Tickling....rank your criteria?

[jaba]

a member's post in the video/audio clips section made me think about this....when tickling or watching tickling media, what's your criteria of importance and how do you rank your tickling preferences?

what I mean is....for me, for example, when tickling or watching tickling media, a great laugh that I really love is the number one thing that is mandatory for me to enjoy the experience....if the laugh doesn't do it for me (or if I have a "screamer" ) I'll pass on the tickleplay...better to be honest up front, right?

next in order of imprtance is probably method of restraint....I LOVE the mummification tickling themes by MTP Jeff, T C videos and Polodatria productions....this is my favorite, very rare and hard, to find so I usually set up my own scenarios in private tickle play.....with funloving, acomodating ladies, of course ....strait jackets,foot immobilization/ toe ties, spread eagle, all very nice if done right....... .......an escaping, unrestrained, thrashing ticklee doesn't appeal to me in videos or private play.....

next for me is probably her personality.....more fun for me to watch and play with fun, quirky, goofball personalities (like mine 😛 )......

a ladies "looks" are nice, but not really high on my priority list, "lady next door" types I adore! ..... I would leap over 4 fake laughing, screaming models to get to a "lady next door type" bank teller or mail lady with a laugh that stopped my heart......no question about it......

so jaba's "tickling order of importance"?

1. An amazing laugh

2.method of restraint

3.sweet, quirky personality (I'm thinking Drew Barrymore with a killer giggle!)


just curious....what's yours?












jaba

 

[Capnmad]

Laugh is key. A great giggle, squeal or full, forceful laugh is wonderful. But I need no screamers or those whose sound like brass being filed.

How they're bound is also key. I'm not fond of mummification or blindfolds, necessarily, as it diminishes the things I love -- the cues, the reactions... I love to see a 'lee's expression, the look in their eyes, the change from being squinched shut to wide-eyed surprise when I've found a good new "spot". It's important to me that they see what I'm doing, too, as you can increase the anticipation... Granted, you can do that with a blindfold, too, but I like to see them try to ready and brace themselves for an attack on a particular spot...

Escaping is bad. No escaping. Naughty, naughty! 🙂 My 'lee would have to be punished for that! 😉

Personality, I agree. I can't tickle someone I don't like. Why would I want to? Their personality must agree with me, but that's usually pretty easy, as I'm a fairly agreeable sort.

Looks can vary. I like many different types of women, and it's rare that I have a strong preference for any one "type". Petite, skinny, a few extra pounds, big breasted, small breasted, race, whathaveyou, none of it really matters. Bottom line, for me, you should be healthy, and under 50. Not fond of smokers. I suppose of most things in the looks department, what matters most to me is a great smile, as it improves all the features of a woman exponentially to me. And I'm constantly looking at a woman's face while I'm tickling -- so yeah, the smile thing is important. It, along with laughter, is a great reward.

Intensity of the tickle is also a big thing for me. I don't mean some ham-fisted idiot just "digging in", but the reaction... A woman can react strongly often from light or heavy touches. I'm thinking I may try to convince one old friend of mine -- who has declared she's "too ticklish" to really get into it -- into giving a light session a try... I think she's mostly been tickled roughly by her brother, and playfully by me in moments when she's "fighting back", and it makes it difficult to do really light, almost caressing touches... It's those that I think most people could appreciate -- the place where a stroke just starts to tickle... And then, as she gets acclimated, perhaps more would be worthwhile for her. Perhaps.

But back to the topic of intensity -- you can bring about a very strong reaction from many light touches, and that's something I like to be able to do... Less wear and tear on me (especially if she's bound rather than tickle-wrestling -- which has its own allure), and often a bigger reaction for my 'lee.

Exposure is also a feature. Firstly, I'm a lover of women and the naked female form. Secondly, I appreciate the psychological impact of exposure and the mild to sometimes powerful sense of apprehension when a woman realizes that their exposure means they can be tickled "there!" "There" could be anywhere they have exposed (a neck, a knee, a torso), but this apprehension and anxiety increases with the amount of skin exposed or the relative "privacy" of the regions exposed, and often increases the intensity of their reactions as a result (which, as aforementioned, is a big thing for me). Don't get me wrong -- I love clothed tickling as well, but often, the less clothed, the more interesting and exciting things can get.

 

[Iwant2Btickled]

Well, I can only list the things that I would WANT, as I have not been fortunate enough to have experienced it yet..

If I was the tickler, I agree about the personality thing. Although, it would be funny to reduce a cocky jock into a quivering mass of giggling..hmmm. Anyway, personality and cleanliness.. definetely...I'd want him to be flirty and teasing with me, talking to me the whole time.
I'd like to be able to tie him up spread eagle i think.. but kind of propped up behind the back so that he could see me tickling his feet.. I would start off just with the ankles restrained, so i could watch him squirm around a little in anticipation.. then after he's nice and sensitive and worked up, maybe some string around the toes to make his feet immobile.. everything else, i'd leave to squirm a little.. I'd use light touches, fingernails and feathers, maybe get a little crazy with a soniccare.. who knows.

If I was being tickled.. i think i'd like to be restrained so that i didn't have to worry about it.. I mean, to know i can't do anything about what is going to happen to me would be so amazing. The few times i've been tickled, and the guy was rough or poking did nothing for me but hurt me, I've had a couple broken ribs before and they hurt when poked, so the gentle teasing touch mixed in with firmer playful tickles would be more intense for me. And I'd want him to have the same playful, teasing, flirty personality that I have.. talking to me about what he's going to do..

Damn. I need a cold shower now..

 

[maniactickler]

Must be horribly ticklish and in completely immobile bondage.

 

[slacker2114]

One thing I DON'T like is a tickler making retarded comments in a futile attempt to be funny. It comes off, to me, as highly annoying. If you're going to verbally tease the 'lee, that's cool. But making stupid jokes and comments is distracting and ruins the whole thing.

Plus, I like to see both the 'ler and 'lee obviously having fun. Sure, the 'lee will be laughing and begging and whatnot, but you can still get a sense if the 'lee is actually enjoying the experience. Likewise, the 'ler should seem to be enjoying dishing out the torment instead of looking all stonefaced and bored or even forcing themselves to look like they're having fun.

 

[baby]

I can't talk much about media, haven't seen any full clip so far, just previews and have to say I there were only a few I liked so far.

As for real life, I'd say first thing is the personality of the tickler - he has to be playful and teasing, completely merciless when it comes to tickling, but still caring and he has to have that wicked smile, while telling me in how much trouble I am 😱

method of restraint is also important, the more immobile, the better, I simply LOVE this feeling of being completely helpless, I'm not so much into blindfolds or gags though.

and then it's all about the touch. He has to know, where light strokes work best or where he has to dig in.

 

[Bugman]

Change the order of #2 and #3 Jaba,and you and i are pretty much on the same page.😀

 

[EvenSteven]

the ideal

So far, i have yet to see the ideal scene. This is where a Female tickler has Her victim bound so firmly that he cannot move. She taunts him verbally, sometimes letting out a triumphant laugh as She makes him quiver and reduces him to a plaything. It also works well for me to see Her tickling another woman, because they have such nicer laughs.

 

[jaba]

"tickle" a "sweet personality" into her?

Change the order of #2 and #3 Jaba,and you and i are pretty much on the same page.😀

Ha ha....I don't know, Bugman..... . 😎


I can think of a few "sour puss" ladies that I would LOVE to twirl into a mummy wrap, and tickle them until their "disposition" changed, ha ha......






jaba

 

[TickledToDeath]

Keeping it simple....so long as the victim is genuinly ticklish and very ticklish, that is paramount. Then comes the great hard steady laugh.

TTD

 

[baby]

Ha ha....I don't know, Bugman..... . 😎


I can think of a few "sour puss" ladies that I would LOVE to twirl into a mummy wrap, and tickle them until their "disposition" changed, ha ha......






jaba

LOL, now if thats not a god reason to turn into a "sour puss" for a day or two, i don't now what else is 😛

 

[jaba]

i'm trying to use "restraint" in this response.........

I can't talk much about media, haven't seen any full clip so far, just previews and have to say I there were only a few I liked so far.

As for real life, I'd say first thing is the personality of the tickler - he has to be playful and teasing, completely merciless when it comes to tickling, but still caring and he has to have that wicked smile, while telling me in how much trouble I am 😱

method of restraint is also important, the more immobile, the better, I simply LOVE this feeling of being completely helpless, I'm not so much into blindfolds or gags though.

and then it's all about the touch. He has to know, where light strokes work best or where he has to dig in.

the visuals you create are killing me , baby...... 🙄


ahhh...but what a way to go, I guess?...... 😉








😛 jaba 😛

 

[daddy]

3.sweet, quirky personality (I'm thinking Drew Barrymore with a killer giggle!)

I am thinking right along with ya on Drew (but my g/f fits the bill very nicely as it is!)

peace out,
daddy

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Very Simple:
First criteria is female.

After that its these...

1. Ticklishness- I mean that's a given.

2. Several Hot spots- At which to spend time and exploit

3. Uncontrollable Laughter- Nothing is better than watching her squirm and squeal uncontrollably.

4. Ticklee- She has to love being tickled mercesslessly.

 

[ticklishscribe]

These are all number one for me.


F/f is a priority but m/f is okay too.

A good length for the “Full length video/DVD.” 45 minutes at least.

I like it intense and sensually intense.

I like it REALISTIC, or as REALISTIC as possible.

No play tickling and a lee in proper imobile bondage.

Nothing fancy, just straight forward bondage and “TICKLING”.

No stupid flimsy feathers,; use a good "Stiff" feather.

No Q-tips or fake fingernails.

No nibbling of the feet and ties.

No food of any sort on the feet.

No animals.

The lee must have a good hearty laugh or VERY close to it. I am not into light giggling at all.

No cheesy dialog in any way.

No unnecessary talking of any sort by the lee ler or lers or anyone else in the room. No distracting noises in anyway as I just want to hear the lee laughing..

In fact no unnecessary anything in the video but “TICKLING”.

No one else in the room where the video/DVD is being shot but the ler or lers the lee and the cameraperson.

The ler and the lee ignore the camera; they're just tickling and not making a video.

No talking of any sort by the cameraperson.

If doing a plot, keep it as real as possible (and by real I mean that it CAN happen in EVERYDAY LIFE). And keep the plot as short as possible as I am interesting in “TICKLING”. That’s why I’m buying a “TICKLING” video/DVD.

Anyway, that's mine.​

 

[jaba]

"smokin hot" gigglers?

Laugh is key. A great giggle, squeal or full, forceful laugh is wonderful. But I need no screamers or those whose sound like brass being filed.

Bottom line, for me, you should be healthy, and under 50. Not fond of smokers.

ha ha....I agree, I usually frown on active smoking during tickleplay...things can get pretty tricky when your lovely lee is tied spread eagle, and suddenly the wooden four post bed ignites into flames.....

however, I have tickle played with a few ladies who have been current or former smokers, and I must admit that a deep, helpless, sexy laugh, with a little raspiness, has been pretty pleasing to jaba's ears on occasion....... 😀

 

[baby]

however, I have tickle played with a few ladies who have been current or former smokers, and I must admit that a deep, helpless, sexy laugh, with a little raspiness, has been pretty pleasing to jaba's ears on occasion....... 😀

and I guess her coughing probably sounds much more - ehhmm - convincing as well 😀

 

[Tickler Bart]

My Preferences

Ok, as the 'ler, my 'preferences' are as follows, in NO par-tickler order.

1) The 'lee MUST MUST LOVE being tickled, & she MUST
verbalize this from time to time during the session. Example - "Oh my god
hahahaha I LOVE this." Something like that.

2) The 'lee MUST be extremely ticklish. (DUH!)

3) The 'lee MUST LOVE to be striclty restrained. The 'lee
should WANT to be tightly bound. One thing I HATE is a loosely
tied 'lee. I really HATE alot of moving around by the 'lee.

4) As far as the 'lee's physical appearance, it really doesn't matter too much
to me. It really depends on the individual & their uniqueness.

5) As far as the 'lee's attitude is concerned, if she is a bitch, then it ruins it
for me. One thing that really turns me off is a 'lee with a bad attitude.

6) And, of course, the 'lee MUST have a good hardy laugh. Please NO
screaming too much. Please do NOT fake the laugh because it is expected
of you. If it doesn't tickle, it doesn't tickle.

7) Also I HATE tickle fights. It does NOTHING for me at all. You can't really
see the actual tickling. Too much movement.

8) One last thing. I really do NOT like gang tickling or where
there is more than one person tickling a 'lee or where there is more than
one 'lee at the same time. For me, tickling is a VERY intimate thing. One
on one & PRIVATE is more to my liking.

If I can think of anything else I will add them in later.

 

[jaba]

jabas tickle hut is a "no coughing" zone....

and I guess her coughing probably sounds much more - ehhmm - convincing as well 😀

VERY funny, babycakes.......

By the way, if you wanna hear the giggles of a smokin sexy lady gigglee, check out jabas 11th "TMF Mystery Lovely Lady Laugher"....

Jaba wasn't her tickler, but her lucky ler sure got some smokin hot giggles out of her!......

Man......jaba needs to coax some "hot giggles" out of somebody soon?........






jaba