I've been thinking alot about the fact that in life, like many have standards. As a tickler its simple I tickle women and as a ticklee if its an option, I choose women. But as who enjoys be tickled when men in life, have tickled me it wasn't fun like if it was a women doing the tickling. But I admit I was not upset when a buddy would get the best of me. It was like I didn't have a fetish anymore and experiencing tickling the others do. I've tickled many women in my life and maybe one, two tops could have had the fetish. Thats out of about 20- 30 women, not that much. The rest of the women still got tickled, it was still fun. But thats where it ends. They where never pleased whith me but, I guess you can say they saw as bonding. Plus everyone excepts that GETTING tickled is always a possibility. Despite your preference, sometimes we think everyone one feels the same way about tickling as we do. Well they don't, but lucky for us it's also a part of life. Anyways point is I need to set standards for myself in TMF, like I have in life. I plan on having fun whith my fetish, among other things. lol Balance is the key I think. Then you can have the best of both worlds.



