tickling works as a turn-on for non fetishists?

[andy2]

im still pretty young, but with my experience among girlfriends and such, ive noticed that every girlfriend of mine has been turned on by tickling. both with giving and taking it. its not something that ive ever talked about before, but its not like its hard to tell. with my current girlfriend, we tickle each other all the time, and the tickling most always evolves into... well.. more than tickling 😉
am i just getting lucky here with the girls i date? could be... what im starting to think is that people in general find tickling attractive, atleast to some degree. i know there are exceptions, but from my experience tickling is almost just as an effective turn on as most others. anyone else get these same vibes from people?

back to the girlfriend situation briefly, i highly suspect she enjoys being tickled, i know she likes tickling me, and she knows that i like being the ler/lee. im trying to figure out whether she has the fetish or not. if she does, im sure she isnt aware of it. i need to somehow try to "activate" it, if that is even possible. she struggles at times when i tickle her, but not much, except for her feet. i asked her once if the tickling bothered her, and she said no, but that was it. maybe i should bring up tickling for conversation again? ive used subtle comments before, such as i pointed out once how tickling lead to a very passionate kiss (which is most always does..) she didnt say anything, you suppose that was a little weird? i never have done this before, but im contemplating bringing up the fetish topic with her. that would be...interesting. im sure most people who are into tickling dont know about the whole fetish thing that goes along with it. in that context, the idea of a fetish would sound a little strange, wouldnt it?

 

[Mitchell]

Tickling can work as a turn on for non fetishists as well, as it can be a source of physical communication, and a prelude to physical intimacy. I've enocuntered girls in my life. (Ones who were just friends) who said they love to be tickled, and they didnt have a tickle fetish. It can just serve to stimulate the physical and sexual senses at times. I also have female snail letter pals, and when I've asked them tickle questions, a few of them have said they love to be tickled as well. It depends on the girl, but it can happen.

Mitch

 

[tickledorange]

Benefits of Laughter

 

[sugarmouse]

ticklin features inmost sex manuals.,,not that i read about sex alot of course..but it hitnk most folks find it a bit of a turn on

 

[tommytikl]

Your girlfriend could very easliy have the fetish or not, but she is probably shy to the subject...I would say don't push it too much, if she shys away from your questions, then just let it sit there, mostly just enjoy the ride.
Oh and I wouldn't call it a fetish,at least at first, that "labeling" of tickling might scare her...you might want to call it an "interest" or your way of forplay.

 

[featherfingers]

Tommy hit the nail right on the head! When I told a friend of mine about my tickle lady and what I do to her, my friend replied, "Oh, so it's foreplay!" In my case, yes, but without the usual results (she's just a friend and I know her boyfriend) So, that leads me to believe that non-fetishists have been living right in our own backyard, they're just not as fixated on tickling or feet or whatever as we are.

 

[chrisheaven]

ticklin features inmost sex manuals.,,not that i read about sex alot of course..but it hitnk most folks find it a bit of a turn on

absolutely- it is great fun

 

[magic fingers]

Andy, in my opinion, you're putting way too much thought into this. There are countless threads on this forum written by guys who are upset because their gfs/wives hate being tickled, or aren't ticklish, so consider yourself lucky. Who cares if they have a tickle fetish or not? As long as they enjoy it, then stop worrying, and start tickling!

 

[steph]

I think it's a matter of the "If you build it, they will come." Andy~you might be on some subconscious way "putting it out there" somehow and the right girls are responding. Like attracts like, see? 😛
I know for me, since just joining up here, I'm getting "gotten" a lot more and at times I least expect it. I figure I'm thinking about it a lot more, it must show somehow. I'd enjoy it if I were you! Have fun!

XOXO

 

[nontkl]

Tommytikl I think said alot of great things....my experience has been that tickling DOES turn girls on....EVEN girls that say they hate it.....it OFTEN leads to kisses and also in the context of sex (I'm going to talk explicitly here...) I've found that tickling a girl during or right before sex actually....how do I say....arouses her down there......like in floods! Almost without fail. I agree strongly don't use the word "fetish"....I have scared off many girls who were already quite willing by talking about it......especially since once you talk about it...it's hard to stop! (lol!)