And I'm in full disagreement with most of the male responses here. It is painfully obvious some of you have never been married before or you wouldn't come up with some of the nonsense you have.
1-Men change in the marriage just as much as women, if not moreso. By the time I returned from my marriage/honeymoon I knew something drastically changed in him that eventually killed the relationship after 10 years of marriage. Don't believe me, let her gain weight or lose some of her physical attractiveness and see how he responds.
2-Women will NOT do
anything to please a man in the bedroom, that's always within reason GQ. I have no problem trying new things in bed but if it's something that I find repulsive it ain't happening, plain and simple. These are the things that should be discussed long before marriage anyway, including tickling and other fetishes.
3-ticklenv-A woman becomes "uptight" when she realizes her man doesn't care much more than what's on the table for dinner or if there's enough bud light in the fridge for him during the game. It's the old "hey I married ya', ain't that enough" syndrome that men tend to have in marriages. In other words, if he loses interest in her, she'll start nagging and accusing; keep it simple and keep interest in your wife and you won't have the fussing and fighting at home.
4-hurricanes were named after women because we lived in a sexist society back then Obama666. We have PMS, menstrual cycles, pregnancy, menopause to deal with--so what's the man's excuse? There is such a thing as male menopause and mid life crisis that will make any woman look like a kid in the playground, thank you very much. Been there, done that and don't want to go there again with another man.
5-If you don't figure out that a man will tell you anything to keep a woman in the relationship and only married her so she won't leave him to be stuck alone, then you don't understand how some men operate. See how that works in the reverse Dave??
6-Sounds like many of you don't truly know anything about women except that you need them cause you're not gay. Otherwise, there is a whole lot of blank canvass you gentlemen can paint on. It'll probably take you a lifetime but it's never too late to start.
To the OP:
I think your question is unrealistic at best. It shows that someone didn't bother to do their homework in advance of the "I do's" or that someone crossed a bitter line and sex is the commodity on the table. I know how it feels to have sex withheld during a relationship issue/crisis and it really sucks so don't think women are the only ones who do it.
I know of a forum member who has been married close to 30 years and has never had oral sex. Can you imagine that? Know why? Because her husband doesn't want to do it. I would've been in a helluva lot of trouble in my marriage if fellatio fell off my table and I wouldn't have been able to stay abstained because it's part of my kink and sexuality. It's one thing if the hips fail, but if the lips fail too? What's a girl got left to look forward to, ya' know??
Pay attention to your relationship and you won't have to make these kinds of decisions. And that goes for men AND women.
