tickling for fun or romantic/sensual

[ialwayseatsalmo]

I once thought i viewed tickling as something i would do with a girlfriend or wife, but as time as gone on, i seem to only see it with a friend or maybe even a stranger. playful tickling is still there with the girlfriend, but not the tied up tickling that i desire with friends. what are your thoughts?

 

[Maestro1874]

Tickling IS definitely erotic for me, enough so that I wouldn't want to do it with someone that I wasn't sexually interested in. It's sort of like..."Can I have one of them just friends blowjobs please?" I can't really do that either. 🙂 I know there are plenty here that can separate the two, but I either can't or I am too lazy to try!

 

[leafstk]

Maestro raises a good point. I myself don't have a problem playing with friends... well, especially so now that I'm not attached - but if i were, that would be a totally different story. Because yes, the fetish/experience/whathave you is sexual in nature to the majority of us.

I'm not saying that tickle play necessarily has to or will lead to sex, not at all... just that most of us would be kidding ourselves if we said it wasn't arousing, even among friends. So for me to do that with "play partners" or what have you, in the context of while I'm in a relationship? Unless I had the coolest g/f or wife on the planet, that would more than likely be a no go 🙁 She would have to be cool with it for me to engage in any kind of play like that or I couldn't live with that on my concience every day.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

BOTH! 😀

 

[Marquis De Sade]

I once thought i viewed tickling as something i would do with a girlfriend or wife, but as time as gone on, i seem to only see it with a friend or maybe even a stranger. playful tickling is still there with the girlfriend, but not the tied up tickling that i desire with friends. what are your thoughts?

It depends on who you're doing it with and the situation.

 

[rhiannon]

I wouldn't do it with a friend I see in everyday life, that could make things complicated if I do not want more with that friend than friendship. Tickling to me is sexual, so the partner has to be sexually attractive to me. He doesn't have to be my boyfriend or husband though, I don't have to have a relationship with him.

Basically, the same rules go for tickling as for sex!

 

[milagros317]

For me it can be either, playful or romantic, depending on the context and partner. 😀

 

[Angel77]

It can definitely be playful or romantic, depending on who's tickling me. But I do agree with leafy that tickling is arousing to most of us (it is a fetish, no?) so if someone I'm attracted to in a sexual way is tickling me, more than likely I'm going to be incredibly turned on and would want things to progress into some awesome, sweaty, crazy sex. Rock on!

 

[sasaxrah]

It can be either, even with my boyfriend. Clearly with friends tickling is just fun.

 

[Deleted member 66627]

It all depends on the person you're with. Tickling can be both for me, personally, just depends on who I'm playing with. 🙂

 

[TickledToDeath]

All of the above...depending on the situation.

 

[LD_Tickler]

I once thought i viewed tickling as something i would do with a girlfriend or wife, but as time as gone on, i seem to only see it with a friend or maybe even a stranger. playful tickling is still there with the girlfriend, but not the tied up tickling that i desire with friends. what are your thoughts?

Confused. Are you saying that tickling isn't sexy for you anymore? Or that you only desire it from people other than your girlfriend/wife, yet it's still sexy?

If the latter, then it sounds like your problem is really your level of attraction to those with whom you're intimate.

 

[ZenTickling]

I don't do any erotic tickling with models because for what I'm doing it would be inappropriate. We have FUN. If you have a girlfriend then you should feel free to explore other aspects of tickling.

 

[-Hari-]

Tickling with various people for me is a direct match to whatever relationship I have with that person.

If its a sexual partner, then my tickling with her will be most likely very sexual.

If a friend that I have fun with, then the tickling would also be fun.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Tickling used to only ever be just fun for me until I hit a certain age. Now I get the best of both worlds....

I can have fun playful tickling with friends....

And when it's time (anytime.... LOL Especially when I'm in public and it is completely inappropriate! LOL) I can enjoy the pleasure of erotic tickling with my man as well.

I don't look down on anyone who feels tickling is sexual to them. That's cool and there is really nothing I can do to change that! But I do think most of us enjoy it both ways.

FUN TIMES!
Sunny

 

[English]

Basically, the same rules go for tickling as for sex!

Same for me I wouldn't want to tickle someone I wasn't attracted to.

 

[luvtoez_1982]

tickling for me is fun. i've never done anything more than tickle with a tickling partner.

 

[FatJay]

Tickling for me is mostly sexual as I find it arousing. But that's probably because I have only really done it with my partner who is the sexiest woman I've ever known. Equally, I tickle my two-year-old daughter and sex couldn't be further from my mind, so I'm with the 'it depends on the context' crowd.