tickle her, though - but then the switches will play both ways - and, you know what, its $200 well spent - I can hardly wait until the next chance I get. Take a look at

www.passivearts.com

 

[xitsthelawx]

So what's an appropriate amount for a tip at $200 per hour? And do you have to be 21 to go to a dungeon?

 

[tkl-pen]

I think the age would be whatever the age of majority is at the location - the tip would be up to you - the girl gets paid by the house - probably fifty bucks would be reasonable if you like the session.

 

[jaba]

I actually had a dream last night about one of the doms there with whom I had a little banter

she was a magnificent looking lady about six feet tall

the doms, in fact, will tickle you, as well as spank you, flog you, and what not - I don't know if one would ever allow you (or me) to tickle her, though

jaba knows the six foot Passive Arts Amazon Dom of which you speak.... 🙄

As a general rule, Doms don't Lee in tickle sessions, but there were a few at Passive Arts that I had the pleasure of tickling before they..."promoted"?


And there is one Dom at pasive Arts (who would kill jaba if her identity were disclosed, and jaba dont wanna die....yet!😛) who is so ticklish that her laugh will stop your heart!..... .....

you get that Dominatrix on a tickle table, and she may not survive the session!

 

[tkl-pen]

So, jaba, the dommes at PA are just like me - they can dish it out but they can't take it - you are so lucky to live in the area - and if I had known of it ten or twenty years ago, last week would not have been my first time there - I only wish there were places like this in other cities including the one I am living in - what really surprises me is that I can find hundreds of doms on the internet but practically no subs.

 

[jaba]

So, jaba, the dommes at PA are just like me - they can dish it out but they can't take it

Lets just say they can "dish it out"...

Ask our friend Milagros.... 😛

 

[Mistress Aura]

...what really surprises me is that I can find hundreds of doms on the internet but practically no subs.

In my experience, if the sub is the one advertising for session, then the illusion of control can tip too far out of balance and he or she gets no real satisfaction from it, nor would the top. In other words, if I am paying a sub to allow me to top, then the sub has taken even more control than just the usual safeword level, because he had what I wanted, rather than the other way around.

Strangely, that same dynamic doesn't seem to be the same when the sub is actually employed with a house or dominion. Perhaps it's because you pay the house and the house gives you the sub instead of hiring the sub directly--once again, the psychological effects are at work. In that scenario, the submissive actually somewhat becomes a gift from the house in the mind of the dominant, and that seems to make all the difference.

Not to mention, pure safety's sake! A house submissive is protected when functioning within the dominion--an independent sub (okay, there's an oxymoron for you! 🙄 ) is running a waaay higher risk of winding up being a statistic...or an inspiration for a new CSI episode.

Mistress Aura

 

[tcklft]

I tip 20% for good service, so $40 for a $200 session.

 

[Em Es]

Starts in the $200/hour range

xitsthelawx, in New York City I have paid at least $200 per hour for dominant, submissive or switch tickling sessions. I have tipped at least $20 but given as much as $60 even though every mistress with whom I played deserved a lot more; I just didn't have it to give. But in this era of wages that actually decrease each year when you account for inflation, all but a few of us don't earn what we're worth!

 

[milagros317]

Lets just say they can "dish it out"...

Ask our friend Milagros.... 😛

For the record, let me say that both Mistress Feral and Mistress Eden at Passive Arts can definitely tickle with skill and enthusiasm. 😀 😀

 

[tkl-pen]

Not to mention, pure safety's sake! A house submissive is protected when functioning within the dominion--an independent sub (okay, there's an oxymoron for you! 🙄 ) is running a waaay higher risk of winding up being a statistic...or an inspiration for a new CSI episode.

Mistress Aura, I couldn't imagine hurting a sub or any other young lady but there are those who would in the world - in fact, in my one session where I had a second sub doing some tickling, the second sub wanted to secure the ticklee in a certain way and I was the one who said 'no, we don't want to hurt her and that would put too much strain on her' - all I want is to tickle someone once in a while but never to hurt anyone.

I understand the logic of a sub not advertising for sessions - but how am I ever going to find one outside of the three or four dungeons or dominions that advertise on the internet - ah, the mysteries of life!

I have a clip of Mistress Feral tickling a young submissive named Adele - I really wonder, though, if she could take a session herself - I really love her British accent.

 

[Strider]

And there is one Dom at pasive Arts (who would kill jaba if her identity were disclosed, and jaba dont wanna die....yet!😛) who is so ticklish that her laugh will stop your heart!..... .....

you get that Dominatrix on a tickle table, and she may not survive the session!

Y'know, I think I may know who you're talking about.