TMF Chatroom....STINKS

[chrisheaven]

thanks--this has just reminded me why I never go there

 

[Mitchell]

In reply to Poid's post in particular. I do agree with most of what he said. There are limited alternatives, and the idea of taking it for what it is worth is a good one. I will add one thing to what he said, and I think Poid and I may differ on this. While I, too, believe in "taking it for what it is worth", so to say, I do realize daddy's frustration with how things can get in there. Many of us who have been TMF members for a long time as daddy and I have see how things have changed in the room. Additionally, for myself, and Iam sure for others, too, I see the chat as an escape from every day life pressures of work, family, and other issues. While Poid accurately points out that all of us have far more important, and serious life problems, other than TMF or the chat, to me this is exactly the point. I think that daddy's frustration, and I know my frustration too at times, comes from the fact that one wants a pleasant, happy place to escape from every day life.
Unfortunately, daddy, while Iam in agreement with you about many of the things you say in your post, we alone cannot change TMF chat. That is up to the chatters. We are a part of that, but cannot do it ourselves. It is expected that in any community things will grow and change over time, but I think it would be nice if people read these posts and attempted to examine what was said in them, to attempt to change some of the issues discussed here, to perhaps make the chat a livlier and more happy place. Only my view.

Mitch

 

[vegasfootboy]

Well folks...I went into the TMF chatroom tonight hoping for some intelligent conversation about our shared passion...what a freakin mistake. I am usually one not to complain, but tonight was really just plain ass sick in there. Instead what I found was the intelligence of about 12-15 year olds. There was *nothing* tickling related and I was even made fun of by my long time screen name of daddy (aka: daddylonghair) People accused me of being a pedophile because of my screen-name. Naturally when I defended myself I was chopped down even more. I could not even convice them of the reason why we were all suppose to be there. They called me a whiner and a baby. There was no defense for me for after all, it is a computer screen and I was dealing with childlike minds. As of now, I will never go back there again. This was the worst. And what even makes it more intense is that I agree with Maxx on what this community has become. My god...it is just freakin tickling...

peace out,
daddy

im sorry to hear about that bro,, i think the change could be that we are getting older and a new generation is coming into play,, ive noticed very credible differences between our generations,,most people 30 or older have a different upbringing,, usually a stay at home mother who kept us in line and taught us to be respectfull of others,, i hate to generalize cause i know im setting myself up for a fall but the newer generation doesnt seem to have the same home foundation that the older one had while growing up,, with both parents working and most kids left to thier own devices,,attitudes have become more self involved and self centered,, spoiled almost,,respect for others is something a parent teaches a child,, if both parents are involved with work and spend little time instilling the necessary tools for proper socialization,, then the outcome will be a negative for certain,, i may be wrong,, and i know of single parents who do thier best to bring up thier kids,, but the changes are undeniable,,,

 

[Goatboy]

Daddy, I rarely post on here, and it is even more of a rarity that i go into the chatroom. I have found that one can only talk about tickling so long before it gets kind of boring. However, I had to respond to your post, because it greatly angered me to hear you were traeted that way. I have only been in the chatroom a few times where there were real conversations going on, and I remember that you were one of the people in there who made it worthwhile. So even though we only spoke once or twice, probably over a year ago, I am sorry for what happened. I hope you retunr to the chat room. i would hate to think that the day comes when quality people like yourself don't feel they have aplce in there.

 

[grippedchimp]

I don't understand: Why call someone a paedophile when they're going into an over-18's chatroom. I dunno, people are way too prude and I reckon they're hiding the fact that they may be paedophiles themselves, but I'm just spitting bile here.

Anyway daddy, these things happen all the time. I come across many xenophobics who just insult any non-Americans who come in when a moderator isn't about, yet the same people still offend their fellow countrymen just as much, not to mention people who seem to get "offended" by seemingly innocuous comments. Best thing to do is reach for your ignore button and tell them to piss off when you can't see what they're saying!

Of course, you wouldn't want to meet me in the chatroom. I'm armed with The Groin of Doom!(tm)...

 

[The Sean Man]

The Way I Look At It?

Chat rooms are like bars...sometimes it's a great place to go and relax with friends....other times it's filled with loud, drunken assholes.


The Sean Man