Ok guys and girls I need some serious advice. Please help me with this. First of all I am a huge ticklephile. I am more into tickling than sex. I love to look at womens feet getting tickled or just womens bare feet. This is just about my whole sexuality. I like to go to massage parlors and tickle girls basically I like to pay to tickle. My other method, which may offend some, is to sneak tickle a lady with her bare feet hanging out of a parked car I have only done that once. But I do not tickle co workers or females who are just associates. Well my issue is that when I like a girl or have a girlfriend I CANNOT STAND to see a guy tickle her. It drives me insane with anger and jealousy. It is not that I wish I was tickling her as I am sure I would get my opportunity I just hate it. I mean even just a little side poke makes me thinkwhy are they so comfortable with each other? It is even worse when she seems not to mind. I do not like to see my girl horseplay, wrestle, or tickle with another guy. I want some feedback from the ladys and guys on how you feel about it PLEASE.
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tickling girlfriend
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new2sceenbob
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tell her
Just tell your girlfriend how you feel. If she cares about you then it will be up to her to make sure that no one will tickle her in front of you...
Sincerely,
Bob
Just tell your girlfriend how you feel. If she cares about you then it will be up to her to make sure that no one will tickle her in front of you...
Sincerely,
Bob
Goodieluver
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If its a gf then why should you care? You odds are get to tickle her and much more when you get here home that night
As if its just any girl you see, its just a facet of human nature, you always want what someone else has if you want what they have
As if its just any girl you see, its just a facet of human nature, you always want what someone else has if you want what they have
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I hope you don't mind me throwing in my two cents, hon.
You started out your post mentioning how tickling is all about sexuality for you. Correct? If, to you, it's all about sexuality then of course you're going to feel weird when someone does that to your girlfriend. Seeing it as a purely sexual thing would make it feel like someone just came up and gave her a french kiss or copped a feel. The problem isn't with your girlfriend, though I agree you should tell her how you feel. The problem is with your perception of tickling. There's nothing wrong with seeing it as sexual. There's obviously difficulty in seeing it as ONLY sexual.
Talk with your girlfriend. Let her know how you see things, making sure you point out that it's not an accusation against her. If you can both agree to do your part (she avoiding tickles from others when possible and you reminding yourself that it's not always a sexual thing) you might start feeling more comfortable about it in unavoidable cases when it does happen.
You started out your post mentioning how tickling is all about sexuality for you. Correct? If, to you, it's all about sexuality then of course you're going to feel weird when someone does that to your girlfriend. Seeing it as a purely sexual thing would make it feel like someone just came up and gave her a french kiss or copped a feel. The problem isn't with your girlfriend, though I agree you should tell her how you feel. The problem is with your perception of tickling. There's nothing wrong with seeing it as sexual. There's obviously difficulty in seeing it as ONLY sexual.
Talk with your girlfriend. Let her know how you see things, making sure you point out that it's not an accusation against her. If you can both agree to do your part (she avoiding tickles from others when possible and you reminding yourself that it's not always a sexual thing) you might start feeling more comfortable about it in unavoidable cases when it does happen.
