Ticklish feet

[Mommy_3]

Hey guys, I was wondering if you guys had any suggestions for my situation. I didn't really know my feet were ticklish until 3 years ago because nobody ever tickled my feet. My boyfriend is into tickling and he helped me discover that they were ticklish. He would tickle them every now and then and they were real ticklish. All of a sudden the feeling is gone. I thought it was because I wore flip flops a lot so I stopped. I started going barefoot more. It came back for a little bit and then went away again. Then it came back only in certain places. The trend continues. Now I have this job where i wear tight shoes and my feet hurt and alot and are tired all the time. I dont know if it is because I am holding a grudge about something, if the flip flops messed my feet up, my feet just need a real good massage to relieve tention or should a different tickling technique be used. Or if it is I am just not ticklish there no more. This happened to my upperbody where my feet were only ticklish. Now it seems to have flip flopped. Any suggestions? And please dont offer to give me massages because I do have a boyfriend.

 

[venray]

Get yourself a good professional pedicure and use a warm massage or baby oil on your feet when you and your boyfriend try again...

and try not to think about it, relax and just let what happens happen..overthinking and focusing too much can actually do more harm then good....a glass of wine to relax couldnt hurt either and may help set the mood....

 

[the wiz]

I agree with Venray

It seems you want it so badly that your mind over ride the sensation. Have your boy friend soak your feet in Johnson's foot soak. Use a hot wax machine to help soften the skin. You need to relax more also. Ask him to give you a full body massage without trying to tickle you a couple of times. It will come back once your mind is more at peace.

 

[Mommy_3]

Yeah that's probably it. I have been stressed and thinking about how I can get it going again. It also doesnt help that he wants it bad to. Ill take that advice. Do you think walking around barefoot could mess it up. I mean it had stopped before i started going barefoot. It actually came back somewhat when I did.

 

[the wiz]

everyone is different
some people can go barefoot and still can be extremely ticklish. Others it will cause them to loose sensitivity.

I know how he feels, to find a woman who never been into tickling turns out loves to be tickled is like finding an 1 million dollar lotto ticket. tell him to spend it wisely. don't rush it.