Tickling Fetishes and Convenience

[yeayeayea]

I have fully embraced my tickling/foot fetish, and telling girls I know is becoming easier and easier. For those of you who are having trouble being comfortabe with releasing this information, I suggest starting online. At an opportune moment (either at a lag in conversation or when discussing a subject that might remind you of your fetish--never as a first message or totally random), feel free to ask: "Are you ticklish?" Upon her reply, ask where, and so forth. The typical case eventually asks why I'm asking, and I tell her, "Just wondering. It's my fetish," or something to that effect. I have yet to elicit a reaction I would describe as "negative."

It's taken me forever to come up with a friendly system like this to both learn about the ticklishness of an acquaintance AND calmly tell her of my unusual fetish, so I figured I'd share it.

These extra complications that we ticklephiles face on a day-to-day basis raises a question:

As much as I love all you guys (and I do), do you ever think that our lives would be simpler if it were not for our, say, mental mutations?

--Mike

 

[Gamer]

I don't know, but tickling fantasicies have always been a nice escape from daily stresses.

 

[battlecat]

As much as I love all you guys (and I do), do you ever think that our lives would be simpler if it were not for our, say, mental mutations?

--Mike

“Mental Mutation” ?? Now I don’t mean to upset you in any way, as I know that you are only trying to help other fellow tickle-lovers with your advice, but I have to say that, if that is what you really think you have, then it sounds to me like it’s you who has the problem with it not other people.

Now I don’t know what you are into and I don’t mean to rant but speaking personally I definitely do not consider myself to be either ‘Mental’ or ‘Mutated’ in any way. To me tickling is just a harmless, playful way to blow off steam with my lovers, friends and family. I have to admit it can be a huge turn on and to tell you the truth I can’t imagine my life without it but for me it has to be a mutually enjoyable experience (for me and them) or else I don’t want to know.

Its summer over here in England at the moment and the towns and beaches are full of gorgeous girls all enjoying showing off their beautiful bodies so, of course, like most people I have fantasies nearly ever day, wondering if they are ticklish, staring at their bare bellies, or their armpits when they reach up and some times I long to just give one a playful tickle (sometimes I do) but that’s normal its called ‘being alive’. I am not hurting anyone.

If I really fancy a new girl though and know that she fancies me and there is a chance I could get to sleep with her, I find the best thing to do is to ‘front up’, slip my love of tickling into the conversation and then leave the next move to her.

I think the secret is to do it in a fun, playful sort of way, not like I have an illness or ‘mental mutation’ thats scary. I am a ‘lee aswell as a ‘ler so first of all I let her know that I think she is gorgeous, that to me tickling is all just a big, enjoyable sexy game, that I want her to have as much fun as me but most importantly that if she’s actually up for it and wants a ‘tickle fight’ then I am dying to get my hands on her but equally if she isn’t then that’s fine too and that she’s safe with me and that I’m sure we can find plenty of other ways to ‘make each other laugh’.

Now I am not bragging or anything (OK yes I am !!) but I have to say that so far it’s usually worked out fine, I have had some really wild and memorable nights and over the last few years I have made a lot of really good friends and lovers that way too, some of which I still go out with every now and again for a good laugh over a beer or two.

As I said earlier I don’t know quite what you are into and I know that your heart is probably in the right place but (and don’t take this the wrong way) “Mental Mutation” it sounds to me like you have been reading too many X-men comics !!

 

[barefootwatcher]

I may be wrong, but I don't think he meant to suggest that a tickle fetish was a mental mutilation. I think rather what was implied was that the "mental mutilation" we have is the stigmas and shame most of us attach to it in regard to our reluctance to be open about our perversion with other people.

 

[battlecat]

Oops !!

I may be wrong, but I don't think he meant to suggest that a tickle fetish was a mental mutilation. I think rather what was implied was that the "mental mutilation" we have is the stigmas and shame most of us attach to it in regard to our reluctance to be open about our perversion with other people.

Oops !!! It looks as if I have got the wrong end of the stick then. If that's the case yeayeayea then please accept my sincerest apologies, as I said my post was not sent to hurt you in any way but reading it now it does sound a bit more 'rantish' than I realised so I am very very sorry if I 've upset you in any way.

Waiter...a king-size slice of your best humble pie please and a large spoon I got me some eating to do!!!!

 

[ticklkitten]

From a girls point of view I don't think that guys should be so worried about bringing up their fetish. I'm a little more openminded than the average girl but to be completely honest I think that most girls EXPECT a guy to have some sort of "unusual interest"... they may not have thought of tickling in particular but it isn't surprising in the least to find out that a guy is turned on by something stereotypically unconventional.

 

[yeayeayea]

Oops !!! It looks as if I have got the wrong end of the stick then. If that's the case yeayeayea then please accept my sincerest apologies, as I said my post was not sent to hurt you in any way but reading it now it does sound a bit more 'rantish' than I realised so I am very very sorry if I 've upset you in any way.

Waiter...a king-size slice of your best humble pie please and a large spoon I got me some eating to do!!!!

Haha, hey man--no harm done. I only meant "mutation" in the literal sense: an abnormality. Where most people have one turnon, we have another. By no means am I insulting my own fetish or anything like that. I've come to terms with it years ago, and I'm just thankful that my fetish is something legal. 😛 Many people don't realize that pedophiles and whatnot don't have any more choice in their sexual fantasies than we or anybody does.

it isn't surprising in the least to find out that a guy is turned on by something stereotypically unconventional.

well, that sure makes my life easier! 😉

 

[battlecat]

From a girls point of view I don't think that guys should be so worried about bringing up their fetish. I'm a little more openminded than the average girl but to be completely honest I think that most girls EXPECT a guy to have some sort of "unusual interest"... they may not have thought of tickling in particular but it isn't surprising in the least to find out that a guy is turned on by something stereotypically unconventional.

Thanks for that kitten. From a guys point of view I am pleased to say that most of the girls I have come across, given the right time and right conditons, are only too happy to indulge in a little playful tickle play. Perhaps its just an english girl thing I don't know !!

As I said in my post I love tickling ladies but just because it may be my idea of fun I don't automatically assume it will be the girl I'm with's too. To me its about mutual respect....I love a good playful 'tickle fight' but ultimately she has the final say and I would never ever do anything to a girl that she wasn't up for, agree to or that I knew she hated. Talk to her..find out what she likes !!

I am a 'lee aswell as a 'ler and Its very important to me that when I am with a girl that we both have a good time (not just me) and that she doesn't feel I am dominating or torturing her (I won't say 'unless she wants me too' as S&M 'is not my thing baby'). I am only 25 but I am experienced enough to know when 'no more' means no more !!

As I said in my post earlier, tickling for me is just a fun, sexy way of letting off steam...it's foreplay really but its about 'mutual pleasure' not just mine.

I think the more people out there who understand that its not just about a 'fetish' and treat their lovers with respect, the more they are likely to enjoy a little tickling action and not be regarded as 'pervs'. What do all the ladies think ?

 

[TheFactor]

I have fully embraced my tickling/foot fetish, and telling girls I know is becoming easier and easier. For those of you who are having trouble being comfortabe with releasing this information, I suggest starting online. At an opportune moment (either at a lag in conversation or when discussing a subject that might remind you of your fetish--never as a first message or totally random), feel free to ask: "Are you ticklish?" Upon her reply, ask where, and so forth. The typical case eventually asks why I'm asking, and I tell her, "Just wondering. It's my fetish," or something to that effect. I have yet to elicit a reaction I would describe as "negative."

It's taken me forever to come up with a friendly system like this to both learn about the ticklishness of an acquaintance AND calmly tell her of my unusual fetish, so I figured I'd share it.

These extra complications that we ticklephiles face on a day-to-day basis raises a question:

As much as I love all you guys (and I do), do you ever think that our lives would be simpler if it were not for our, say, mental mutations?

--Mike

This totally works! I asked a girl online once if she was ticklish and she said "yes, and I love being tied and tickled." I'm not sure if she was just playing along or not, but the whole conversation didn't have any kind of sexual themes in it. Anyways some of the reponses I got were cute like "I'm so bloody ticklish."