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Tickling with Fun Couple Play?! Active and Engaging!

Sunriseticklee

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This is just my own personal observations and thoughts about couple play and how tickling is presented online in kink spaces versus how fun and engaging it can be in real life.

I've notice that outside of cuckolding, couple play just isn't highlighted and celebrated as much in some of these spaces, so much so that when I have spoken to some members about it, it seems they think that couple play is essentially a sex thing where a man watches from the corner while a S.O. is tickled and screwed.

Couple play isn't often requested where both S.O.s are a part of the conversation, negotiation, and vetting processes. Oftentimes, I get contacted by just a man. And when I state that I really want to hear from the girlfriend or the wife, the man grows cold or distant. Sometimes the man is offended. And almost always, the conversations end when I say I want to talk to AND get to know everyone involved. This is so common that I read a thread that asked if there are real couples where the wife is the one in the lead. Could the wife be into tickling and has gotten the husband into it? A woman taking the lead was so uncommon that he questioned the validity of it as if it could neven happen.

However, when I have engaged with couples either as a single switch or within a couple myself, it has always been very enjoyable. There are so many ways to approach it that do not include cuckolding or even sexual play at all.

All things are fair in love and tickling with careful communication and negotiations. of course. So if the tickling involves the sexiest, raunchiest play... to each his or her or their own! Go for it. No tea! No shade! (Well, I mean... mostly no tea.) HOWEVER, if you are avoiding playing with couples for that reason, not all couple play steers in that direction.

I approach couples tickling like a tag-team! When I am invited into a couple's space, hopefully they have done the pre-work to ensure that they know that this is fantasy and fun, and I won't do anything they both don't want to do. Both voices are important and valid. We don't have arguing. I prefer not to play when there is jealousy or where anyone feels left out. For me, it should be empowering and fun for everyone! I'm not here to provide therapy. I'm not here to wreck homes.😁

I AM there to make everyone laugh, though. So.... I want to tag-team with one member of the couple to get the other member. Let's go! They deserve it.... Show me your favorite ways to tickle them. Let's explore them together. What were your favorite tickling moments with them in the past? What do you like? What works for you the best? Favorite tools? Have you tried this? Just all the things. Oh you want revenge? You can certainly get them next!

I remember at an event, a couple walked out of a friend's room and they were utterly destroyed. Soaked with sweat from head to toe, glassy-eyed, tangled hair, exhausted... BUT THEY WERE BEAMING! Just smiling and grateful!

I asked him what he did to them, and he said EVERY combination.... And at that moment, I was like, "I want to do that!" They both tag-teamed on one... Switched and they tag-teamed the other. He tied them both together and got them both at the same time. He untied them a little and pitted them against each other.... Made one tickle the other to get the tickling to stop. He tortured them within an inch of their lives and it showed! And they thanked him profusely. I could only imagine the organized chaos! I could only imagine the intensity of the scene and the mind games he played.

RESPECT! I wanna be like him when I grow up. LMAO. If there are any takers... I would love to be your Evil Queen Ler! I mean... It sounds AMAZING!

Back to the convo.... 😅 Of course, although I am a ler-leaning switch... the couple has the option to get revenge on me and tickle me back. I am the willing lee... And, well.... It's equally fun and I'm again tickled to a level that everyone is comfortable with. Communication should be constant for all of us, even throughout each portion of the session.

I've also played as a couple with a couple. I will admit, that us women switched up a whole lot. The men played the lers and the lees, but did not tickle each other. I didn't expect it. (I never asked for it even though m/m is my JAM! LMAO) But sometimes I was on the bottom of a pile of 3 ticklers, and sometimes I was on the top alone or with a teammate. The camaraderie was nice! I would have to say that this dynamic was my favorite. We went on double dates sometimes that ended in tickle fun at a house or hotel. Sometimes we cooked at home and came over to each other's spots and played. Sometimes there was no play at all... just fellowship.

These are examples of tickling play with couples that aren't often highlighted in spaces like these. We don't hear from the woman often at all. But everyone needs to be connected, communicating, and comfortable. It is so much better when I hear that everyone is excited about the upcoming experience. It's so much more fun when each role, assigned or fluid, is centered around everyone feeling equally desirable. I want this to be something that is engaging and not something that just happens to the other person.

We know that many couples kinda keep their play private. I understand it. And maybe that is why they don't share more of their stories and successes. It would just be nice to hear about couples play with tickling that doesn't always showcase a man in the corner watching his lady get dominated.

Variety is the spice of life. So is tickling!

What are your thoughts? Your experiences? Would you play with a couple? Are you a couple who wants to play?

Let's talk about it!
Sunny!
Happy Easter... BTW
 
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This is just my own personal observations and thoughts about couple play and how tickling is presented online in kink spaces versus how fun and engaging it can be in real life.

I've notice that outside of cuckolding, couple play just isn't highlighted and celebrated as much in some of these spaces, so much so that when I have spoken to some members about it, it seems they think that couple play is essentially a sex thing where a man watches from the corner while a S.O. is tickled and screwed.

Couple play isn't often requested where both S.O.s are a part of the conversation, negotiation, and vetting processes. Oftentimes, I get contacted by just a man. And when I state that I really want to hear from the girlfriend or the wife, the man grows cold or distant. Sometimes the man is offended. And almost always, the conversations end when I say I want to talk to AND get to know everyone involved. This is so common that I read a thread that asked if there are real couples where the wife is the one in the lead. Could the wife be into tickling and has gotten the husband into it? A woman taking the lead was so uncommon that he questioned the validity of it and if it could even happen.

However, when I have engaged with couples either as a single switch or within a couple myself, it has always been very enjoyable. There are so many ways to approach it that do not include cuckolding or even sexual play at all.

All things are fair in love and tickling with careful communication and negotiations. of course. So if the tickling involves the sexiest, raunchiest play... to each his or her or their own! Go for it. No tea! No shade! (Well, I mean... mostly no tea.)
HOWEVER, if you are avoiding playing with couples for that reason, not all couple play steers in that direction.

I approach couples tickling like a tag-team! When I am invited into a couple's space, hopefully they have done the pre-work to ensure that they know that this is fantasy and fun, and I won't do anything they both don't want to do. Both voices are important and valid. We don't have arguing. I prefer not to play when there is jealousy or where anyone feels left out. For me, it should be empowering and fun for everyone! I'm not here to provide therapy. I'm not here to wreck homes. :-D

I AM there to make everyone laugh, though. So.... I want to tag-team with one member of the couple to get the other member. Let's go! They deserve it.... Show me your favorite ways to tickle them. Let's explore them together. What were your favorite tickling moments with them in the past? What do you like? What works for you the best? Favorite tools? Have you tried this? Just all the things. Oh you want revenge? You can certainly get them next!

I remember at an event, a couple walked out of a friend's room and they were utterly destroyed. Soaked with sweat from head to toe, glassy-eyed, tangled hair, exhausted... BUT THEY WERE BEAMING! Just smiling and grateful!

I asked him what he did to them, and he said EVERY combination.... And at that moment, I was like, "I want to do that!" They both tag-teamed on one... Switched and they tag-teamed the other. He tied them both together and got them both at the same time. He untied them a little and pitted them against each other.... Made one tickle the other to get the tickling to stop. He tortured them within an inch of their lives and it showed! And they thanked him profusely. I could only imagine the organized chaos! I could only imagine the intensity of the scene and the mind games he played.

RESPECT! I wanna be like him when I grow up. LMAO. If there are any takers... I would love to be your Evil Queen Ler! I mean... It sounds AMAZING!

Back to the convo.... 😅 Of course, although I am a ler-leaning switch... the couple has the option to get revenge on me and tickle me back. I am the willing lee... And, well.... It's equally fun and I'm again tickled to a level that everyone is comfortable with. Communication should be constant for all of us, even throughout each portion of the session.

I've also played as a couple with a couple. I will admit, that us women switched up a whole lot. The men played the lers and the lees, but did not tickle each other. I didn't expect it. (I never asked for it even though m/m is my JAM! LMAO) But sometimes I was on the bottom of a pile of 3 ticklers, and sometimes I was on the top alone or with a teammate. The
camaraderie was nice! I would have to say that this dynamic was my favorite. We went on double dates sometimes that ended in tickle fun at a house or hotel. Sometimes we cooked at home and came over to each other's spots and played. Sometimes there was no play at all... just fellowship.

These are examples of tickling play with couples that aren't often highlighted in spaces like these. We don't hear from the woman often at all. But everyone needs to be connected, communicating, and comfortable. It is so much better when I hear that everyone is excited about the upcoming experience. It's so much more fun when each role assigned or fluid and everyone is desirable. I want this to be something that is engaging and not something that just happens to the other person.

We know that many couples kinda keep their play private. I understand it. And maybe that is why they don't share more of their stories and successes. It would just be nice to hear about couple play with tickling that doesn't always showcase a man in the corner watching his lady get dominated.

Variety is the spice of life. So is tickling!

What are your thoughts? Your experiences? Would you play with a couple? Are you a couple who wants to play?
Let's talk about it!

Sunny!
Happy Easter... BTW
My husband and I have never tickled or been tickled by anyone else. We have talked about it, mostly as fantasy. We both have talked about bringing in another woman for tickling only. Mostly as me being the one tickled by the other woman and then my husband joining in to both tickling me. My husband is also very ticklish and the thought of teaming up with another woman to tickle him silly is VERY intriguing! My husband is not on the Lee side BUT I think he would if it’s like a “I’ll go if you go” type of think lol… then both of us teaming up on the other woman is definitely on the table 😂
 
My husband and I have never tickled or been tickled by anyone else. We have talked about it, mostly as fantasy. We both have talked about bringing in another woman for tickling only. Mostly as me being the one tickled by the other woman and then my husband joining in to both tickling me. My husband is also very ticklish and the thought of teaming up with another woman to tickle him silly is VERY intriguing! My husband is not on the Lee side BUT I think he would if it’s like a “I’ll go if you go” type of think lol… then both of us teaming up on the other woman is definitely on the table 😂

Oh it sounds like y'all are ready and would have a lot of fun. LOL Especially if he lets you get revenge.

I'm not going to lie... I was nervous the first time playing as a couple. I didn't know if I was going to feel weird about it or feel jealous or anything. But it ended up being a lot of fun watching the husband get wrecked and seeing him curl up on the floor laughing and trying to escape some of the tickles. It was pretty cute. And we did a great job tag-teaming the other women. Seems like you develop a secret language over time, and you just know what you're gonna do with just a look. LOL

Thank you for sharing... ❤️❤️❤️
 
My wife and I have played lots with other people. Some of the partners come from here, some “famous” Lers, and some vanilla Lers. Each time she has been the Lee but she has mentioned that she kinda wants to have me be on the receiving end on one of the next sessions. I love being the Ler but my gift / curse, is that I am extremely ticklish so she knows exactly what I would be getting into (and so do I lol). Typically, I do make the initial contact because she is shy when it comes to tickling and we both want to make sure it’s a safe play partner. Currently, we have a couple of play partners in the Atlanta area that we session with from time to time. Who knows, I may give in and be the Lee in the near future. Actually, it might be even more fun for us to both be Lees at the same time, although am sure I would tap out first lol.
 
I got approached by a man to tickle his wife in a public place. In other situations, it’s usually the guy who approaches.

My thought is, I need to know that the woman wants it to happen and not just doing it because her BF/Husband wants her too.

In the first case. I didn’t do anything until the man’s wife put her feet in my hands. In the end, I want to have a FaceTime with her and him (so I can read her body language) or even a one to one convo with the woman before participating going forward.
 
I got approached by a man to tickle his wife in a public place. In other situations, it’s usually the guy who approaches.

My thought is, I need to know that the woman wants it to happen and not just doing it because her BF/Husband wants her too.

In the first case. I didn’t do anything until the man’s wife put her feet in my hands. In the end, I want to have a FaceTime with her and him (so I can read her body language) or even a one to one convo with the woman before participating going forward.

Listen... I have had a few couples where one of them is too shy to ask me, and I frankly state that I'm not agreeing with it unless they both give their consent. Shyness is one thing, but if they expect me to allow them to lock me in restraints or vice versa, no one has time for that. We're about to touch each other, so I need to know if you both really want this. I have to feel that I am giving them both pleasure, and not just one of them, so I definitely agree with you.

Still... I wish the woman would find her voice. It's so wonderful when she does. I like hearing what she wants and her goals for the session too.
 
My best, most brutal, most liberating experience as Lee to date was couple tickling. Sadly, I think it will not be repeated. Fun couples are few and far between, being replaced with cuckold males, or cheating individuals.
I too have had conversations that start of well, only to completely change tack when an SO is mentioned.
I understand you must properly vet potential play partners, particularly when you're a couple perhaps inviting someone into your home. However there seems to be an almost dark undertone to something I have always thought should be fun. 🤷🏻‍♂️
 
I've been very fortunate to be in alot of these situations over the years, in both filming clips and just for fun with friends at home and at gatherings. And they have always been just pure fun, joy and happiness in one package that is hard to describe.
 
My best, most brutal, most liberating experience as Lee to date was couple tickling. Sadly, I think it will not be repeated. Fun couples are few and far between, being replaced with cuckold males, or cheating individuals.
I too have had conversations that start of well, only to completely change tack when an SO is mentioned.
I understand you must properly vet potential play partners, particularly when you're a couple perhaps inviting someone into your home. However there seems to be an almost dark undertone to something I have always thought should be fun. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I find that the best/ easiest place for me to have a chance to vet and communicate with both persons is at events. We get to see each other face to face, and we really get a chance to decide if there is a good fit, chemistry, and a desire to play from all parties.

As cool as that is, I also know that events are very hard to come by. I've also found some great couples via a friend of a friend of a friend. But just straight up contact from a guy? It has never panned out. Zero times have I spoken to the wife.

Now I will say that I did have a wife of a couple contact me once. But my best friend and then my mother passed away at the same time. I just.... I'm still grieving, but during that time, I was trying to make it day by day. I felt I waited too long to respond to her. It was months and months before I could even.... I couldn't think about tickling or connecting then. But still.... That one is on me. 😓 I feel like it's too late to fix it.

Another couple "pretended" they were into tickling, missed my event, but contacted me later that same day to meet them at a dungeon for a different type of play. BLOCKED 😂

I will not pretend that connecting is easy. But it's SOOOOOOO worth it when the magic happens. 💕
 
I've been very fortunate to be in alot of these situations over the years, in both filming clips and just for fun with friends at home and at gatherings. And they have always been just pure fun, joy and happiness in one package that is hard to describe.

I love that sooooo very much! Perfect way to describe it. 💖
 
I find that the best/ easiest place for me to have a chance to vet and communicate with both persons is at events. We get to see each other face to face, and we really get a chance to decide if there is a good fit, chemistry, and a desire to play from all parties.

As cool as that is, I also know that events are very hard to come by. I've also found some great couples via a friend of a friend of a friend. But just straight up contact from a guy? It has never panned out. Zero times have I spoken to the wife.

Now I will say that I did have a wife of a couple contact me once. But my best friend and then my mother passed away at the same time. I just.... I'm still grieving, but during that time, I was trying to make it day by day. I felt I waited too long to respond to her. It was months and months before I could even.... I couldn't think about tickling or connecting then. But still.... That one is on me. 😓 I feel like it's too late to fix it.

Another couple "pretended" they were into tickling, missed my event, but contacted me later that same day to meet them at a dungeon for a different type of play. BLOCKED 😂

I will not pretend that connecting is easy. But it's SOOOOOOO worth it when the magic happens. 💕
I’m so sorry about your loss. Over time it does get easier but that hole never goes away. Stay strong! 😘 Yeah definitely meet at a public spot first…I’m not about to be a story on the ID Channel 🤪
 
@Sunriseticklee, This is such a great portrayal of tickling with a couple involved! I appreciate you bringing this up because my wife and I come across the same negative encounters that you mentioned all the time and it can be easy to feel like we're some of the very few that get it. We're very selective and careful about who we play with, and it can get tiring sorting through the cheaters, pretenders, etc., but feels so great when there is the occasional solid, organic connection. Any play we do with others is always as a couple and it's a special experience we get to share in together. Under those conditions, there's such a great raw human energy exchange that tickling facilitates so well. It's hard to explain why we like sharing tickling with others, but I keep going back to how tickling is like a language. And like how it's fun and interesting to talk with a variety of people, the same is true for tickling. I think it has taught us more about tickling, about others, and most importantly, about each other.
 
@Sunriseticklee, ....Any play we do with others is always as a couple and it's a special experience we get to share in together. Under those conditions, there's such a great raw human energy exchange that tickling facilitates so well. It's hard to explain why we like sharing tickling with others, but I keep going back to how tickling is like a language....
That energy! Yes!!! Exactly that!

I think that exchange is exactly what I feel. I love the energy that emanates from each touch. Feels so amazing. It's so much fun! And a good couple feeds off each other. I adore it!
 
I find that the best/ easiest place for me to have a chance to vet and communicate with both persons is at events. We get to see each other face to face, and we really get a chance to decide if there is a good fit, chemistry, and a desire to play from all parties.

As cool as that is, I also know that events are very hard to come by. I've also found some great couples via a friend of a friend of a friend. But just straight up contact from a guy? It has never panned out. Zero times have I spoken to the wife.

Now I will say that I did have a wife of a couple contact me once. But my best friend and then my mother passed away at the same time. I just.... I'm still grieving, but during that time, I was trying to make it day by day. I felt I waited too long to respond to her. It was months and months before I could even.... I couldn't think about tickling or connecting then. But still.... That one is on me. 😓 I feel like it's too late to fix it.

Another couple "pretended" they were into tickling, missed my event, but contacted me later that same day to meet them at a dungeon for a different type of play. BLOCKED 😂

I will not pretend that connecting is easy. But it's SOOOOOOO worth it when the magic happens. 💕
You have beern through quite a lot, yet somehow, like your name, shine very bright. 🌞
I could talk about tickling all day with like minded people, so events are my favourite. Unfortunately down here we don't have tickling specific events or munches. I have been known to talk the ear off those who come near me at general kink gatherings though, and have since earned the nick name tickleguy.
Oh well ............ I've been called worse. 🤷🏻‍♂️😂
 
I have been invited to couple tickling recently. I responded to a post, and chatted with the guy first. I'm gonna lie, I was skeptical at first. It took a better part of a year before any consistent chat took place. I told him I would like to hear from his girlfriend as well and if she was truly into it. Sadly she was barely online, which made me more hesitant.

When a day was finally set, we met up for a chat. He wasn't full of it, as well as she was fully game. She also let me know why she is barely online. In fact, the three of us were chatting so much about what we have in common and past experiences, I forgot we were there to have a session!

When we got to it, he bound her up and said I should begin first. So I did, and he joined in a few minutes later. The session lasted 2 hours and we chatted a bit more before parted ways. A few weeks later, he reached out again to invite me to another session. There she complemented my style of tickling and enjoyed how both me and her boyfriend worked together. To this day, they reach out to invite me when they get a chance to join them!
 
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