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tickling girls on a date?

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ninefive

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so i have a casual date next week with a girl i met online. we are probably meeting for dinner for the first date. i was wondering how long ppl waited to see if their gf was ticklish? i was planning to wait till maybe date #2 and poking her sides? or should tickling wait for a matter of months? ive never tickled previous gfs by the way.
 
PerfectLove9 said:
It usually comes naturally. It's always been first or second date for me.
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Same here. I would definitely not wait any longer than three dates. At the very least, I'll give her a test tickle by the first or second date, usually I do a bit more than that if I think I can get away with it. 😀
 
If you are totally casual about it, most anytime is good....
 
You should have your own tickle advice column🙂
EmmaLee1206 said:
Casually tickling a girl you're seeing isn't a big deal at all. Just don't make a big deal about it and don't be awkward about it. lol. Don't do it at an inappropriate time and if she doesn't seem like she likes it don't try it again *or at least for a while, maybe when you guys are a bit closer* If she's into you she will probably think your being cute and flirty. Good luck and happy tickles!
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Tickling is part of flirting. Just do it if it feels natural. Don't make a big deal out of it. The bigger the deal, the creepier you come across!
 
rhiannon said:
Tickling is part of flirting. Just do it if it feels natural. Don't make a big deal out of it. The bigger the deal, the creepier you come across!
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Sage advice. I don't want to give the impression that I want to split hairs here. I'm really not. I'm just very curious. You and Emmalee both mentioned the same point.

How would you define "making a big deal" out of tickling a girl during a date? I would like to better understand this from a woman's perspective.
 
RdmNm said:
Sage advice. I don't want to give the impression that I want to split hairs here. I'm really not. I'm just very curious. You and Emmalee both mentioned the same point.

How would you define "making a big deal" out of tickling a girl during a date? I would like to better understand this from a woman's perspective.
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Same here.
 
rhiannon said:
Tickling is part of flirting. Just do it if it feels natural. Don't make a big deal out of it. The bigger the deal, the creepier you come across!
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This ^^^ - I have always tickled on the first date...never was an issue.

peace out,
daddy
 
I'm amazed how many people I see saying they would........I did, and have multiple times........it wasn't all happy endings, and I haven't often seen a second date out of it....
 
scorpionldr said:
I'm amazed how many people I see saying they would........I did, and have multiple times........it wasn't all happy endings, and I haven't often seen a second date out of it....
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did they get offended? might depend on where you tickled her...
 
yea, they did. sides is a general area. that's gotten me plenty of strikeouts.

a couple dates i met girls who liked me tickling them elsewhere in very particular spots........both turned out to be psychopathic. one confessed she was on disability for depression, and after a long series of mishaps became a lesbian who won't even give me the benefit of a talk about maybe a second session....
 
How would you define "making a big deal" out of tickling a girl during a date? I would like to better understand this from a woman's perspective
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Making a big deal means bringing up the topic, being all careful about it, grinning stupidly, asking permission....just do it! Softly of course, when touch is already happening. And, most important: don't be too persistent about it, meaning don't do it over and over and over again. I had that happen to me once, and it was so damn ennerving that I never met the guy again. Just be casual, that's all. 🙂 Act like a person would who is not into it. Or, if that helps better, go about it like you would about something you are not into, like a rub of the back or brushing back hair.
 
rhiannon said:
Making a big deal means bringing up the topic, being all careful about it, grinning stupidly, asking permission....just do it! Softly of course, when touch is already happening. And, most important: don't be too persistent about it, meaning don't do it over and over and over again. I had that happen to me once, and it was so damn ennerving that I never met the guy again. Just be casual, that's all. 🙂 Act like a person would who is not into it. Or, if that helps better, go about it like you would about something you are not into, like a rub of the back or brushing back hair.
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Good info. Thanks for the perspective. Sometimes you just have to hit us guys over the head with this stuff. 🙂
 
rhiannon said:
Making a big deal means bringing up the topic, being all careful about it, grinning stupidly, asking permission....just do it! Softly of course, when touch is already happening. And, most important: don't be too persistent about it, meaning don't do it over and over and over again. I had that happen to me once, and it was so damn ennerving that I never met the guy again. Just be casual, that's all. 🙂 Act like a person would who is not into it. Or, if that helps better, go about it like you would about something you are not into, like a rub of the back or brushing back hair.
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*sigh* and I see where I've failed so many times........
 
scorpionldr said:
lol so let me get this straight. I'm a tickle fetishist and I CANNOT allow myself to get turned on on the first date? well............*saunters off into cave*
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I think the moral of the story is that we need to suppress our more aggressive tickling tendencies until after the relationship is fully established.

Tickling early in the relationship is fine, but the more intense and frequent tickling just has to wait. Well, I guess you just have to earn it.

Damn, I hate having to wait. 🙁 I wanna tickle someone right now!!!
 
lol so let me get this straight. I'm a tickle fetishist and I CANNOT allow myself to get turned on on the first date?
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Dude, if the guy who dates me DOESN'T get turned on during the first date, I'm wondering what the hell is wrong with either him or me!
 
thanks guys, the date was supposed to be today but i guess its not. i starteed talking to the girl on okcupid and she wants to wait till early next week. (thats assuming that she isnt hinting out that she does not want to meet, and im not getting the hint...). it always seems like i'll have great convos with girls on okcupid, then when the time comes to actually ask them out for a casual date, they flake out or deactivate their account. very bizzare and disheartening.
 
ninefive said:
thanks guys, the date was supposed to be today but i guess its not. i starteed talking to the girl on okcupid and she wants to wait till early next week. (thats assuming that she isnt hinting out that she does not want to meet, and im not getting the hint...). it always seems like i'll have great convos with girls on okcupid, then when the time comes to actually ask them out for a casual date, they flake out or deactivate their account. very bizzare and disheartening.
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it could just mean she may be just as nervous. ignoring you completely and standing you up is a sure sign--not rescheduling. I don't think anyway.
 
Usually around the second date. If you don't make a big deal out of it. I remember one time I was on a date I think the third we decided to stay in and watch a movie, she was going through all the movies by her TV and her barefeet were behind her, so I gave her a test tickle. She shrieked and laughed, but I found out her feet were ticklish. Probablly the most ticklish girl I was ever with.
 
Whatever you do, don't ask for permission. That may seem obvious, and it should, but there are people here who will tell you that it's "creepy" for you to tickle a girl who doesn't know about your fetish. In my opinion, that's a bunch of crap. In fact, I think what's creepy is to spill your guts about your fetish and then beg for indulgence.

To summarize...

Don't ask. Just tickle!

DAJT
 
Really you should tickle her in the first 5 minutes. Then when that's done produce a set of handcuffs, and say: "you know what comes next". If you get a bad response tell her she's obviously a lesbian.

Okay just reaching for my tin helmet, as I await Rhiannon's reply.
 
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