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Tickling Humilliation : Embarrasement:

hazelf1

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Following a thread about courage and fear in relation to tickling.

What about the humilliation / embarrasement of it

Do you find it humilliating, or people finding out about is that an embarrasement to you.

I love slow and sensual stripping as well as tickling and bondage now that can be humilliating both from a ler and lee view point also its scarey but at the same time exciting.

Any thoughts on this.
 
Well, I'm terrified of the thought of anyone finding out about it. However, any tickling I do would be fun for both parties, not humiliating. However, that's just my thoughts on it. Ugh. In a town as small as mine, anybody catches wind of what I fantasize about and I'll need a passport and a name change.
 
I kind of agree with Mash, but for me it's more of the person being annoyed and them possibly spreading word or something along those lines. I'm in college, so it's like a small town; word spreads fast. -_- Haha
 
Well, as far as embarrassment...not sure if this is the perspective you're meaning for this question, but when I'm in a more 'ler' mood, it takes me quite some time to get my SO to submit to me. However, when I do....his shyness/embarrassment and submission is so adorable I have a hard time keeping the dominance going, as I'm naturally submissive.
 
Being tickled can be humiliating to me in certain company~ just talking about the topic itself can make me blush. It's hard to submit to the sensations. For me, it's this constant battle of wanting it to stop, and yet wanting it to continue... while at the same time not admitting the latter at all costs.

It's a silly response, and really says more about my inability to really want to submit, despite having some pretty powerful submissive tendencies. I find it difficult to submit in many different ways sexually~ not just tickling. Tickling is just a very powerful tool to vulnerability.

I think that's the basis for most shyness/embarrassment. Vulnerability~ and tickling exposes it in such acute ways~ while also having the added element of making someone afraid to laugh and afraid to endure it... it's just, difficult to handle even when you know how much bliss it can give your partner.

It's strange that as a 'ler, part of what makes tickling such a turn on for me is tapping into the very thing that makes me fear tickling in the first place. Its definitely a sadistic element with me~ knowing a lot of my pleasure is in pushing buttons the other doesn't necessarily want pushed...
 
It's the very condition of being ticklish that embarrasses me; when people discover it, their reactions (surprise, delight, boisterous remarks like "Oh my gosh he's TICKLISH") tend to emphasize the degree to which ticklishness is not a universal condition, that not everyone when touched in a certain way is compelled to twitch, curl up, giggle like a schoolgirl. This highlighting of my ticklishness as a difference, something that sets me apart from "normal," non-ticklish people, is what embarrasses me the most.

Or the highlighting of the degree of my ticklishness as the exceptional quality--most people are ticklish, is the message they're sending, but not as ticklish as you. "My gosh you are REALLY ticklish," that sort of thing. Very embarrassing.

Maybe worst of all is the implication that the quality and degree of my ticklishness is particularly unusual for a male. Everyone expects women to be ticklish but a guy who's so ticklish apparently needs to be dwelled upon, discussed, probed and explored at intolerable length.

The fact that being so ticklish is not just (allegedly) unusual but also incapacitating just makes it worse. That this physical response to stimuli is an amusing weakness that gives the other person temporary and playful power over you just sort of seals the inherent humiliation of it all.
 
This is my 'lers perspective on the matter.

I wouldn't say it would be an embarrassment for me if someone were to find out about my fetish. I really don't get embarrassed about anything. In situations that would be embarrassing I usually just immediately take control and just allow myself to be the center of attention and ride then wave rather than feel embarrassment. My feeling is basically 'so what that X' happened. Who cares - I honestly don't.

Now that doesn't mean that I am outward with my various fetishes. All things have a time and their place. I do control who I tell what to because different people have different maturity levels and I would rather not deal with the annoyance. When golden tickling opportunities present themselves I take full advantage. I would never feel embarrassed about publicly enjoying a little tickling. I've done it though only a few good friends know it is my kink.

I'm not really a 'lee though I am ticklish. My attitude is the same though. I've been tickled, but as with my overall demeanor I'm not humiliated by it. Hey, its fun that is the whole point of it. If it gets the attention of someone whom I want the attention from I see nothing wrong with it. Its nice to play back and forth.
 
I'm easily embarrased in/around company. Family, friends, or whoever. I hate attention drawn to me, so when a guy sitting next to me in a restaurant or somepleace public squeezes my knee. Oh my God! It's hellaciously nervewracking. Not that I scream or flail around, it's more of just a jump. But I feel like everyone's eyes are on me or there's a spotlight that just went on over head.

Not real comfortable.
 
I would be embarrased if my kink became public not least because i live in what is probably one of the most repressed and negative countries in the western world which just loves to label any deviation from the "norm " as perversion and therefore a threat to women children and the general moral fibre of the land (plus my mum would not be happy!) .As for my lees feeling humiliated, no i dont like that it seems abusive which is strange considering what id want to inflict on them.I guess what id hope for is the paradox that she feels the whole experience a big turn on even if the tickling itself is physically unbearable
 
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